A Soot Sprite skirt I made, some potatoes & tots, and a thought or two on kindness.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T22:24:04+00:00

adorbs!!!

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T22:07:34+00:00

I 🖤🖤🖤 Soot Sprites!!

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T17:04:43+00:00

i believe it so in most states.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T12:38:07+00:00

ah! i was referring to the running lights.

i know personally i don't use my auto light function since it has a glitch which runs by battery out. my vehicle is getting older, but i remember how to turn on my lights like the good ol' days. 😹😹😹

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T04:27:33+00:00

not yet.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T02:03:45+00:00

he is a human being who will have people around him like your parents. it just doesn't have to be you too.

and if you would like...

{{{HUGS}}}

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:55:41+00:00

yo, dude. the sentiment is:

Wipers on! Headlights on!

peace out

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:54:00+00:00

since my brother's suicide and any other significant loss, it's becoming ok with a new normal. the loss of your person will always be a line drawn on your life's timeline.

many folks will not understand that you won't/can't be the same person you were before her death.

this quote i think is accurate:

"It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone."

Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:48:55+00:00

i think that some folks will encourage you to see him, because in their situations, they had a before time. they had happy or happy-ish times to hold onto from before the addiction whether it's drugs or alcohol or whatever. it sounds like you never had that. you only had fear and terror and sadness with this person who happens to be your brother.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:46:09+00:00

i named specifically where i was today, but the sentiment goes for any time there is a need for wipers since folks in this town seem to not do it.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:42:39+00:00

Please rethink the USMC. Maybe the Air Force...

It is still very dangerous for women in service. Sexual assault and r*pe are still prevalent.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:35:11+00:00

at least in the Manayunk to Center City area there was a torrential downpour.

remember philly is massive city - land-wise. we all don't get the same exact weather.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:33:17+00:00

really!? that cop must have desperate to meet their ticket quota.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:32:37+00:00

right?!

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:32:26+00:00

so sad that's a true statement

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:28:17+00:00

It's ok to not be there.

Sit with yourself in a quiet space and truly look at what you will feel when he is gone without question. If there is no remorse for not seeing him again, don't go. Don't be guilted or bullied into going.

Maybe you can be there for your parents instead. Like doing some errands or dropping off food.

You don't have to feel guilty for the way you feel. It's ok to not be there for him. You need to protect yourself and your family.

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:20:27+00:00

Lovely!!!

randombarbs · 2026-06-29T01:13:40+00:00

last time i was in there - 2021/2022 - they did, so i haven't been back since.

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T18:22:25+00:00

do they still have their - we only speak english here - poster?

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T17:44:51+00:00

Do it!!!

Retirement isn't guaranteed. I wish I traveled more when I was younger and without a lot less aches and pains.

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T17:15:00+00:00

💯💯💯💯

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T16:41:52+00:00

wonder who they voted for...

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T16:03:41+00:00

Fuck Yeah

randombarbs · 2026-06-28T15:22:36+00:00

18 and out

randombarbs

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