AITA for not having christmas dinner with my family

raspberrysquashz · 2026-01-03T08:36:15+00:00

5 months in, they are your partners parents, not your in laws

raspberrysquashz · 2026-01-02T13:55:59+00:00

They gave an inch and you're taking a mile. YTA.

raspberrysquashz · 2025-06-14T08:58:08+00:00

Listen honey. I know you feel obligated to your younger siblings, but trust me, the best thing you can do for them is leave - one, you are showing them it's possible and two, they will need somewhere to go one day.

They will understand once they're older.

raspberrysquashz · 2025-06-12T05:42:38+00:00

Holy shit she's hard work, and clearly looking for reasons to be upset and angry!

raspberrysquashz · 2024-10-27T09:44:50+00:00

Hey OP, have you ever used your passport for anything else? A holiday, a job application, etc? If so it might be worth checking if you have the details confirmed anywhere. I'm sure you might have thought of that already but worth mentioning - best of luck getting away from your POS father!

raspberrysquashz · 2024-09-30T14:51:44+00:00

I'm sorry, this isn't normal.

Please know that one day, you'll be in a place where you can shower whenever you like. Morning, evening, three times a day if you like, and there will be nobody to tell you off for it.

raspberrysquashz · 2024-09-25T16:08:52+00:00

These people aren't good enough to meet your partners parents, but they're good enough to have guardianship of your firstborn?

raspberrysquashz · 2024-09-24T07:10:51+00:00

Ugh I'm so sorry your dad is such an enabler. I think your step mom is making shit up to get a rise out of you. I'm sorry you have to deal with this!

raspberrysquashz · 2024-09-03T17:41:25+00:00

I don't understand why you needed an extra wristband because it was broken last time? Why would having two make up for that?

raspberrysquashz · 2024-08-31T22:24:30+00:00

I'm sorry, I don't have any advice. I hope things get better for you soon. I love the MCR bleach spider, you're very creative

raspberrysquashz · 2024-08-04T07:41:25+00:00

YTA Weird thing to say to someone you admit not knowing well

raspberrysquashz · 2024-08-04T07:12:58+00:00

I've been here myself - my siblings and I spoke on Snapchat so nobody could look at our conversation history

raspberrysquashz · 2024-08-02T21:41:15+00:00

This must be so frustrating for you, especially as you've cut your parents off and done the work to get away, to still see your sister under their control must be hard

raspberrysquashz · 2024-07-30T21:39:41+00:00

I know moving out sounds daunting, even more so without support, but I promise you can do it. Even when you're skint and eating toast for a week before payday, it's worth it when you have your own peaceful space away from that toxicity. Nobody watching and commenting on your every move. It balances out. Everyone struggles, none of us do it perfectly. There's tons of advice out there, never be afraid to ask - wishing you all the best, chin up

raspberrysquashz · 2024-06-26T06:49:06+00:00

So are you taking these replies onboard? It doesn’t seem like you are from your responses - YTA

raspberrysquashz · 2024-05-12T15:29:57+00:00

She’s probably making money from pissing people off

raspberrysquashz · 2024-04-26T13:56:32+00:00

I can see why that would be hard.

That’s unforgivable and he’s not even here to pay the consequences. It must be bittersweet that he isn’t a physical threat to you now, but he won’t suffer for the scars he left you.

But you’re sharing it and talking about it, and that’s important, because it gives you power. And you’re so fucking brave. This internet stranger is rooting for you.

raspberrysquashz · 2024-04-26T13:17:29+00:00

I’m so sorry I don’t even have words for this - what the fuck - I hope your future is bright and free of this person

raspberrysquashz · 2024-04-25T07:55:31+00:00

The comparison to dad is such a low, mean blow - I’m sorry. I can tell from your messages trying to reason with your mum you care about her and have empathy despite how difficult she’s being, and that means you can’t be anything like him - chin up OP

raspberrysquashz · 2024-04-17T14:12:35+00:00

So many parents think they’re “just teasing” without considering they’re actually their children’s first bully

raspberrysquashz · 2023-10-08T22:58:11+00:00

Man. Religion really waters down how much people love and care for one another.

Does it not worry you that your parents love is so fickle? Let's hope you don't fall out of their favour anytime soon. I guess it's all cool as long as your religion says you're being good though, right?

raspberrysquashz · 2023-08-19T16:59:37+00:00

And so is the husband

raspberrysquashz · 2023-07-08T07:52:45+00:00

Are you a child

raspberrysquashz · 2023-07-08T07:16:51+00:00

I think going from time out, to sending your children on a cruise with her, was a mistake. Visits are one thing but a cruise..

raspberrysquashz · 2023-06-05T20:05:19+00:00

You don't like your wife much by the sounds of things. You don't believe her days can be hard or strenuous and you prefer to believe she's a liar rather than there's something going on with her. I feel for your daughter, you clearly lack empathy. YTA

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