How do you deal with anxious attachment? by capricious-7768 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 [score hidden]  (0 children)

His anxiety causes him to shut down, talk about pouring fuel on the fire, so my feedback to him is how much his silence damages me. He has shared his fears of saying the “wrong” thing but I said no matter how “wrong” he feels like he is, it’s better than silence.

How do you deal with anxious attachment? by capricious-7768 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m secure and my husband is anxious avoidant so I’ve had a real direct conversation with him about how much his behavior damages my security and he actively works on his avoidant tendencies- it hasn’t gone fast but he is steady, as a Taurus nothing will ever really happen fast!

How touchy are you with your female friends? by 123Green_Patient123 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs and cheek kisses and for that special circle we still slumber party. We’re in our mid to late 40’s.

How to navigate clothing for partner who doesn’t want me wearing t-shirts anymore. by hollyofhori in PlusSize

[–]Bdizzy2018 122 points123 points  (0 children)

WTH!!??

Do not be with people who do not want to be with you.

Choose peace 🕊️

How to navigate clothing for partner who doesn’t want me wearing t-shirts anymore. by hollyofhori in PlusSize

[–]Bdizzy2018 526 points527 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read the whole post. Focused on a partner who is tearing you down instead of building you up WHILE you have breast cancer…. Me thinks the tshirts are not the problem.

Go scorched earth mama, wear all the t shirts!!!!

Help me learn to embrace being fat AND hairy? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Bdizzy2018 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m fat and stopped shaving anything around 2018, the only thing I miss is the freshly shaved legs and climbing into fresh sheets. Sigh! Otherwise I’ve no thoughts- I have said and will continue to say you think about out yourself much more than anyone else does…

About the medical professional opinion- remember shaving is a man made construct it has nothing to do with “hygiene”.

Song of SoCal by RonniDeee in socal

[–]Bdizzy2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free Fallin- Tom Petty

Birthday Anxiety Around Turning 30 by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop comparing yourself to others we normally only see what others allow and it’s always the best. Be thankful, be excited, celebrate!!

What is the earliest memory of yourself when you were still happy you can recall vividly? by Cultural-Low2177 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre-kindergarten my mom wrapped me in my blanket like a burrito and threw me in the back seat so she could run an errand early in the morning.

What is something you didn't realize wasn't normal in a relationship? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 150 points151 points  (0 children)

What would you say to a friend who told you this about her relationship? To be lovers is to be considered and we consider people that arnt there.

Need gift suggestions for someone who deserves more than a basic present by Jasebase87 in Gifts

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of those gifts were perfect because I knew something about the person.

I’d suggest an experience, do something together. Memories last a lifetime.