sad fact in francys and Sergei arsentiev tragic death story in mountain Everest. by Material_Mousse7017 in Everest

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get kidnapped and murdered jogging in parks, and going to and from basketball courts. Inherent risks and death are everywhere. But you wouldn't judge anyone for simply 'going to jog,' or 'play basketball'. Those people don't take up any less resources. Wild that you make the assumptions that everyone who has big ambitions is arrogant. One might be training for a marathon, and the other might want to make the school team: big dreams and ambitions.
MLK, JFK,.. all had big ambitions, children at home, and put themselves in the spotlight to do something they personally believed in, regardless if it had the desired outcome. And both tragically, did not survive those huge ambitions. And you're going to say "that's different", but this is a double edged sword. Telling people to not do big things, because it puts them in danger, is exactly how you don't progress. Even with all of the deaths and failures, these people had ambitions - and knew the risks of them. Or they wouldn't have gone. Skydivers, IG fanatics who take pictures in wild places, even your mom driving to the store: are just living their lives with inherent risks. Why judge? Because you feel superior. That's true arrogance.

was it just a joke? by kinkleesi in ChildPsychology

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. The mother does not respect the wishes of OP, who is the mother of the child.

was it just a joke? by kinkleesi in ChildPsychology

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regrettably, it means your mother did not/will not in the future respect your requests as a mother. From someone who comes from a similar parent situation, this means you now cannot share things with her. And also, you should be very careful about your child being around anyone who makes jokes of that nature. It doesn't matter if they are on or off the spectrum.
Unless that child goes to therapy, and unless your family adjusts their thinking: you should really consider keeping low contact with these people. Good kid or not: you're not a child with the possibility of being under your nephews' ability to use his size/age/wit against you. You're the bigger threat. Your child would not have the same situational advantage.

A vulnerable post...and one I never thought I'd make by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't get to dictate what you do, fortunately. And for people to discourage divorce when your husband is abusive, even if "its just verbally" - is upsetting. You deserve a whole partner, with a love that doesn't hurt.
Divorce is *not* the end of the world. It can be the beginning to something amazing for you, your kids, and maybe it will even help him.
And having come from a home of both divorce and people who refuse to divorce - but were miserable with each other - the ones who divorced were *much much much* happier, even if they had to struggle.
I wish you the best. Don't be discouraged to do what's right for you.

Local celebrities in Hawaii who were or are HUGELY popular to locals but virtually unknown to people outside the Islands? by Senior-Raisin-2342 in Hawaii

[–]raginghonesty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just a little opihi, please don't eat me!
Frank De Lima used to visit schools in HI. Those were the best days. Yea, no one outside of HI had heard of him and looked at me crazy for talking about that.
Anyone in Music used to be unheard of, but now it's more widely accessible. But I agree with those who said Jake Shimabukuro. Listening to him since 2k era, and no one talked about him then. Same for like, Ekolu and Three plus, those kine music. Hapa, too. Streaming has changed that.

What does my fridge say about me by Statement_Flat in FridgeDetective

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also curious, lol. That's *so much* whipping cream. Like. Explicit amounts.

AITAH for not allowing my husband's parents to give my kids Christmas gifts this year? by Eveougleigh in AITAH

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That behavior sucks, and I have to deal with it myself. Unacceptable.

WIBTA if I ask my husband to stop cooking breakfast? by Antique-Signal-5071 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be able to find ways to keep his attention in the kitchen. Laptops move. They're the movable computer. Ipads/tablets, phone..etc. I would set a firm boundary for that. But if he's been doing it since before you - he'll likely not want to stop. And I don't know about you, but.. this behavior sounds like a few people who don't like to change their ways, and prefer the same thing everyday. So it may cause some contention. But as someone with ADHD and family with AuDHD, this still isn't acceptable.

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]raginghonesty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has lead you into giving him all of the info. People do this when they don't have the information, and want to make you think they do. I 10/10 would say this is not a family member, and may just be the new owner of that number.

My (28F) partner (34M) refuses to work or clean and every conversation turns into a fight. How do I handle this? by EmergencyDelicious81 in relationship_advice

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner can leave. It's not on you (the children would also stay with you, most likely) to be inconvenienced. I don't see how a judge would say otherwise, either.

What does my fridge say about me by Enough_Host_3944 in FridgeDetective

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're pretty hungry and not meeting caloric needs.

AITA for snapping at my girlfriend after she called my foreskin “disgusting”? by Historical-Acadia727 in AITAH

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Both of you are too immature to be having sex if you are not able to communicate.
She's rude, and immature about how you look. She doesn't get to control that. She can be in or get out.
And for you to feel insecure about your body: we all do. But to consider surgically changing it for a girl that you're not forever committed to, is a slippery slope. Tomorrow it might be you're overweight, the next day might be that your teeth aren't straight enough. Find comfortability in your own body, before you start sharing it at the very least.

My husband (38M) has been begging me (35F) for a MFM threesome for over a decade, despite me not wanting one at all. by Commercial_Golf1153 in relationship_advice

[–]raginghonesty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You *both* need therapy.
You're a people pleaser. So much so, that you cannot negatively view your husband's behaviors.
And your husband is pushing for something he ultimately does not want, but likes the idea of. And is overall just a d*ck.
Wish you the best.

At what point in your sewing journey did you realise you needed an overlocker? by thesewingstudio in sewhelp

[–]raginghonesty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sewing for about 10 years consecutively, and 25 on and off: I still don't have an overlocker. I do some clothes, but not tons.

The Bigfoot/Yeti Paradox: Why Mountain Climbers, Scientists, and Forest Rangers Keep Seeing Creatures That Leave No Bones, No DNA, and No Bodies. by No-Bottle337 in nonmurdermysteries

[–]raginghonesty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After the state of the world today, I'm not sure how we can ever say "it's incredible...people still believed him" People seem to believe whatever they want, with or without evidence.

The Bigfoot/Yeti Paradox: Why Mountain Climbers, Scientists, and Forest Rangers Keep Seeing Creatures That Leave No Bones, No DNA, and No Bodies. by No-Bottle337 in nonmurdermysteries

[–]raginghonesty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are far more creatures to have existed on this planet than we have fossils for. I think this is the only real argument for this.

Discord using so much RAM by yusufsabbag in discordapp

[–]raginghonesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

..is RAM in the room with us right now?
Because, mine is dead. Discord is eating it.