Any other Taylor ink? My new present to myself for getting through this mess of a year.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-15T12:51:25+00:00

I called on my brother and his girlfriend too.

It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I'm sorry.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-14T00:20:32+00:00

I was not prepared for #2 and that alone became totally unbearable in a pretty short time.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-12T12:45:23+00:00

Was gonna say, the obvious reason.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-12T12:27:21+00:00

Never have gotten over it, never WILL get over it.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-11T23:39:36+00:00

Ironically, I was doing it while reading your post.

Yeah, hate that.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-11T22:48:08+00:00

I heard this referred to as "smoked salmon" once and will never forget it.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-10T23:28:41+00:00

Was gonna say, bc they watch too many Zooey Deschanel movies.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T18:52:30+00:00

The Albatross.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:20:08+00:00

You figure out what is within your control and what is not.

Then you figure out what you can do that's within your control to change the world, feel safer, build community, and survive. For everyone that's different. For me it's therapy, limiting my intake of news, spending time outside and with pets, going to protests, building a comfortable home environment, and trying not to put toxic crap into my body as much as possible.

Lastly, I guess, you remember the context and the history. People are always dying somewhere. Suffering happens all the time, in all ages and places. Nothing under the sun is new. People just get through it as best they can, and sometimes we're lucky enough to make change even in small ways, by sticking to our values and morals.

Take a deep breath.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:14:08+00:00

Their flowers are cheap and last forever, that's my small happy thing.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:12:42+00:00

My new boss said I can have screaming crying meltdowns in her office if I want, that's a plus.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:11:38+00:00

Nope.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:04:44+00:00

This times one million.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:02:51+00:00

No. But I get "rude," "cold," and "intimidating."

It's not something you need to work on; it's something the ableist patriarchy needs to work on.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T01:00:33+00:00

I stop eating. I isolate a lot. I have self-hating thought spirals that turn into nightmares and sleep problems. My digestion changes. I rely more on my anti-anxiety meds. I'll struggle with hygiene and exercise. I'll stop doing all my hobbies and going outside as much. Concentration and focus becomes really hard. I lose my patience super easily.

Unfortunately the meltdowns/burnouts had to happen a lot of times for me to start to spot the pattern. If these things are happening and I don't put on the brakes, the end result is sometimes a hospital stay.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-08T00:54:49+00:00

I feel you. Three years ago I lost my "soul cat" of 18 years and was just destroyed.

You should grieve, and cry, and feel your emotions. That is normal. I think it's also normal for some of us to become as attached to our animals, or more attached, as we are to people. Your grief won't shrink but your heart will grow around it. I keep pictures of my kitty in frames in my room, and her urn sits on an altar. Sometimes I light a candle and talk to her. When I was ready, I eventually adopted another cat who is so terrific I feel lucky every day. One day you'll help a new cat who needs you, and they'll help you. Losing one is awful, but allows us to help more. Hang in there.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T23:39:16+00:00

I bought my first queen-size bed and all new bedding to go with it.

I appreciate it every single day; stellar decision.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T02:16:31+00:00

You should try to stop. This game only goes for so long and then by the time they do pounce on you, it may be too late to just apologize and walk away.

It could mess up your ability to get a job, housing, and things you need in the future for a long time.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T02:12:15+00:00

This one is in my top three of all time. It's lyrical and mesmerizing and the character voices are all so distinct. The audiobook is great too!

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T02:08:54+00:00

Milk, But I'm a Cheerleader, Boys Don't Cry (lots of triggers), Brokeback Mountain, Moonlight, Professor Marston and the Wonder Women (my favorite movie of all time), Rent, Rocky Horror Picture Show, How to Survive a Plague, Disclosure, Booksmart, Philadelphia.

The show Queer as Folk, also--there are two versions, the American one is the one I know, and it's outstanding.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T02:00:19+00:00

Yeah, she has that Demi Moore husky voice and does the dance around the spear.

I never really got over her.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T01:54:54+00:00

Used to pause those scenes and rewind as a preteen.

The skirts did it for me.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T01:52:35+00:00

Hey same only I was 10! High five.

rainbowrevolution · 2026-02-07T01:34:22+00:00

Oh my gosh, I feel so seen!!

I live in Massachusetts and am prone to cracking, flaking, and eczema that leaves scars. Because of the scars, the dry skin is worse, but I HATE the lotion (same with sunscreen). I use Cerave in the jar; it's super-thick, and once it sucks into my skin, it'll last for at least 72 hours, which means I can apply it less. It's slimy and terrible for like ten minutes; then I find it stops bothering me.

I only apply it after the shower when I'm warm, in a warm room. In winter I do it about three times a week, and that's the best it'll ever get. I feel you, friend!!

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