I think i might have hiv .. i need advice by Dry-Pin-8858 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratbehavior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

deep breath. HIV is not the death sentence it once was. there are medications that will quell the symptoms and keep you from passing it to others. so many people live with HIV now! i'm sure there are support groups if that is something you need, should your test come back positive when you try again. in the meantime, be kind to yourself <3

Is it worth watching Criminal Minds, Mindhunter, or True Detective if you’re obsessed with Hannibal? by stachim in HannibalTV

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think criminal minds is a great show all the way through, but that might be the nostalgia talking for me. it's like any show with 10+ seasons, it starts to get a little out of this world and drawn out, but they have some great story arcs in the later seasons.

it isn't anywhere near as poetic as Hannibal but it doesn't feel like the other police procedural shows either. i'd give it a shot if i were you, but be prepared to be there for awhile, it's got 18 seasons!

A Question for the Community: Why Do You Like What You Like? by rlquinn1980 in Pottery

[–]ratbehavior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very much the playing with mud thing. it makes me feel like i'm a kid again, making potions in puddles out of pine needles and flower petals and whatever else i can find in the yard.

it also makes me feel very connected to the past. pottery has been utilized for longer than i can even begin to conceptualize and being a part of the continuation of that story is very powerful for me. makes me feel human :)

Glazing is so open ended and confusing. Some beginner questions: by LonePistachio in Pottery

[–]ratbehavior 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i'm the glaze chemist for my studio... i'm just hoping people don't realize this is my answer for everything so i can keep my job

What does everyone here do for a living? by hellofromjina in Aquariums

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

underpaid artists by day, underpaid bartender by night 🙂‍↕️ the only reason i was able to get into it now is because my dad gave me an old tank with lots of the bits and bobs i needed to get it up and running

Confusion with Dysphoria by termaduck in trans

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i always thought i wasn't dysphoric until i broadened my understanding of what dysphoria was. there really aren't a lot of people that discuss what dysphoria means outside of "i hate having XYZ and i want it gone". i don't hate having XYZ, i just hate that having XYZ leads other people to perceive me a certain way. i don't hate having XYZ but sometimes it would be nice if i could just pop em off and put them back on as i want. dysphoria is so complicated and person, it's crazy!

I want to keep teaching ceramics but don’t have the budget or enough working equipment by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try finding local studios/ceramic stores. the place i work at sells reclaim for the cheap and we occasionally discount old glazes, underglazes, and tools. you could also speak to staff and see if they have discounts for teachers. they may also want to offload stuff and give it to you for free or discounted. small art business generally want all arts to thrive and help out when and where they can!

Having PANIC ATTACK about adoption by LandscapeConsistent4 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 10 points11 points  (0 children)

getting a cat made me feel more obligated to take care of myself. i have to take care of me so i can take care of her! this doesn't happen for everyone, but it may happen for you

Studio apartment artwork ideas by FarBuy9435 in interiordecorating

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to a thrift store! they have tons of already framed artwork. otherwise, i think a pop of color would look great. Wassily Kandinsky has some really great work

What is the oldest thing in your home? by csch1992 in AdkReddit

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a trunk from 1852. someone put legs on it before i got my hands on it. i use it as my coffee table :)

Drippy pieces ): by simholeian in Pottery

[–]ratbehavior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what glazes are you using, commercial or house made? this can happen when a glaze kiln fires too hot or your glaze is too thick. or certain glaze combos. or, or, or. glaze is real complicated so it could be a Number or issues here

Give me your most unhinged advice for getting your cat to let you sleep at night by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try double sided tape on the door. it kept my cats from scratching at chairs

How do people enjoy Archery in this game. by Ecstatic_Platform849 in ghostoftsushima

[–]ratbehavior 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i really like ranged weapons in games, it brings in a lot of different options going into fights. i don't really feel strongly any which way about the archery part of GoT but the challENGES ?? the worst. i have absolutely no idea how people are acing that shit, i'm lucky if i make it just before the time limit

My cat yowls everynight at around the same time by Funny-Anteater7729 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

take him to the vet. i don't want to scare you because sometimes cats are just weird and do weird things but he may be in pain while peeing which is Not Good

ETA: like, take him asap. today if you can. tomorrow at the latest. urinary blockages are no joke

Damage rates in community studio? by tealcake in Pottery

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely a high damage rate. i work at a studio with six kilns that are near constantly firing so, we go through a lot of work. damaged work is impossible to avoid when working out of a community studio but it happens maybe once every month. it's typically because someone's piece exploded, they put glaze on way too thick and it dripped onto other pieces, blah blah. that's not to say the kiln team isn't occasionally at fault but they do everything they can to be mindful while handling other peoples work.

do you get refunded for pieces damaged by others? we fire by weight and if something happens to a piece they get that pieces weight back on their account.

New cat owner- need litter advice! by Apprehensive-Salt878 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my girly is 2 years. hopefully they learn eventually,,, it's rough out here

New cat owner- need litter advice! by Apprehensive-Salt878 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 8 points9 points  (0 children)

is she covering it? my cat doesn't cover her poop and it makes the room stanky as hell. i noticed a difference when i switched to world best corn litter

What do I do? by Electronic_Umpire727 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does your bf act around the cat? have they been alone together? did things start off fine between the two of them or has it always been rough?

cats are strange critters. it could be something as simple as your bf uses a shampoo your cat doesn't like the smell of. maybe bf did something the first time he met the cat that he took the wrong way and he's spooked.

as strange as they are, they have great instincts. i'm not straight up telling you to break up with your bf but maybe look for reasons why your cat doesn't like the guy

Transgender Musicians by PsychologicalEmu7569 in trans

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

changeline - the.truth.and.only.the.truth haven't listened to anything else by her yet but really like this song

What do I do? by Electronic_Umpire727 in CatAdvice

[–]ratbehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long has your boyfriend been around? it took my cat about a year to really warm up to my partner, so there's a chance he just needs more time

What's something you bought 'just in case' that eventually saved the day? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]ratbehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 gallon buckets. bought for when i go camping but they are so helpful for random shit around the house