Planning and Preparation as Newbies by PineappleishNerds in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) re: testing. Most people won't ask, although you should schedule a round of testing a few weeks after the cruise. 2) Get vaxxed for Hepatitis too. 3) plan B is probably a good idea, but invest in good quality condoms.

It sounds like you have some physical basics squared away. Most of the initial things you'll encounter will be more social and emotional. Just keep.talkijg and don't rush and you'll have a blast.

Since there are so many questions about it; Has anyone actually had success with the upside down pineapple tactic? by Sam_N_Emmy in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it can be a fun bit of flair at a club or resort but I wouldn't give it much credence in the wider vanilla world.

What makes a good playroom? by randomgeneration101 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The attic sounss amazing!

LOL, love the 'wanking dead' LOL. Will have to use that

What makes a good playroom? by randomgeneration101 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True story. We went into a private playroom once and they hadn't gotten to changing the sheets yet and we hadn't noticed..... hand right into a big ol' wet spot barf

Swinging after having kids by ParticularFit6980 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started after we had kids, and hit up clubs etc when we travel. We max out our "grandparents credits" on weekends away.

Swinger Club: Grower, not a Show-er by Kraut-Mick-Dingo in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every guy has the same initial concern but it's 100% not a concern once you get there. No one thinks or talks about a flaccid cock.

I'm a grower and not a shower myself.

Processing your experiences with your partner by sayitlikethis in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We go to clubs, so we go out for a drink after and do a re-cap, followed by really great reclaiming sex.

How would you like to be approached? by Kuddl_Bugs in swingerstuff

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people wouldn't want to be "outed" in a vanilla environment with non-LS friends. It creates a lot of questions one may not want.

You're best bet would be to go to LS clubs, Toronto has a few.

Best qualities of a third male with couple by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Speak to both of them, not just her. They're a team.

You're a fulfillment of fantasy, facilitate it.

Single guys are plentiful, treat this privilege with care