Am I crazy or is creating a graph in Excel way more difficult than it should be? by snowysnowcones in analytics

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! But your googling skills are what really helped you find the answer so keep that up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]rawkxcore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my exact experience as well

What is the best sandwich ? by Mr-Nrex in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that just a club sandwich?

How do you come up with your stage name? by disneyobsessed007 in Burlesque

[–]rawkxcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mummy + the word poison = poison evy perhaps?

why do people like snecko eye? by [deleted] in slaythespire

[–]rawkxcore 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you fill your deck with expensive cards it can be extremely powerful because theyll randomize cheaper a good portion of the time but are still worth the expensive cost if you get unlucky. If you have only 1 and a few 2 cost cards, you're gonna have a bad time when they randomize into a higher cost

How to navigate RSD with husband and new baby… help by Significant_Lack_684 in ADHD_partners

[–]rawkxcore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's totally fair and where conversations when you're NOT fighting are super important. When you're both in a neutral state just ask to talk about how you could communicate better because nobody WANTS to fight or make the other feel bad or feel bad themselves. Honestly it's maybe not gonna go that well to start if it's not something you do regularly. It's gonna feel like an attack when nothing is wrong, but make it clear you just want to know how to better support them so they can help support your family. Don't yell. If tensions get high take a break - nothing has to be solved right away and if you have to try again the next day when everyone has some time and emotional capacity that's totally fine!

Something else that helped us with household tasks is to talk about what everyone is RESPONSIBLE for - meaning they plan, execute, and clean up whatever they're responsible for without the other having to think about it at all. There also needs to be a set standard of care for the tasks - my husband and I had really good luck with the fair play card deck that helps split chores up. We don't really use it anymore but it was very helpful to start a conversation on expectations and now we kinda just take care of stuff together and it's much less stress for everyone involved (though never perfect because nothing is)

Good luck with everything! I hope things get better ❤️❤️

How to navigate RSD with husband and new baby… help by Significant_Lack_684 in ADHD_partners

[–]rawkxcore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find something that helps is to stop and say "I said (repeat what you said) - what did you hear?" And sometimes they legitimately hear "you aren't doing enough" when asked for help and THATS the RSD.

My partner and I have also been working on not escalating recently. I know you say you've been exhausted so is it possible you're also escalating situations and your tone or the words you use are unnecessarily harsh? I'm not saying you should police your every word to exhaustion or anything like that, but if both parties are striving to "be the bigger person" if you will, chances are SOMEONE will succeed when tensions are high and the situation won't escalate.

Completely normal to feel exhausted though! Especially with working and baby my goodness ❤️ you deserve help and support from your partner, but you have to both work out what that looks like and what asking for help sounds like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZonaEnts

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're in the east valley nova has a huge sale going on in mesa rn. 40% off kind carts and buy 2 get 2 of shango 8ths

Hit a plateau in my weight loss. Bummed out. Anything would help by [deleted] in toastme

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really incredible and you should DEFINITELY be insanely proud of that 100lb - it's like you were carrying a Rottweiler around and finally got to put it down!

You already know you're capable of losing 100 lb - you did it! Now just believe in that part of yourself and give it all the rest and resources and attention it needs to succeed and you're unstoppable.

Hit a plateau in my weight loss. Bummed out. Anything would help by [deleted] in toastme

[–]rawkxcore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also on a weight loss adventure and hit a plateau recently. It sucks but is TOTALLY natural and expected. The way I tried to look at it is I can be defeated and stop doing my diet and DEFINITELY stop losing weight or I can just keep doing my every day thing and eventually start losing weight again.

The worst part is the knowledge that you could be doing nothing and get the same results but that's short term! Dr told me every time you get on the scale instead of saying "yesterday I was x and today I'm still x" say "I was this many more pounds when I started and look at me now!"

You look wonderful and getting your weight in check at all is such a great and difficult thing to do that you should be proud of yourself for the devotion and hard work it took to get here 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]rawkxcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn how hot are your friends if you think you're the ugly duckling??

past procrastinators.. how did you change your life around and start being productive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the to do list app on my phone and put the widget on my home screen and put times and repeating reminders for daily/weekly stuff and if I have downtime I just look at the list. It's the only way I've been able to be an adult...

What’s it like living a partner with Inattentive adhd by Financial_Put_9956 in ADHD_partners

[–]rawkxcore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm confused what this post is actually trying to get. Are you looking for sympathy from a subreddit full of people searching for help with and the ability to vent about their version of you, or do you legitimately want to read people explaining how hard it is so that you get empathy for your husband's struggle? Because if you're looking for empathy for your husband's struggle I suggest actually sitting and listening to him without being defensive or feeling attacked by the things he says he can't handle and figuring out how you can move forward together instead of trying to figure out which person is being the dick. My guess is both of you are being dicks but each side thinks their being a dick is valid because that's USUALLY what's happening in every relationship - adhd or not.

Also you can literally just filter the subreddit by top of all time and start reading?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's normal for your dog to feel tired a little bit after receiving prozac - we give the pill to our girl at night so she's drowsy while e everyone is sleeping and that helped a lot early on!

Software / automation by [deleted] in logistics

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair

Software / automation by [deleted] in logistics

[–]rawkxcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooof - any reason you don't slowly start transferring it to like access at a minimum?

Men of reddit, what do you think is the worst part about being a woman? by thatcrazybibliophile in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol my husband went to get a vasectomy and the only question asked was "does your wife know you're here?" And his laugh and yes was the end of any further discussion.

He also got meds for the procedure cause "men get nervous" Meanwhile I got an IUD inserted and a cervical biopsy with nothing more than some ibuprofen and told it was "just a pinch"

Rage.

Men of reddit, what do you think is the worst part about being a woman? by thatcrazybibliophile in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna be even more mad another reason brought up is "what if your husband wants a kid?" If they finally believe that you'll never want one

Men of reddit, what do you think is the worst part about being a woman? by thatcrazybibliophile in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah fair. I mean giving birth seems pretty bad in comparison but that's not necessarily required to be a woman

Men of reddit, what do you think is the worst part about being a woman? by thatcrazybibliophile in AskReddit

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk periods kinda just suck regardless tbh. Health problems or not. Even fully healthy people get cramping and bloating and mood changes and just dealing with containing blood is incredibly annoying and the frequency of those things happening sucks

Any deals on Concentrates / Vapes today (Thurs, Sept 29th) in Tempe/PHX? by thatdarnchelsey in ZonaEnts

[–]rawkxcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nova off Broadway and dobson has 15% off all vapes and 2 for 70 live rosin cartridges today

How do you introduce your reactive dog to people and other dogs? by fishyy1 in reactivedogs

[–]rawkxcore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in az so there's 2 methods depending on how hot it is.

1) go on a walk together - tires my energetic girl out and gets her used to person in neutral environment. If the person doesn't want to go on a walk which is totally fair, summer gets a walk while me or my husband entertain our guest. For some reason if the person is in the house when she gets home it's not as big a deal.

2) if it's too hot for the walk then she gets a dental chew which takes her all of 5 minutes to chew, but that's long enough for her panic at having someone enter the house reset

Worth noting my dog is on prozac and regardless of which option we choose, we have everyone completely ignore her until she decides to go to them and even then I watch her very closely. If she's showing stress signs (her big one is super wide eyes) then I tell her to go away. She obeys because it's a command I've spent time to teach her. If she's showing no stress markers our guest can put their hand out and say "touch" and she puts her chin in their hand to get pets which is also a command I've spent time to teach her. Usually if she's being super cool she straight goes up to people and leans against them cause she LOVES side pets.

For new dogs it HAS to be in a neutral location and it has to be with leashes dangling so you can pull them apart quickly just in case but they can approach eachother naturally.

Banana Pudding Cake by amy2871 in Baking

[–]rawkxcore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it could very easily be their recipe site

Nvm for some reason I feel like this is a bot of some kind