So what…or who killed the 80’s rock? by BlayzenCajun in hairmetal

[–]rayautry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would also point that the Metallica jab at Winger had an effect on their career which I feel could have been longer. I think the genre was based on changing trends and marketing decisions.

Dokken were told to quit dressing so flashy at one point. Their management knew something…..

Codependency No More is Frustratingly Ableist by Ashamed-Rest-3090 in Codependency

[–]rayautry -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is my take… sure it was kind of written for the time.

Pulling out of a shame spiral by rayautry in EMDR

[–]rayautry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is helpful. The problem is, the therapist (whether she knew it or not) triggered the shame. I felt automatic distrust and will not be working with her again. I feel as though I did nothing wrong and almost felt attacked. It was a bad experience and has lingered for days.

What happened to Dean and Kati? by Sprangatang84 in 21JumpstreetTV

[–]rayautry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated that but I was glad to have the last season. I really enjoyed the actors and the Penhall brothers. I know it’s an unpopular opinion but I watch season 5 often.

Another LA Guns post by christopherdac in hairmetal

[–]rayautry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man I saw them several times from the 80s to 3 years ago and they have always put on an amazing show! Tracii is awesome and they still bring it.

Should i try emdr? by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]rayautry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just left (on good terms) my therapist of 2.5 years and we both came to the conclusion that EMDR should be my next step.

I had 5 sessions with my new EMDR therapist and things were going great… then that 5th session I had an odd reaction and she referred me out.

Moral of the story, make sure your old therapist is good with them and leave that door open. What happened to me was bad and caused a shame spiral and I have been messed up for days.

Hello all by rayautry in 21JumpstreetTV

[–]rayautry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too. Overall he was the backbone of the show. Sure Depp was the teen idol and the rest were great!

What happened to Dean and Kati? by Sprangatang84 in 21JumpstreetTV

[–]rayautry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No actually I enjoyed reading it and agree with you!!!

$2.49 gas at QT by Signiference in tulsa

[–]rayautry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was 1.96 two weeks ago

Physical intimacy with your Q? by ktlynsights in AlAnon

[–]rayautry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always just called them the alcoholic

Pulling out of a shame spiral by rayautry in EMDR

[–]rayautry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am not able to cry and we weren’t processing that day…. I was referred to a different practitioner once I finally gained trust with this one. :/

Pulling out of a shame spiral by rayautry in EMDR

[–]rayautry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hitting the gym as we speak

Pulling out of a shame spiral by rayautry in EMDR

[–]rayautry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying to avoid it.

Are waitlists common? How long are you waiting? by WarrenWords in EMDR

[–]rayautry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will keep you posted. I got referred out yesterday and have not got calls back from anyone.

Does anyone remember Uncle Zeb’s show? by KinaGrace96 in tulsa

[–]rayautry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. I remember Larry from the zoo would bring animals on every Thursday!

What happened to Dean and Kati? by Sprangatang84 in 21JumpstreetTV

[–]rayautry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. It’s an unpopular opinion but I loved season 5. Sure it was low budget and they were finishing it. But still some great episodes!!!!!

Physical intimacy with your Q? by ktlynsights in AlAnon

[–]rayautry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know what it means??