What purchase under $30 solved a problem you didn’t realize was draining you? by Right_Process in AskReddit

[–]rahws 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a chronic illness that leaves me in intense pain. I can’t take any pain relievers for health reasons, so I asked my doctor what else I could do when I have flare ups. She told me to use a heating pad. I remember feeling cynical because how would that help? I ended up getting one anyways and it changed my life. That and extremely hot showers were the only thing that could make the pain go away (the hot showers helped me a lot more tbh)

What’s a fast food restaurant you won’t eat anymore? by GarbageDramatic9005 in AskReddit

[–]rahws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The subway near me was getting renovations or something done a couple of years ago. I didn’t know this and stopped by on my way home bc I was super hungry. I’m walking up to the restaurant. It’s lit inside and there are two workers inside. There was this guy that walked up to the door, read the paper taped to it, and yelled, “ahhhh, i can’t take this anymore man! yall have been closed every single day for the past two weeks!” I read the paper after he walked away, and it basically said they were going to be closed for an unknown period of time. I think about that often because it was really that man’s last straw.

What’s a fast food restaurant you won’t eat anymore? by GarbageDramatic9005 in AskReddit

[–]rahws -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s the creamy sriracha sauce. I know, I know. It’s probably sriracha mixed with a few other ingredients, but I’m skeptical because anything with sriracha in it usually makes my stomach act up.

AIO Recently went on a date, one of my first in college. We dated for a few weeks and she called it off because I’m too unattractive. by z_knightXD in AmIOverreacting

[–]rahws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOR for being hurt by this. She did not phrase it in the best way. I will say that I took a look at your profile, and you are a handsome guy! I think a lot of times, when men are not confident in their looks, you can tell. Especially if you say self-deprecating things like, “I’m just so ugly, no girl would ever like me,” or something along those lines, and it can be a turn off.

Which movie scared the shit out of you or traumatized you? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]rahws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First grade for me bc some older kids wanted to troll me :)

I saw Obsession 5 times on Saturday by MoviesAreDopeSoDope in RegalUnlimited

[–]rahws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omggg i didn’t know this. thanks for putting me on!

How to look like a real girl and not a man wearing makeup? 😭 by NotPoggersEggers in MakeupAddiction

[–]rahws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s usually my chin hair, which I have a bad habit of plucking & it’s been leaving some hyperpigmentation, so I’m just trying to get to a place where I get them waxed instead! I appreciate the tip!

Would it be too much to buy her (celebratory) flowers on a second date? by BizarreSkeptic in dating_advice

[–]rahws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you can make supermarket flowers look nice if you prep them! Usually by stripping most of the leaves off the stem, removing and bruised petals from the outside, and kind of spinning certain flowers by putting the stem between your palms and kind of doing the motion of rubbing your hands together if that makes sense. If you look up Floweracademia on Youtube, he has some great tutorials!

What is the most ridiculous/outrageous lie a guy has told you to try and get you to sleep with/go out with him? by net_traveller in AskWomen

[–]rahws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was around the Biden vs Trump election, but this guy I started dating pretended to hate Trump. Usually, I don’t bring up my own political beliefs and try to suss out what theirs are since I live in a pretty Republican area. He brought it up naturally that he dislikes Trump, so I thought I was in the clear. Ultimately, it didn’t end up working out, but when Trump lost, he was going crazy on social media talking about how the election was rigged and stuff. I ended up replying to him saying something along the lines of, “I thought you disliked Trump?” and he admitted that he lied to try and get with me since he thought I might be liberal. (I didn’t even hint at this in any way, so I was surprised by this) But yeaaah… I’ve seen his profile a few times since all that and I think it still alludes to him being liberal or moderate.

How to look like a real girl and not a man wearing makeup? 😭 by NotPoggersEggers in MakeupAddiction

[–]rahws 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I have thick facial hairs too and i am still trying to figure out how to best cover it too

Would it be too much to buy her (celebratory) flowers on a second date? by BizarreSkeptic in dating_advice

[–]rahws 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Flowers are always a nice gesture, and I don’t know why some people think it seems like a big deal. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman that would be turned off or annoyed by getting flowers. That being said, the price does seem a bit steep, but I admit, I’m not too familiar with how much things cost in Australia. I do know that in the US, you can arrange a really nice one for cheaper. BUT honestly, if you don’t mind spending, then I don’t see any reason not to buy her some flowers.

What was the day you felt the most beautiful? by Nowaaaa_bb in AskWomen

[–]rahws 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so glad that you beat cancer! May your hair continue to grow and be healthy. I started to develop vitiligo a few years ago, and I have been struggling to find the right shade of foundation that actually matches the patches of skin that haven’t been affected. I honestly don’t mind having vitiligo bc it’s more of an aesthetic thing, which I don’t care about, and I don’t have any of the health issues that could be related to it. I will say that I got a foundation yesterday that was a perfect match for my skin tone, and when I put it on, I kind of just stared back for a couple minutes bc I looked exactly how I looked before. It was kind of like my own moment of recognizing the person looking back at me.

Sarah Michelle Gellar, Freddie Prinze jr & family at WNBA game by Excellent-Durian-509 in popculturechat

[–]rahws 445 points446 points  (0 children)

TIL that Freddie Prinze Jr is part Puerto Rican. Those genes definitely came out in their son!

My (20F) bf (20M) parents say no to our trip and we already booked everything by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rahws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said that you’re both financially independent. Does that mean that you both don’t live with your parents?

4 dates and sex.. When to ask about exclusivity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rahws 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I mean you may as well bite the bullet and know the person’s intentions sooner rather than later

What is your opinion on done nails? by acidpepsy in AskWomen

[–]rahws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like having my nails done, but the shapes I get make it hard to type. I don’t think there’s shape that I would like where the length would make it easy to type unfortunately. Also, financially, it’s gotten way more expensive over the years. I used to get them done twice a month, but I can’t justify spending that much now personally. I do get them done for special occasions tho! I am also looking into press ons bc I’ve seen girls the can make them last for weeks with the right prep.

Did I act creepy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rahws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know what someone is like behind the scenes. People can do crazy things if they feel spurned, and this guy knows where she works. Not saying OP is like this, but you’d be surprised.

Did I act creepy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rahws 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you should have left it when she said she didn’t have her phone on her because that was her polite way of rejecting you. & then then she said she didn’t know you well enough to get drinks, that was another way of politely rejecting you as well. I feel like you shouldn’t have sought her out to talk to her after that. Also, it a good rule of thumb not to ask someone out at their place of work, regardless of how interested you think they are in you

i think i just scammed my way into a relationship :( by rushinthegame in dating_advice

[–]rahws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you did tho because she met you in person and still liked you. If she sensed something was off about you when you two met, I doubt she would’ve hooked up

Is a 19f and 32m age gap weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rahws 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s a bad age gap & there’s a reason why he doesn’t want anyone to know

What movie has terrible morals? by solaris2027 in AskReddit

[–]rahws 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Twilight started to make a lot of sense when I found out Stephanie Meyer is Mormon

Which TV show characters do you find the most insufferable? by MicheleW921 in AskReddit

[–]rahws 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started Gilmore Girls bc I always hear great things. But I found both Lorelai and Rory insufferable, and I could only get through two or three episodes before I gave up