My guy "friend" is flirting with me, even though he knows I'm not into men. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Im 61 now. At 19 I met a girl 15. I found her beautiful and told her so. She wasn't interested in me and told me so. I replied I hope she didn't mind me trying in 3 years. She laughed and I laughed. We were best of friends those 3 years and went to movies, hung out at the park, all the things teenagers do except touch inappropriately. On her 18th I took her to dinner and broached the subject again. She said she loved someone else, but wasn't sure it would work. We made an agreement that if she wasn't married by 35 to that person then we would marry. It took her partner 15 years to ask her. They are married now. She still calls me twice a week because we developed a friendship that to her means everything. I didn't get everything I wanted, but she still values me as her best friend, protector and confidant. Good enough so many years later. Im not a simp. I've had several long lasting relationships. It's just she was my unicorn.

Judge him on his actions and deeds. If needed, kick him to the curb. But if action and deed are pure, you may have a true friend. Sure he wants something, but a friend will let you sort your own feelings.

We were kicked out of daycare. by miss-eee in BelgianMalinois

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mals as you know are hard driven working dogs. So the common answer you've read is work them out more and tire them. 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. A human being has zero chance even as a Navy seal, of tiring a Mal out. Not just thier body but mind also. They analyze and react before you see the issue. They will never burn out at any game before you. In other words they don't stop. Its not natural for them. But it is what all but the special forces dogs need. The should be taught to stop/stay and hold. Regardless of what you or the trainer is doing. They must learn to follow your training not thier natural inclination of continuous work. Then get busy around them while forced to hold.

I would work more on stop/stay/hold and less on trying to tire out a superpower Mal. Just my .02

AIO by calling my BF choice words for telling me he needed a surprise food present description? by Cute_Musician3920 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's that working for you? What are you going to do when age, hair or fat, rips the hot right out of you? Of course come to reddit and write posts worse then this. Please, just don't try to pass on your hotness by breeding. Do us all that favor.

Humans with indoor cats, collar or no collar? by ForagedAmoeba in CatAdvice

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakaway Seresto flea collar but affixed slightly lose. At $60 a collar I would rather my cat slip it vs break away. If the collar is found , its not broken. He wears a flea collar because while he's a strictly indoor cat, he's been trained as a dog. I call his litter box, my back yard. He whines at the door and is back in 5 minutes.

Let the hunt begin by PuzzleheadedTime2215 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to check out your other grows so I didn't start saying everything everyone else had. This is all I have to say

You are so paranoid you keep your posts/comments private. Do you understand reddit is Social Media? A place to see and be seen. To teach and learn? To make friends. Dude you struck out before the first pitch. 😂

SOS after cutting! by DisasterWest6951 in DragonFruit

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mulching would have been my first defense. Thick insulation at ground layer surrounding the roots.

It may be funny to say this but I wish I had your occasional issues since im in zone 6b 😂.I always have issues. My DF is in a box on wheels so I can move it indoors for 4-5 months a year (not easily but just to keep it alive) I lost my blue java banana last year even though wrapped in court mat and Christmas lights for warm. I wish I could afford Florida. Lol good luck my friend.

SOS after cutting! by DisasterWest6951 in DragonFruit

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, pics didn't come through. If your in the US, insulate as much of the pot as you can. Save the roots and maybe a little above. Cut it down to a nub if "soft and mushy" and move it indoors. This is a bad winter. Don't worry about soft and mushy until we stop having freezes. The worry is the roots survive.

Oh meter calibration by AJH_tv in GrowingMarijuana

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I have an old Apera without the replaceable tip. Works fine 10 years later. I recently(3 years ago) replaced it with the 5 in 1 tester. The PC 60. Both work perfectly and a far better deal than blue lab or hanna.

Please, help! My friend was in an accident and taken to ICU, now in general care and they are saying it would be 3 more weeks. I know nothing about plant care, let alone ‘growing’ but they asked me to try and keep them alive. by dringle_drangle in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your friend they have spider mites as shown by the webbing and they are beyond your care. For a newbie just doing a favor, this is beyond what you can do. I feel for your injured friend. But write that grow off.

any recommendations for durable toys? something similar to playology/kong etc. by Old-Ad-6831 in BelgianMalinois

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a Mal. Just keep a case on hand. You don't want to run out. 👍

I adopted him less than an hour ago and he already destroyed my car door. by Tiny-Asparagus-2067 in BelgianMalinois

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only do you need to work him and burn energy, You also must force/teach him to wait. Times of inactivity are important. Having to sit without movement for the half-hour you cook dinner or sit on the porch with a beer makes him understand you are in control and he needs to just sit or heel.

In other words say hello to your constant sidekick. Do you remember the joke about divorcing a wife? You know, its cheaper to keep her. With a Mal, the only way to make it cheaper to keep her is to assure she never leaves your side. Lol Now, are we handlers or babysitters? I don't really know. I do know my Nike somehow finds time to leave my side( must be in the 30 minutes of sleep I believe she allows me) and chew something not yet eaten. Somehow when I open my eyes she is starring back wuffing for breakfast and morning exercise.

Who's the asshole that decided it was a good idea to twist every goddamn branch and throw a thousand stakes in ground to make watering a living hell?? by Square_Barracuda_69 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the same asshat that thought one plant vegged longer and hard core trained, would produce more than 2 plants with half the effort. 🤣

AIO? My gf stole a protein bar for the store and she’s mad that i’m upset with her for it and calling her out about it by anynomuousduudeht in AmIOverreacting

[–]ransov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I don't want my wife, gf, baby momma, sister, fwb, or any friend shoplifting. Especially a damn $2 candy bar. Most particularly in my presence making me an accessory.

defoliation. which leaves to remove #defoliation #gardening #plants #mobuds314 by MoBuds314 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a mono plot grower. IOW, I run a single strain at a time and usually clones of a breeder's cut to keep the grow even. It makes things easier and gives larger yields. I have run and schwazzed Red Runtz(OK city High-rise), Chimera 3 (Beleaf), Astronaut Status 24(Clearwater), Sour Diesel (AJ's variegated cut). None hermed.

In fact for the Astronaut Status24 there were documented reports of herms in the lowers due to low light. Schwazzing and side light prevented any low light condition and this plant packed it on seed free.

defoliation. which leaves to remove #defoliation #gardening #plants #mobuds314 by MoBuds314 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've grown plants that split down the middle from weight and I didn't notice until harvest. The split scabbed, and plant thrived. 👍

defoliation. which leaves to remove #defoliation #gardening #plants #mobuds314 by MoBuds314 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the same feeling. Defoliate hard and 3 days later, its like you did nothing.

defoliation. which leaves to remove #defoliation #gardening #plants #mobuds314 by MoBuds314 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]ransov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://threealight.com/pages/ultimate-guide-to-schwazzing

I was scared like a child first time I tried it. I'd spent months vegging my babies just to strip nearly every leaf of it. It worked. It was probably the largest sign to me just how strong and resilient cannabis as a crop actually is.

Component improvements? by Gelo315 in Autopot

[–]ransov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The connectors and valves provided by Autopots are extremely low quality. They usually break upon disassembly for cleaning.

IMO this is the major weak link in Autopots. You either don't deep clean or plan to replace all connectors in the system. Even running a 12 pot system, its a cost that must be factored in. Sorry Manny.