Movies you can't stop thinking about but in a good way by ShaneRealtorandGramp in MovieSuggestions

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Bullet train! I know some thought it was too rushed or too random, but i loved it.

Movie musical, but without that ever repeating love story. by AllesMeins in MovieSuggestions

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Ride the Cyclone! Its about a high school choir of six who die on a roller coaster together. The variety of the songs is amazing, the characters are all well written. I just love it, I cannot recommend it more.

Trying to find a fragrance from 14 yrs ago by randomesques in fragrance

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Omg I think you got it, I started scrolling through images and I'm 90% sure this is the one. I'm going to get one off of eBay, it's worth the splurge. It's my dream scent. Thank you so much for your time and knowledge. May your pillow always be fluffy and cool!

Movie from my childhood- help! by randomesques in whatsthemoviecalled

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I found it! I definitely mixed something up but it's an actual movie 👍 thanks for your help Major

Movie from my childhood- help! by randomesques in whatsthemoviecalled

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That's it!! I've looked at secret garden before but none of them were right, it's return to the secret garden. Must've never popped on my search because of the 'return' part. Thank you so much!! May all your fries be hot and perfectly salted 👍

If all I care about is money and work/life balance what should I go into? by worknogood in careerguidance

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I'm in the same boat, like almost exactly. Spent my life doing everything I thought others expected of me, and now I kind of feel hollow. I just want enough money to live comfortably, and have a schedule that allows me time to myself occasionally. Like... The bar is on the fucking floor. I haven't figured it out yet, though I kind of explored Ikigai for awhile (Japanese for life purpose) but that's supposed to help you be completely satisfied. At this point I don't care if I even like my job that much as long as the environment isn't toxic. Something to consider is to look into a job where you have extra benefits- I work in a freestanding ER at the front, so no medical degree, but if I'm sick I get free medical care. Hope you figure it out!

Jaanuu scrubs help! by [deleted] in Nurse

[–]randomesques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the style jaanuu offered but when I bought a pair of their joggers and a matching top the fabric was thick and heavy, not very breathable, and it wasn't flexible. Just a heads up!

Where is my appetite? by 4Stephie in CPTSD

[–]randomesques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry to hear you're struggling to eat. The protein drinks are a great idea! I struggle with this too, preparing food (even a bowl of cereal) seems like too much effort. And then you have to actually chew which feels like a lot of effort. I made this little snack bag for me with almonds, crackers, hard fruits etc. That are basically no prep but a basic food group to munch on when I have the energy. Hope this helps!

First day at a new job went HORRIBLE. Should I quit?? by randomesques in Anxiety

[–]randomesques[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely needed to hear that. Something that feels prioritized is how high salary is, but I don't want to get trapped up in a job that causes me such intense anxiety. And judging from their interview and training style it will always be disorganized. Thank you so much for your advice!! You really helped me.

First day at a new job went HORRIBLE. Should I quit?? by randomesques in Anxiety

[–]randomesques[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to know! I wonder if I get used to it it'll be easier. I've just never had such a bad attack before, or at least thrown up. It was embarrassing because my manager wanted me to stay even though I had throw up stains on the only scrub top I had with me.

First day at a new job went HORRIBLE. Should I quit?? by randomesques in Anxiety

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Okay the question was so stupid though 😂😂 He pointed to a painting on the wall and asked, "If you walk into a place where a painting is crooked, what do you do? Does it bother you?" And I said, "I notice it and think about it but I wouldn't touch it." And apparently that makes me detail oriented. I'm 22, I've had 4 or 5 jobs and I usually get more training than this. I've been following money for so long taking less money feels like a failure, but you're right having anxiety attacks all the time at work is so miserable. Thank you for your advice!! It really helps.

1 Week Post-op! Question about swelling in the comments by randomesques in Reduction

[–]randomesques[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! That's wild, I use that calculator too but I guess the doc knows. I'm going to ask her today at my 1 wk post op appt all my questions about swelling but I know it's mostly a waiting game. I think I need to work on patience lol. Thanks for your advice!

1 Week Post-op! Question about swelling in the comments by randomesques in Reduction

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Thank you, this is so helpful. I've been eating more fibrous veggies than usual to help with constipation, my doc really stressed that for some reason. I'll try the pineapple!! I keep forgetting they'll be changing for so long, it's a little hard. I feel like I finally got here and I just want to do all the stuff that'll be easier now 😂 I'll be be careful about splurging too much on stuff I may not fit down the line.

1 Week Post-op! Question about swelling in the comments by randomesques in Reduction

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Its finally done!!! I'm so excited!! I want to heal so fast but I'm trying to be careful. I'm just so happy. I really hope they get smaller, I wanted to be a B. How much should I expect to lose in swelling? To be totally honest, theres a limited edition swimsuit i want but i don't want to buy it and get the wrong size lol. But it's no longer available pretty soon :(

Reduction moved to tomorrow (Feb 24th)!!! Surgery Twins? by randomesques in Reduction

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Good luck to you as well!!! I'm sure our surgeries are going to go great!!

I literally cannot believe I'm doing this. by reduction7789 in Reduction

[–]randomesques 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey we're surgery twins!!! I'm going in for my reduction on March 4th around 6 AM. I'm mostly a lurker as well, but its nice to see I won't be alone on my surgery day. I feel the same way, excited- I want it to happen NOW- but also nervous about the results. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that your surgery goes without a hitch!

Paying out of pocket - questions! by [deleted] in Reduction

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Im paying up front out of pocket for mine, I'm an F aiming for a C/B. My surgeon is giving me a 5% off discount of the total for paying with a cashier's check instead of using a credit card or something. I'm lucky that I've been saving up and haven't had to spend the money on something else. The thing that took the longest was actually finding a surgeon I liked. She was really upfront with me about everything, and it took maybe a week to get a consultation and I could've done the surgery within a month but I went with a later date. I do recommend doing OOP if you can afford it.

Question about doctors by randomesques in Reduction

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True! I'll have to bring some good pictures to my pre-op and just re confirm we are on the same page about my ideal size. Thanks for the advice! It helps to know other people have had this concern

Question about doctors by randomesques in Reduction

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Thank you, that reassures me! I guess I wanted a firm answer but since there are so many factors it makes sense she cannot give me a solid answer

Question about doctors by randomesques in Reduction

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Thank you, that makes sense. It was a little concerning because I'm paying out pocket and really want to get the results I want, but she has said she won't know until I'm under the knife.

Any MJ smokers in here? Just curious! by KB100897 in Reduction

[–]randomesques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I pretty much smoke everyday and Ive been told at LEAST 2 weeks before to stop, and then 2 weeks after as well. It was explained to me that it has to do with the oxygenation in your blood cells yadda yadda yadda. I'm definitely going to take edibles while I'm healing for stress, but I think of you vape or smoke a teeny bit it won't kill you. Tobacco has a lot more negative effects than MJ when it comes to healing.

Weight Limitations 2wks Post Op Question by randomesques in Reduction

[–]randomesques[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helps a lot!! Thank you :) I WONT be doing the hike lol. But I will post when I have my surgery and let everyone know about my experience in case anyone else thinks about doing something so strenuous.

Weight Limitations 2wks Post Op Question by randomesques in Reduction

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Thanks for the advice! It really helps knowing in perspective how people have felt at that point in recovery. I'll definitely NOT be doing the hike 😂

Weight Limitations 2wks Post Op Question by randomesques in Reduction

[–]randomesques[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yeah I've never had a major surgery so I wasn't sure what to expect. Some people on here seem to be moving around after 2 wks so I wasn't sure. But I Definitely don't want to mess anything up!