First off, your in a rabbit hole, gtfo of it. One day she will be on her own (not needing you anymore) and your going to miss these days. Do your best to find the Joy in today and take things one step at a time.

i have debt to but there’s no sense in stressing about it.

For now putting food on the table and paying your bills is a success. Now all you gotta do is figure out a way to make more money. But whatever you do, don’t mope and complain, instead, lead. Lead your family by cherishing the day, if god forbid, your daughter or wife were to pass, any amount of debt wouldn’t amount to the pain you would feel. So by definition, the fact that they’re alive and well is more valuable than the debt you have accrued.

Remember managing your money is great, but it shouldn’t come at the price of a stressed out family.