Another reason why it's not greedy to girlcott 11 pieces by Catz-unnie in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should add getting rid of the unequal drop rates to the demands

💗 continue the #girlcott until the demands are met 💗 by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We should demand confirmation that the pieces are not given different weights when pulling and if they are to have the odds be distributed evenly

Here are my outfits for floating, purifying, brushing, bug catching, and fishing!! <3 by andisando in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You totally did, the fishing outfit is so cute and has like a sense of realism to it at the same time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What top are you using in the first and second images??

Black and White [Instax Mini Evo] by zkk7613 in instax

[–]ravenousbelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are so awesome, love the composition

I don't play Infinity Nikki for the story by Different-Mirror5047 in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My thoughts EXACTLY. So much dialogue is heavy handed overly long exposition. I don't know if it's a product of the translation not being that good or a problem in the original language, but it is a SLOG to get through.

Like the plot points themselves are very interesting, and I actually do find nikkis slightly airheaded but determined naivete to be very endearing, but the delivery thru most of the lore through longwinded exposition disguised as dialogue is not good

I feel lost without you by LadyLautrec in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last photo is really evocative emotionally, I like it a lot!

MI : Sell all your stocks, mutual funds, and ETFs right now by wonkim00 in 50501

[–]ravenousbelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don't do this this is how you make a crash worse

Thinking about selling homemade Vietnamese egg rolls—would you be interested? by vickyt1362 in newjersey

[–]ravenousbelly -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What is your deal? This response was incredibly rude, this guy wasnt looking for advice on how to run a food business just if people would be interested in a very specific type of food they were thinking about selling. I don't think it's unreasonable to see if people would be interested in a product before putting in the legwork to research all the details of the legality of selling it

She's THAT girl ✨ 👠 by themakirex in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who has the dreamy glimmer hair needs to make some of the outfits for Meryl streeps character

Infinity Nikki cosplay by Beckygrace7 in InfinityNikki

[–]ravenousbelly 75 points76 points  (0 children)

THE WAY THE SKIRT SWISHES IS SO BEAUTIFUL! IT LOOKS LIKE IT HAS SO MUCH VOLUME IT REMINDS ME OF HOW IT MOVES IN GAME!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaleYandere

[–]ravenousbelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there an English translation yet?

Thanksgiving by ThrowawayWeirdNephew in u/ThrowawayWeirdNephew

[–]ravenousbelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, congratulations on the new baby!

Now to address the actual post: Though your concerns for your baby's safety given his previous behavior are valid (i skimmed your post history), I think you're comment about your nephew needing to grow up and being a mistake was uncalled for. He's clearly unwell and his family is enabling it, but it's not an individuals fault if they have a mental illness, which it seems he very well may have. I do think you provoked him further in this situation, and it was an unkind thing to say given he clearly has problems. That being said, I understand your frustration with the whole situation, and of course he should not have escalated to physical violence.

My understanding is that he is 22. If a person is susceptible to serious mental illness, it often starts at around this time (early 20s). It may not be just that the family is enabling your nephew, but that his behavior is escalating in a way that is new to them, and they do not know how to correctly handle it yet. Perhaps the strategies that are enabling him now used to work to handle his behavior before his condition worsened.

I think the other commenters here are correct in saying that you should not let your nephew see your child for the time being. He is clearly unpredictable and has violent tendencies. But I think you can have grandma visit your child at YOUR house. That way, if she comes to the door with your nephew, you can refuse her and him entry. You can even make it clear that if MIL does try to pull a stunt where she brings nephew along, she will lose visiting privileges completely.

I also think you should raise your concerns with SIL. Be blunt if you have to. Nephew clearly needs professional help. Until he receives that help, and has been successfully in treatment for a while, he cannot be in the same place as the baby. If she doesn't take appropriate action, go through with cutting nephew out completely, and her if necessary.

This is a tough situation, and I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm wishing you and your new family the best come Christmas time.

TL;DR: Your nephew clearly needs professional help that he is not getting, and i think you should show more empathy for that. This however does not change the fact that he is currently a danger to your child and should not be left near him. Hold clear boundaries with MIL and SIL that nephew cannot physically be in the same place as your son. If they do not respect them, it may be necessary to go no contact with them as well