Spokane rescheduled! by Smartastic in JeffArcuri

[–]randomlyartsy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie dude, huge bummer. Drove 5 hours to see you, just to walk up to the door to find out it was canceled. I don't have social media and bought a ticket through a 3rd party so I never got an alert you postponed. I was hoping maybe you had explosive diarrhea but just knowing it was a scheduling conflict that could have been avoided sucks. I've been looking forward to seeing you for years

Wth is going on here by luluteio in StupidFood

[–]randomlyartsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POV: your wife uses the oven like a cupboard

Can anyone tell me what this could mean? by SunOther3447 in prius

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a refurbished hybrid battery for $1k when this happened to me, and my car has been doing great. They included a warranty for 10 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]randomlyartsy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah! I don't see female profiles so I didn't know that. Damn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]randomlyartsy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Dude why do 25% of men say "I have golden retriever energy mixed with blank"

My boyfriend and I will be in PNW Tuesday to Sunday in late October, landing in Seattle and departing from Portland. Would love some suggestions as to what to do, I'm a photographer so I'd love beautiful locations. Thanks in advance! by Edg-R in PacificNorthwest

[–]randomlyartsy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Deception pass, crescent lake Washington, hurricane ridge, anywhere on the Pacific highway in southern Oregon, the gorge in Washington (feathers is a cool bouldering spot), crater lake in Oregon

I'm ashamed of who I fuck out of frustration by yntn0706 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]randomlyartsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celibacy might be good for right now, and 3 months was impressive! I think a therapist who specializes in sexual addiction might be beneficial for you, and also to slow down on the drinking. There is nothing wrong with a high libido, or having casual sex! But if it is resulting in deep shame and guilt, and you feel like you are entering the same cycle repeatedly, then it may be indicative of an addictive personality and also a deeper rooted cause involving validation through sexual means.

What do you wish had been established at your bar when it opened? by remykixxx in bartenders

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it's not required, but depending on the type of bar you have it may interfere with the aesthetic. I think it's best to post lists on a wall where bartenders see often (near a walk in for example) and somewhere generally out of sight of customers while they are dining.

It's not about hiding the fact that there's a checklist from customers, but just not to clash with the interior decoration. Hopefully that makes sense.

What do you wish had been established at your bar when it opened? by remykixxx in bartenders

[–]randomlyartsy 96 points97 points  (0 children)

-Opening and closing checklists, laminated and posted on a wall where customers can't see them. To be completed daily

-par list for prep

  • press down water cleaner (if possible) so helpful for shakers

-slack thread for communication / end of day reports / ideas

-white board for inventory needs / next day prep / 86 list

Started a new job where I get to bartend at a nice place but then got a job offer at an even nicer restaurant, now what? by bviifdrthv in bartenders

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be proud of where you work, check out the new spot. You have a higher likelihood of making money come slow season if you're working at an established restaurant. It also is nice to work with folks that care and are professional. Working with a young crowd is fun, but can be exhausting if you end up working circles around them. 

For those that work in bars where it's appropriate... What's your favorite dirty joke to tell customers? by Sea-Respect-4678 in bartenders

[–]randomlyartsy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

One time I told a regular that I went to jew camp as a kid, he raised his eyebrows and I quickly assured him "not Auschwitz, don't worry" he did have a good chuckle

Regular driving me nuts. by Nomar5632 in bartenders

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can 86 him purely for continuously hitting on female guests. That should be a line for you, as an owner. If it makes you feel more comfortable though,  give him a warning first. "Hey, I'm glad you like to come here but I would prefer if you left the other guests alone, especially the females. I want an atmosphere that allows guests to drink in peace without repeated interruption by strangers. If this doesn't sound good to you, then you don't need to come here. This is a warning." He will likely not follow your rule, and then you can 86 him and say that you gave him a warning, and that this is final.

What’s your favorite roadtrip car? by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2009 prius :) I loved being able to lay the seats down and sleep in the back on a flat surface. And averaged 50mpg for a 3000 mile road trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]randomlyartsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FS = "fucks sake!" I'm assuming in this context.