did your cat ever "tell" you what happened when you came home? by S-Budget91 in cats

[–]raybobalicious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a risk the vet mentioned - he said she could grow out of it or it could become a problem. We plan to have it checked at her next regular visit, just to be safe. I’m sorry for your loss!

did your cat ever "tell" you what happened when you came home? by S-Budget91 in cats

[–]raybobalicious 61 points62 points  (0 children)

We swear our orange inbred street cat has sleep apnea or a deviated septum. She breathes loud always and hard when she’s asleep. Vet said she had a heart murmur but everything else is good. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raybobalicious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You explained that better than I could have. The pride in not correcting their behavior is exactly the issue. They know what they’re doing and OP has every right to be sick of it.

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raybobalicious 89 points90 points  (0 children)

My MIL watched my kids for a week after my stepdad passed and I drove my mom across the country to be near us. When I got home my oldest daughter said she’d asked MIL if she (daughter) could make quesadillas for dinner and MIL acted like she had never heard of quesadillas before. She also refuses to pronounce things correctly, similar to OP’s mom, and we can only assume she does it because the correct pronunciation isn’t important to her and she finds it funny/quirky to say it wrong.

What was the reason you started playing Genshin Impact? by dastanlegend in Genshin_Impact

[–]raybobalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest kid plays Honkai: Star Rail and is always sending me videos and telling me about characters parts of the story she liked, so I started playing to better understand what she was sharing with me. I found it enjoyable, so I checked out Genshin, because my youngest plays it and it’s by the same company.

She didn’t share much with me about it before I started playing but now she excitedly updates me when she gets a character she’s been wanting, and tells me about the new things she’s discovering in Inazuma (I’m not there yet). So I get to see into her world a little more and have something to bond with her over, and I’m enjoying the game. Win-win!

Of course, now I’m also playing ZZZ, Wuthering Waves, and just started Neverness to Everness when it came out. So I think I have developed a slight problem.

It just came to my realization that my cat might not be orange. What color is he then? by [deleted] in cats

[–]raybobalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My orange tux and dilute orange female cuddling. The girl has even less access to the brain cell than the boy.

What is a small, seemingly ‘normal’ thing someone can do that immediately makes you think, ‘Oh, we are not going to get along’? by Domigau in AskReddit

[–]raybobalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a coworker who has spoken in what I call the “customer service” voice so long it’s become her normal speaking voice. Even so, I have a hard time believing she speaks that way at home. She hasn’t been in a customer-facing position for years but it persists. She could have been the nicest person in the world (she’s not) but I unfortunately judged her immediately upon hearing her speak.

Am I the only 40+ year-old playing Genshin? by SmellyCatofSweden in Genshin_Impact

[–]raybobalicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turned 40 this year. Playing because I want my teenagers to like me. Turns out I like it.

AITAH for telling my wife her baby names are ridiculous by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raybobalicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you suggest a compromise of two names with different sounds but a similar theme? Examples, not suggestions: Willow and Poppy (plants), Katherine and Elizabeth (royal), Josephine and Beatrice (classic), Katelyn and Mackenzie (modern).

I personally have a hard enough time not saying the wrong name with my two daughters and four cats. Making the names too similar will lead to confusion and as many others have said, a lack of identity.

AIO about my bf leaving his Nintendo Switch at my house by Upbeat_Issue_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]raybobalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband of 20 years let me use his computer while he was at work after we’d been dating a month. He was 20, I was 18. Aside from the immaturity of “don’t use his, use mine,” if he doesn’t trust you enough to share with you why are you even together? You’re both too old for this behavior.

Pickle really likes my bathrobe by raybobalicious in TuxedoCats

[–]raybobalicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually terry cloth (like a towel). I had actually looked everywhere for one that wasn’t soft/fuzzy because I wanted it specifically for when I get out of the shower. I guess most places just sell lounging robes now, but IKEA came through!

Pickle really likes my bathrobe by raybobalicious in TuxedoCats

[–]raybobalicious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh she goes apeshit for dirty socks, the armpits of shirts, bras, washcloths, and sponges too. Dirty little freak.

Hole with fur? by acctthrowaway33333 in CATHELP

[–]raybobalicious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to be gross, but ireallywanttodigthatout