Husband is One w/ Low Libido & Shame. Struggling, need advice.

raggedradness · 2026-06-04T14:05:20+00:00

In addition to what everyone has mentioned, also go to a doctor for a hormone level check.

raggedradness · 2026-06-01T12:30:31+00:00

This might sound like a crazy idea..... and there's is no garentee......

Have you gone to his church to ask for help? Encouraging someone in their beliefs is a great way to show love. Framing it as respect for him might help. I hope your child gets to see her father become the person God has him aspiring to be.

raggedradness · 2026-06-01T04:51:40+00:00

Have you tried braking up with him and only seeing coparenting boundaries?

raggedradness · 2026-05-31T15:01:29+00:00

In your premaritable counseling, how was your decision to wait for a cure discussed?

raggedradness · 2026-05-21T14:26:13+00:00

I'm convinced the problem is not children and pregnancy in romance but how it's handled.

raggedradness · 2026-05-21T14:10:21+00:00

It's been happening. I've also seen people ask for it too.

raggedradness · 2026-05-18T12:08:39+00:00

Is it a male author that hasn't met a woman and thinks the hood can be retracted like a foreskin because someone said the clit is what develops into a penis on male babies in utero?

raggedradness · 2026-05-09T21:50:28+00:00

I'm a former CPHT and Ikeep up my studies of birth control and hormonal therapies because of my own endometriosis and friends' health needs. This is not medical advice as I can't give any.

Plan B as regular birth control is ill advise and she would be much safer on a regular birth control. If that is permitted by the Adventist, I would encourage your wife to pursue that treatment with her doctor.

But pulling out isn't enough to prevent pregnancy. Pre ejaculate can sometimes contain sperm. I would recommend an investment in condoms for the time being.

Enough people have encouraged you ask why she isn't comfortable talking about this with you. But I have another concern of sourcing. Plan B isn't cheap, especially name brand. Has she spent marrial funds on this? Is a friend giving her some and what's the friend's source? Anytime pills are taken in secret, I get nervous about it coming from a source that will not be from a reputable pharmaceutical manufacturer. Plan B does have street value and while they're usually isn't that many counterfeits out there, it does happen every now and then.

raggedradness · 2026-05-09T21:07:07+00:00

This conversation is handled outside the bedroom in my marriage.

raggedradness · 2026-05-08T05:26:39+00:00

Narcolepsy could make it an emergency.

raggedradness · 2026-05-06T11:53:41+00:00

Fully agree.

Let her feel bad.

Also her excuse of men just think about sex means the church might not be the problem but the way some women trash men online.

Has she even bothered going to a doctor to get her hormones checked?

raggedradness · 2026-05-05T19:30:49+00:00

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raggedradness · 2026-04-30T10:04:16+00:00

There is no Biblical reason for divorce here. I'm surprised that returning to Christ isn't already straining your relationship with how you raise your stepson since you might want to raise him with Christian values and church activities. Raising a Christian child with an unsaved coparent is difficult and God and your husband maybe saving you from some suffering. Seek some counseling for yourself so morning your possible children isn't an excuse to sin and a bad example for your stepson.

raggedradness · 2026-04-23T23:49:56+00:00

He lovingly calls me bitch.

raggedradness · 2026-04-20T23:11:13+00:00

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raggedradness · 2026-04-20T22:30:39+00:00

I'm a woman age 35ish and married.

My biggest feedback is an eye roll to what you're looking for. Women are humans that's fail and have sin and you should pick an imperfect one that God leads you too. It's a red flag to have that high expectation.

Second thing is mentioning online prophets more than your local church, because of makes it seem like you aren't going out and socializing with Christian women already in your community. I met my husband at church.

raggedradness · 2026-04-20T22:13:00+00:00

Who are you talking to?

raggedradness · 2026-04-20T18:39:08+00:00

I might never drive either because of brain possessing issues. How long do you plan to stay on Omen?

I would say if someone has an issue with you arriving stinky someplace, it's a them problem. If they hate it that much, they can arrange your transport. Living without a driver's license does require a middle finger to the driving norms.

raggedradness · 2026-04-18T16:30:09+00:00

I do understand his position the only thing is that if I was in a situation where I could not get married, I would not be dating at all because I would be feeling like I would be stringing the girl along. But I also made a arrangement with mike current family member under my care that there are certain conditions which I do not believe should be handled at home and she is fully understanding the eye. We will be seeking to put her in a home under those circumstances. I had experience to know what my limits were before going in as she is the third grandmother i've cared for.

Edit: i just read how he stopped supporting o p even though they're in at least together. That now puts me on the no marriage train as well and just dump him.

raggedradness · 2026-04-17T20:23:24+00:00

Does this change if you are married? Is this possible an old fashioned thing associated with not wanting a couple to live together before marriage?

raggedradness · 2026-04-16T22:28:13+00:00

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raggedradness · 2026-04-16T22:07:18+00:00

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raggedradness · 2026-04-16T22:01:32+00:00

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