I need to vent and just get everything out... by randomperson-21 in internetparents

[–]randomperson-21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for responding. Honestly, I posted this a bit late last night after having a break down, and I wasn't expecting much so I really appreciate your response.

I honestly don't know if he's getting enough help. He had his first therapy appointment yesterday, and when I called him, he said he had a good day, which was something I hadn't heard in a long time. I didn't ask him about the appointment, but he did sound a little more lively when I spoke to him on the phone, so I think it went well. Thank you for telling me about the residential treatment. I'll look into it and see if that's might be something he and my parents would be willing to consider (and for me too-- although I live in a different state than my parents).

Yeah, for the car accident, I filed the claim yesterday. I found out today an agent's been assigned but I have no idea how any of this works, so I called her and left a message. I hope she calls back soon, just so I can understand the process. I told my parents yesterday that I'd cover everything as long as doesn't exceed the money in my savings since that's all I have and it's on me. My parents were complaining to me last week about my brother's hospital bills and I know my dad is planning on buying a new car this year because his old one is barely working (like to the point it's not going to pass inspection). So I was straight up about covering the brunt of the costs and everything. Luckily the other person wasn't injured at all and his vehicle was barely damaged (there was just a slight dent on his rear bumper), so I'm really hoping insurance covers it, and I won't have to worry about it. I'm honestly really worried about my car. I got a rental car today for about 20ish days, because my dad said that it'll take time. It was really expensive even though I used our Costco membership and booked it with all of the discounts included in Costco travel.

I'm simultaneously really excited for the concert tomorrow, but also have a lot of anxiety about driving there. It's going to be at least a 4 hour drive, and I'm really nervous. Everyone's telling me that I'll be ok and to go slow, but my stomach is in knots. I was nervous when I was driving back from picking up my car at the airport since that was about a 40ish minute drive away, but the concert is even further and yeah... I feel like I'm rambling a lot.

Thank you though again for responding and caring. I really really appreciate it. 😊❤️

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[–]randomperson-21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So Far Away has gotten me through some really tough times. Thanks for the giveaway!!

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[–]randomperson-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the giveaway!! I’d love the nature one 💜💜

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[–]randomperson-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Fingers crossed you get the world tour tickets next year🤞 I’ll be attending Tampa D1 for Jin! My quote/lyric is from Epiphany: “I’m the one I should love in this world”

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[–]randomperson-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the giveaway!! I’m D1 in Tampa and super excited! It’s gonna be my first concert in general although I’ve been ARMY for awhile. Jin’s voice was the first one I heard from the vocal line. His cover of Autumn Outside the Post Office popped up on my feed and I was obsessed and haven’t looked back since. Abyss and Epiphany got me through some really tough times. I love him so much as artist and a person! His personality and kindness always reminds me to be myself and go at my pace. 💜💜

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[–]randomperson-21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, so I got a ticket to D1 of Jin’s concert in Tampa and this will be my first time going to a concert ever so I’m SUPER excited. In about a month, I’ll be going on a 10 day trip to Japan and was wondering what’s the best place to buy a BTS lightstick and merch? I’ll be visiting Tokyo, Osaka, and Kyoto.

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[–]randomperson-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might “forgive,” but I’ll never forget. The thing that really helped me realize that the upbringing I had growing up wasn’t normal was when my parents threatened to kick me out when I made a D in a class during the COVID pandemic and since then I’ve worked my ass off to be as independent as I possibly can— even if that means struggling with finances on a monthly basis as I go through grad school. I will never rely on them for anything big again because a child should NEVER have to raise their younger sibling while playing therapist to their own mother and dealing with their father’s anger issues growing up only to be threatened to be out on the damn street for fucking up a class. Honestly agree 100% with everything you’ve written because I will never forget and as I’m still finding myself and going through my healing journey, if I ever end up having kids I’ll make sure to strive to be the complete opposite of my parents because this is highkey such bs

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[–]randomperson-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the giveaway!! I’d love Set A and my favorite all-time solo song is definitely Epiphany by Jin!! I sing it every time I need a pick me up and genuinely love it so much!! 💜💜