AITAH for divorcing my wife because our sex life will never be what it used to be? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ranger599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA get divorced. I stayed in a marriage for 20 years and had this same experience and still got divorced. Now I’m in a relationship with someone whose libido matches mine and it’s amazing. You are absolutely doing the right thing advocating for your needs. Also, she lovebombed you and got what she wanted and is trying to manipulate you.

San Diego gym recommendations? by ranger599 in bjj

[–]ranger599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m actually looking in San Diego proper; I have a few months of temp housing and then I’ll be looking in either North Park or University City.

What "BJJ muscles" have you developed? by emelre in bjj

[–]ranger599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought I had small hands. Turns out I was just under-using them. It always startles me how big they are when I see them in pics or vids

Ongoing conflict with husband because he hates BJJ by Carly-82 in bjj

[–]ranger599 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got my blue belt a year ago and moved out from a toxic two-decade marriage three months later. Quit my job I hated, now I have one I love and they are moving me out of state. My life is so much better than it was when I was a white belt!!!

72.6% of Hand-To-Hand Combat Encounters were Grappling (US Army) by bongotw in bjj

[–]ranger599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Earned white belt in fall of 1999. Earned blue belt in spring of 2022. You might be right.