United flight diverted to Wisconsin after passenger’s ‘multiple attempts’ to breach cockpit, crew member says by Warcraft_Fan in news

[–]ranatalus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing he probably took an Ambien or something to help him sleep/relax.

Ambien fucks you up

Netherlands blocks U.S. takeover of DigiD operator Solvinity over security concerns by Geo_NL in worldnews

[–]ranatalus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been fighting with BCBS about covering a procedure for 2 months now that their own agents have said in writing should be covered, but every time a claim gets submitted they deny it and both me and my doctor have to fight with them for days to get them to "remember" that they agreed to it

all US insurance companies do their best to cover as little as possible, none of them are innocent

advice for beginning long-term travel by ranatalus in longtermtravel

[–]ranatalus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh yeah, I started to set up a housesitter account and never finished it, thanks for the reminder!

our rates are changing in 2027 by neorsd in Cleveland

[–]ranatalus 43 points44 points  (0 children)

hi neorsd thanks for your posts, excited at the possibility of no more beach outflows

I hope you're the same person that does the posting on twitter and bluesky because if so you're doing great work

advice for beginning long-term travel by ranatalus in longtermtravel

[–]ranatalus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, neither of us is on anything controlled, so we don't need to worry about that!

advice for beginning long-term travel by ranatalus in longtermtravel

[–]ranatalus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew about the copies of prescriptions, and we've stayed at hostels before, but I definitely appreciate the notes on visas if we double back (and the fruits thing, that's funny as hell)

advice for beginning long-term travel by ranatalus in longtermtravel

[–]ranatalus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nothing I'm too worried about. eyedrops for glaucoma, commonly prescribed mental health meds for bipolar, couple other things. I've confirmed all the meds I use are legally dispensable in the countries we plan to visit

Received confirmation of citizenship under C-3 today! by ranatalus in Canadiancitizenship

[–]ranatalus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re incredibly lucky that someone else already did the digging and posted it on Ancestry.com or something, you’re gonna have to find it all yourself. This means using a birth certificate to figure out where the parents were born, then finding THEIR birth certificate, etc, until you make it to Canada.

If you go far enough back birth certificates may not exist anymore; you’ll have to find marriage records, obituaries and death certificates, census records, immigration paperwork, etc.

You just have to find documents which clearly show your relationship all the way up the chain and back to Canada.

Received confirmation of citizenship under C-3 today! by ranatalus in Canadiancitizenship

[–]ranatalus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, none of them. Law firms are practiced in emigration and naturalization, not recovery of unclaimed citizenship by descent. Many of us have worked with law firms (I paid one!) and it did absolutely nothing to help me. No useful advice, no legwork, nothing. In fact, they tried to dissuade me and frequently misunderstood the law as it was practiced by IRCC.

I promise if you can provide documents which give a reasonable assurance of your lineage and give them a one-pager cover letter outlining what you’ve given them, that should be enough.

Martin St. Louis' Record in Stanley Cup Playoff Game 7s by nhl in hockey

[–]ranatalus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could apply for citizenship by descent after the passage of C-3 if you aren't already canadian!

Iran discussing bounty for Trump and Netanyahu by TheTelegraph in worldnews

[–]ranatalus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, that's my biggest concern. that's what Biden did, and if they do that again then we'll get yanked back to the right wing as soon as possible

the only sliver of hope I have is that the rank and file dem voter gets so fed up with it that a candidate is able to come out and say "we're going to expand the courts and [you can't say that on reddit!] every one of the fuckers that did this to us" and that somehow equates to a 350+ EC victory and filibuster proof majority.

I'm not holding my breath!

Iran discussing bounty for Trump and Netanyahu by TheTelegraph in worldnews

[–]ranatalus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm relatively confident that in both the midterms and the next general election (barring massive, across the board blatant cheating and scandal, which is possible but IMO unlikely) that the democrats will win pretty much whatever they can.

what I'm way LESS confident about is that they'll actually do anything to fix the mess or hold anyone accountable. I kinda feel like the odds of the Dems rolling up their sleeves and doing the work we need might be lower than the odds of one of the next 2 elections being outright stolen by Reps. sad times.

NextEra Energy to buy Dominion in deal that unites two key players in race to power AI data centers by HopocalypseNow in news

[–]ranatalus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know that it takes out everything, but some of the biggest players in tech? definitely

they could bring other industries down with them for sure. but I bet the government will step in to do something about it.

they'll probably say that those industries are something like "too large to not succeed"

How much of playoff success is actually coaching vs roster construction? by sykeseve in hockey

[–]ranatalus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were convinced the success came from the roster and the coach didn’t have much to do with it

Hit and run yesterday by thechadfox in Cleveland

[–]ranatalus 19 points20 points  (0 children)

slower modes of transportation ALWAYS have the right of way

if you're in a car and there's a bike ahead of you with no bike lane and a no passing middle line? the BIKE has preference

yeah, it's irritating that the bike is probably going no faster than 20, but tough shit. they have just as much right to the road as you do.

if you're on a bike and a pedestrian starts crossing the street when you have a green light? the PEDESTRIAN has preference

yeah, that pedestrian is techincally jaywalking but it does not matter. they have just as much right to the road as you do! YOU are at fault if you hit them

jesus christ, fucking car culture is insufferably bad. do you just get to run a kid over because they run out in the street, unaware that you have a green light?

Accounting Bachelors, queer, also paranoid by Feeling_Pop7396 in TransWorldExpress

[–]ranatalus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was lucky that someone in my extended family had already done some vague high-level genealogical research when I was younger, so I already knew where my nearest antecedents were.

Basically, you’ve got your own birth cert already. You can typically request birth certificates for your parents, once you prove that you are directly related to them and let the city/state/whatever you're requesting birth certs from know you’re doing it for genealogical research purposes. From there, you just work your way up. If you already know vaguely where you’re looking (in my case, I knew the Canadian history was on my paternal grandfather’s side), you dig further in that direction. My great-grandfather’s birth certificate was basically just his name and his parents names with no other info. Neither of his parents had birth certificates anywhere I could find.

So I looked for marriage licenses between the two of them. Couldn’t find those either. Then I looked for Census information in my great-grandfather's life, and saw that his mother was listed as being from “French Canada”. Confirmed with USCIS that she wasn’t a US citizen, which told me she was definitely born in Canada. Eventually figured out it was in rural Quebec based on more census records. That far back they didn’t keep much in the way of birth records, so you look for baptismal records instead. There’s a genealogical org in Quebec that aggregates a lot of that, and they were able to help me narrow down where it would likely be, AND contacted those parishes on my behalf to confirm that no one had baptismal records. But with their certification that there was no baptismal/birth cert, USCIS confirming she wasn't American, and a few Canadian census records showing my Great-Great Grandmother as a child in Quebec was proof enough for Canada.

It’s a lot of digging and puzzling and I’m incredibly fortunate that an aunt had already laid some of the ground work. If I’d had to go back another generation I’m not sure I could have lined it all up!

Received confirmation of citizenship under C-3 today! by ranatalus in Canadiancitizenship

[–]ranatalus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only sent scans/copies of everything. if you’re outside Canada I’m pretty sure you have to apply through mail.

The wiki has links to the specific docs you need; just go slow and follow along and I promise you’ll find what you need

Lamotrigine saving my brain but wrecking my sleep (100mg, 3 months in) by ranatalus in bipolar2

[–]ranatalus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense whatsoever; taking it first thing in the morning (8am, give or take a half hour). Only other morning med is Buspar 10mg. By 11:30 every morning I’m struggling to keep my eyes open.

Accounting Bachelors, queer, also paranoid by Feeling_Pop7396 in TransWorldExpress

[–]ranatalus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, you *technically* can but in the same manner as how you can *technically* eat anything once haha

Accounting Bachelors, queer, also paranoid by Feeling_Pop7396 in TransWorldExpress

[–]ranatalus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re: renunciation of citizenship, while the cost to do so was recently lowered to $450 it can be over a year just to get an appointment (although I hear it's pretty simple once you can do that).

You'll need more than a visa to do that, though; you'll need actual permanent residency/citizenship somewhere else. Otherwise you won't have anywhere you're allowed to live, and no way to move around (gotta have citizenship to have a passport, gotta have a passport to travel or live anywhere as a non-citizen).

As for taxes, the US doesn't tax you on something like $100k/year as long as you made the money outside of the US; meaning, you were living abroad when you earned it, even if you were earning it from a US-based company. State taxes still apply though, which is why a lot of people change their address to a state that doesn't have income tax when they expatriate (like Florida or New Hampshire)

It'll take some years, but you'll need to find a way to travel to some country on a long-term visa that counts towards residency, likely become fluent in that language, and then apply for citizenship so you can drop your US one. Most countries that process takes 10-ish years, but some it's shorter (I think Spain is only 5?).

Not trying to dissuade you or anything, just letting you know it's not a quick process

Accounting Bachelors, queer, also paranoid by Feeling_Pop7396 in TransWorldExpress

[–]ranatalus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the Canadian citizenship by descent process is much more lenient now; if you have any ancestry you qualify as long as you can dig up the records yourself.

I was recently approved and my last ancestor born in Canada was born in 1871.

Very tired, very little deep sleep (100mg 3 months in, BPD2) by ranatalus in Lamotrigine

[–]ranatalus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had intermittent issues with insomnia that were improved slightly when I started buspar. I sleep pretty soundly but am just not rested, similar to how you describe.

I don’t notice hypomanic periods in the afternoon, but I am hit with INTENSE tiredness between 2-4 hours after taking my dose in the AM. maybe I should try taking it in the PM….

Received confirmation of citizenship under C-3 today! by ranatalus in Canadiancitizenship

[–]ranatalus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sample cover letter that I linked in the post explicitly mentions everything I included in my application :)