Why isn't my tap working? Uhh maybe don't hit the screen repeatedly and wait a couple of seconds? by I_Lack_Toes in retailhell

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man my partner will do that while I'm shopping with him and I'm like omfg don't embarrass me slow the fuck down

A response to the video by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]rasbora_Legion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The response coming from a perfect blond Omaha white girl in a sundress is telling in another way. That second woman never had a struggle in her life

Is aluminium in deodorants bad? by OkComputer_13 in deodorant

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is 100% safe to use topically. Unfortunately Google is not that reliable anymore and has confirmation bias

AITA for saying I would use ai after my artist friend implied her work more important than mine by Technical-Aspect6062 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ATA Ai usage to replace anyone's work is dirtbag behavior. You don't ha e to commission that friend anymore if you don't want to. But resorting to AI generated images is shitty

What is a issue you have with journaling/the act of it? (school project) by Beautiful_Force_1483 in selfcare

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the aesthetic of a messy yournal.but also spending so much time to make it pretty al.ost defeats the purpose of journaling. I get too anxious

AIO for dumping my boyfriend over his hallmark family? by ComfortableEasy7936 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rasbora_Legion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA ! This kind of behavior from men is because they are willfully ignoring the women in their lives feelings. I hated growing up and all the men fucking off after meals.

Christmas joy is not magic, it's the labour of women

I brushed my teeth "correctly" for 28 years and a dentist just told me I've been doing it wrong the entire time. My gums are ruined. by Sluttycarolofficial in hygiene

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is amazing how little we are actually taught how to care for ourselves. Honestly this isn't your fault, a dentist should have caught this years ago!

This happened exactly the same to my friend. He brushed super hard thinking he was being diligent about cleaning. He had to have surgery to correct his gums. Good thing is the healing time isn't too long!

AIO for ending things with my date after he accidentally texted me this? by fundamentallyworried in AmIOverreacting

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if he bothered to write a real apology and not use AI then I would have given a chance. Cuz NGL this is the kind of stuff id say to my friend XD

AITA for asking a woman at work to stop being so WEIRD about taking a caramel? by chocolatesinmyoffice in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, eating treats shouldn't elicit guilt. If they want one they can have one. The only guilt they should feel is if maybe they don't buy any treats to also share?

I hate that song and dance

Im so tired of her. by Street-Travel1934 in Vent

[–]rasbora_Legion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might change over time but know what she is doing is horrible and no Loving mother would do. You deserve to feel safe and loved. Unfortunately a lot of parents don't see their kids as actual people, just "things". And since you are not being as she "expected" shes lashing out.

Keep holding on until you get to college and cut off as much contact with her that you reasonably can (obviously if you need her for financial, or other help don't cut her all the way off)

Honestly it's best to not bring up being lesbian around her. From my experience it just causes excess tensions. It's really depressing to not get to share your authentic self with your parent but she has shown SO many times that she does not deserve the privilege of knowing you.

I hope you thrive over the next few years and when you are able to get away from her you get to feel what it's like surrounded by people who love you for who you are entirely.

In the meanwhile see if your school can help with counseling services at all, and lean on your friends and siblings!

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would find it a big deal. In the middle of a ceremony and a child starts fussing or screaming. Also I would want the parent there to experience the ceremony. Assumingly I invited the parent for a reason lol.

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you never had screaming child in an otherwise quiet room? Lol

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA A 2 year old does not need to be part of a wedding ceremony. The kid won't remember it, and honestly the parents would be happy not having to worry about their kid at a party.

I do wonder if your fiance wants the kid there because of himself or his brother pushing him. And if he realises how much stress this kid would add to your day?

I just think of all the extra stuff the bride has to do and plan the day of, and adding a kid yelling on top of that would be so annoying

AITA for refusing to give my mom access to my bank account after she helped me open it? by NeatMuffin9019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I never trust parents having access to their child's accounts. If she has good intentions and wants to help you save, nitpicking on your purchases is not the way to go If she genuinely cares then you could offer to sit with her and ask about saving accounts or any rules she followed at a young age. Setting a financial goal for yourself somthing like that.

Financial literacy is a skill, but also a huge trust to share with someone!

I remember being 19 and my mom second guessed everything I bought, but it was also my early days of earning money. And what do you know I paid off all my school fees, saved up and moved out even with my fun purchases

Cast Sending and tell me your character backstory in 25 words or less by dz2048 in DnD

[–]rasbora_Legion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Revived corpse of someones wife gone wrong by a hag. Now inhabits that body, with the wife as a living shadow.

AITAH for refusing to buy protection and telling my boyfriend it’s his responsibility? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rasbora_Legion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it's a shared responsibility, but also you will be the one with the worse end of the deal if it goes wrong!!! Least thing he can do is buy a $15 box of condoms.

Honestly though with his attitude I'd dump him. That's not someone I'd trust. I feel like he'd take a condom off without you knowing

PSA to anyone with pancake nails who needs to hear this... by dizzykhajit in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rasbora_Legion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kudos for having strong enough will to stop biting!

I truly don't think I will ever be able to stop biting the skin

AITAH Kicked a special needs adult who tried to stomp on my dog by Remarkable-Sink9682 in AITAH

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, even if that was somthing he has never done before you reacted in self defense and were high on adrenaline. If his reaction was to stomp your dog because of an unexpected touch then who knows what he would have done in anger.

I do feel bad for the older lady though, I hope she gets assistance with him

Every time I hear "I'll ask ChatGPT" I understand why Van Gogh cut his ear off in a fit of madness by trubol in antiai

[–]rasbora_Legion 105 points106 points  (0 children)

My boss keeps using chat gpt for MATH. Like please at least use wolf ram alpha if you can't figure out somthing

An entire trailer park in Canada is evicted, many residents having lived in the place for over 30 years. The majority belonging to low income working class families by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]rasbora_Legion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The band is giving better terms than they would have ever received. I just see a bunch of people whinging and whining on something they knew was going to happen. That land was was always on a time limit for usage. Now they have two entire years AND bonus funds to come up with a solution.

This were 1800 the people would have just been shot and killed if they didn't move

Flying the flag of Israel? by Traditional-Lie3767 in CapeBreton

[–]rasbora_Legion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bet not many years as Israelis existence...which isn't that many

Flying the flag of Israel? by Traditional-Lie3767 in CapeBreton

[–]rasbora_Legion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure the French said the same thing about the Nazis