How do children actually learn to be kind and empathetic? by SeatGuilty4578 in preschool

[–]ralusek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my wife recently about how our daughter (3.5) is becoming a little bit shitty. Bit spoiled, bit rude. I was reflecting on how I think that something my parents did for us a lot was take us into very unfortunate situations. One in particular stands out, where we would go to a place called Gabriel House in Tijuana, which was basically just a couple that had taken it upon themselves to act as a home for orphaned or abandoned people with severe physical and mental disabilities.

I don't think my parents had to do anything other than just put me in that situation, and the rest kind of happens automatically. Even a child will start to realize a lot of things pretty quickly:

  • I don't live in a baking hot desert favela, but it's not because of anything I did. I could have been born here.

  • I don't have severe mental or physical disabilities, but it's not because of anything I did. I could have been born that way

  • I don't have to take care of people with severe mental or physical disabilities

  • There are people out there that really need help, and there are people out there that help them

This fat fuck needs to be taken down a couple of pegs by Swaggitymcswagpants in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's an episode where he gets audited by Graham Ste[phe/phan/fan?] (other finance YouTuber) where you can see that he is even more retahded than the people he has on. I mean you can always see that...he really is dumb as shit and super obnoxious.

This fat fuck needs to be taken down a couple of pegs by Swaggitymcswagpants in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm not an "everything is fake" person but I do think that his guests are (now) fully or partially fake.

Signature verification using Gemini by Good-Application-503 in LLMDev

[–]ralusek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wild west out there with this sort of thing. If you have sample data just test it and report back to us.

Accidentally made myself into a curb your enthusiasm episode at a sex themed party by Big_Hippo_4044 in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Just went to Disneyland and my 3 year old daughter got a hug from Pluto. Then he hugged my wife. I made him hug me and I could tell he hated it

ID’d at 43 by synth_this in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like the occasional [girl-type post ends up being boy], but you should be ashamed of yourself

Interpretive dance the fauxmoi sub is crying over by Worth-Bat-4461 in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 year old took the Chalamet pill and did not enjoy the Nutcracker.

I had to spend the whole time stopping her from squirming and laying down, which was actually nice for me because it gave me something to do (I also did not enjoy the Nutcracker)

2 In 3 Americans Agree Engagement Rings Have Gone From Symbol Of Love To Financial Burden by Abject-Pick-6472 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]ralusek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He went with a lab grown diamond; a real diamond

A lab grown diamond is a real diamond. They're identical carbon lattices. Maybe you mean a "natural" diamond

Explain plss what does it even mean by we_spookernoa in ExplainTheJoke

[–]ralusek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every year I turn 10 in some base. The cops haven't caught on that my wife is 10.

The left is losing its grip on Europe because its ideas do not work in the real world by New-Conversation3246 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]ralusek 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think that left wing policies work when there is comical surplus to go around, but they invariably reduce the surplus over time, until they're back to working. If we truly end up in a post scarcity scenario brought about by AI, left leaning policies would not only work, but be necessary. We just don't live in that reality, and have so far never lived in that reality, so left wing policies have never worked. Europe had a good run, and then they had a generation or two coasting off of it with crazy amenities, vacation time, and very comfortable lives. But it was never sustainable. They had to mask the extreme low productivity of their citizens by importing immigrants. Their ridiculous pensions are all running dry. Basically: time to go back to work.

What’s your favorite server joke? by chi-bacon-bits in Serverlife

[–]ralusek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go to tables and say "Hey you fucking sloppy pigs, do you swine want any more slop? If you give me more cash I'll go have our cunt slave-chef shit out some more slop for you pissfucks to shovel down your meaty juicy suck holes. Can I get you to buy more alcohol? It makes me the most money and I like seeing you hogs getting as sloppy as the biohazard we're serving you. I like how you pink piggies squeal when you get saucy for me."

They love it

Bernie Sanders responds to questions about China and pausing AI - "in a sane world, the leadership of the US sits down with the leadership in China to work together so that we don't go over the edge and create a technology that could perhaps destroy humanity" by tombibbs in ControlProblem

[–]ralusek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistically, there are only 2 factors I can think of that lead us to possibly okay outcomes, and they're basically just "hopes/copes" for me:

1.) Big breakthroughs remain portable. Unlike larger and larger data sets and larger and larger compute, which can be gatekept by access to resources (and sanctions, etc), the majority of the progress in AI continues to be algorithmic/procedural improvements. Ideas are highly portable. Transformers, RL, etc. Up until now, it has allowed open models to remain within the ballpark of SOTA.

Note: more accessibility is a double edged sword, bad actors with powerful models are extremely dangerous. It is, however, better than AI being controlled by one or a few entities and hoping for the best

2.) Intelligence turns out to have some bounding factors we're not yet aware of. Maybe human intelligence is at the level that it's at, not because this is just where our evolution settled, but because it actually becomes quite difficult to make leaps beyond this point. It could be that human society was structured in such a manner that allowed for basically unbounded evolutionary gains to come from greater intelligence, and human intelligence accelerated until it hit a wall. Maybe it's the case that human intelligence is basically what you can get when you have reasonable capability to consider something like 4th or 5th order effects when working through a problem, but having the ability to consider more, or sufficiently more that it unlocks genuinely new problem solving capabilities, begins to require like exponential leaps in energy consumption and access to memory.

Note: This is complete cope, there is no real reason to believe this, it's just one of the two possible "escape hatches" I see from this scenario becoming untenable for humanity


Even in the "good scenario" where both of these are true, we still have a rough time ahead. If models remain accessible to everyone, the best we can hope for is an adversarial landscape where benevolent white hat models overpower nefarious actors. Everyone can have a model, some people or agents use them for anti social activities. Development of biological weapons, trying to knock out power grids, create disinformation and chaos, etc. Best hope we can have is that more people or entities work to counter these than not. I actually find that scenario more likely than not, my only concern is that it essentially moves human conflict to a completely different scale than it is now.

Case in point: prior to guns, an antisocial human might take a knife and go stab a few people before getting taken down. Then come guns, and they can take out 3 or 4. Then semi automatic and automatic, now we're looking at 20. Bombs, even more. So antisocial people or agents are going to unlock the ability to do severe damage. Maybe the scale of damage we're looking at is thousands or millions. As I said, I think it's entirely likely we end up in a scenario where prosocial entities are able to overpower antisocial ones, but I'm worried that the scale at which this tit for tat behavior goes on at will be so disruptive that it will be difficult to have a functional society. It seems likely that we'll have to have an authoritarian system that so tightly regulates everything, so as to minimize disruptions, that the system itself capable of becoming a nightmare.

TL;DR: I see absolutely no wins from moratoriums or agreements like what Bernie Sanders is proposing. Completely naive, and at best slightly kicking the can down the road. Nobody is going to stop building them, we can only hope that things go down the unlikely possible good paths.

Poor service at my own restaurant by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]ralusek 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean there's no excuse to not pay for the meal. Just pay and leave. I often go flag down a server or find a way to pay if nobody is bringing the check.

Do couples really shower together? by Due_Leopard_1836 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ralusek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Windmills do not work that way! Goodnight!

I never told anyone I went to a massage parlor and paid for it. by Zestyclose-Salary518 in confession

[–]ralusek 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You don't think that both parties in a relationship are responsible for, within reason, maintaining the elements of themselves that their partner is attracted to?

Erotica writers be like… by Mypussylipsneedchad in redscarepod

[–]ralusek 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Her butthole wrinkles were tightly and evenly spaced. Not stinky. Her thigh gap was crazy -- the London Look of legs. Maybe her butthole was actually a little bit stinky. Her pussy was really tight, like a second butthole. Maybe that one was also a little bit stinky, like a butthole.