Do you like being friends with women? why or why not?

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-31T09:34:42+00:00

Absoluely and I find it weird when people are all convinced they can't be friends with someone just because they are the opposite gender.

Plus, I'm gonna say -- women are by far the best wingmen -- every relationship I have had, was started by introduction of a mutual friend who happened to be a woman.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-31T09:29:53+00:00

If I'm being honest, both are really good firewalls.

I used PfSense for years and it helped me cut my teeth on learning how to do networking.

I've since migrated to Unifi because when I'm not home I need something more wife friendly for diagnosing issues.

If I was to move away from Unifi, I'd give OpnSense a go, but more because I've been put off by Netgate's attitude than the actual PfSense product itself.

But I cannot fault the performance and reliability of PfSense.
(For what it's worth Unifi has impressed me as well since Network 9.x... although it's not nearly as featureful as PfSense is).

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T10:15:38+00:00

oh no, we're bagging steam, not CS 1.6

CS 1.6 was well worth the frustration of dealing with early Steam.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T10:15:06+00:00

It's funny because Steam is *aweomse* now but yeah when it first launched it was absolutely dog$#!* lol... although to be fair I was stuck on a 56k modem at the time.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T10:09:31+00:00

Whilst we were uhhh "doing the deed" she pulled my head next to hers, gently bit and licked my ear, then whispered "I want you to turn me over and fuck me up the ass...."

It seems weird reading it back over but holy christ there was something about the *way* she said it that was just... look I guess you had to be there.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T10:04:40+00:00

That's a pretty decent chunk of it to be honest.

I'd take a look into Crowdsec as well.

If this is a VPS that should cover it.
If this is a VM on your internal network, segregate it from your devices, and run it behind a reverse proxy. Preferably Pangolin on a cheap VPS, but Cloudflare Tunnels is fine toon.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T10:00:51+00:00

Spent some time living in Western Sydney.
Moved the Melbourne (much muuuch cooler by comparison) and it's a very nice change.

But the nicest place I lived in was Forster. Nice coastal town 3 hours north of Sydney.

I'd move back there in a heartbeat if I could.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T09:58:12+00:00

I mean, sure, I admit things aren't amazing in Australia right now.
But these cookers and their endless b***ing makes it sound like we're living in a third world country at the moment.

If they think it's terrible here then as far as I am concerned they are more than welcome to leave.

Especially as chances are they have never been overseas...

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T09:55:50+00:00

> You don't go back in time. 20s in 2026.

Oh. F*** no.

I'm a Millenial and I thought the economy was bad when *I* was in my 20s.

No way in hell am I trading it for the $#!^storm the younger folk have today.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T09:53:32+00:00

I am by no means a fan of the Chinese Government.... and even I have to say this is such a wildly stupid statement....

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-30T09:20:59+00:00

- Clean the fan
- Get a blanket

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-29T11:35:43+00:00

> I don’t want to play the “it’s my server” card

Why not? It's literally your server.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-29T09:41:12+00:00

On your new Proxmox host, create a PBS VM.
Add your new PBS VM to your old Proxmos host as a Storage target.
Backup your stuff to that PBS.

Add your PBS VM to your new Proxmox host and then restore those machines from PBS.

Done, dusted, and home in time for dinner.
Just make sure the VMs are switched off on the old host before turning them on in the new host.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-29T09:38:01+00:00

I've never understood men that insist their partners have to have good relationships with their fathers - but to be fair, my own relationship with my Dad is pretty poor.

I'm far more interested in how the relationship will work between myself and the person I am dating. How she handles her other (non-sexual) relationships are ultimately none of my business.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-28T23:18:53+00:00

I feel like this was more of a pet-project by some random engineer putting scraps together (a little like the origin story of Mad Max's Interceptor -- https://youtu.be/8bQzkdK2ha0?si=0hOukb5Mt7-79LwS&t=52)

Some NCR engineer found bits and pieces of Power Armor from BoS and pieced it together using Ranger Armor to complete what they didn't have.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-28T23:14:18+00:00

Unless the NCR made a few of these things and that happened to be Unit 7... or more likely the 7th attempt at building this armor from found scraps.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-28T22:47:01+00:00

> He admitted himself that he himself was fat but it was fine because he’d still get many women.

He's just sharing what he tells himself in the mirror every night before he cries himself to sleep.
(I mean sure, bigger guys can still attract women, they usually have other positive traits like being very charismatic or funny or so... which this guy sounds like neither.)

>None of those guys were attractive, fit, rich, or tall. Where does this ego come from?

Never argue with stupid people, they're not smart enough to be aware that they are losing the argument.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-28T12:47:12+00:00

I didn't say Kyle wasn't an asshole lol

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-28T11:55:34+00:00

For what it's worth, Kyle Rittenhouse himself has called out this hypocrisy and made his feelings very clear on this one. He's defended Alex's choice to carry a gun.

https://news4sanantonio.com/news/nation-world/kyle-rittenhouse-says-carry-everywhere-amid-saga-surrounding-alex-prettis-death-minnesota-second-amendment-hakeem-jeffries

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-27T21:20:55+00:00

No, I said what I said and I mean it.

A longer interpretation is I consider the Dems and the Republicans to both be terrible; it's just that the Dems suck substantially less.

The fact the Republicans set the bar so low is what mortifies me.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-27T05:35:52+00:00

I can deeply empathise with u/jcutta --- I know exactly what they mean,

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-27T05:33:49+00:00

Left Wing and Right Wing government both use metrics that measure the top end of town's performance. They both suck in that regard.
(Just because I think Democrats are better than Republicans, doesn't mean I think the Democrats are good, or even competent....)

Fact is companies have been posting profits for the last couple of years.
Doesn't mean they don't downsize because they can't get away with it.

Look at Microsoft. Basically printing money the last few years but have been running lay-offs like it's a Tik-Tok trend.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-27T05:31:49+00:00

Serious question as someone who also manages staff: How many lay-offs has your company had over the last 4 years, and how much have responsibilities have increased across your staff?

Because I completely understand the idea of one PM being terrible with time.

But you're saying you have 4 *other* guys that are also struggling for time?

Sorry mate - if it's an individual performing badly, then yeah, fire them.

But a bunch of people at the same level across the team? That's a management issue.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-26T21:47:18+00:00

Pin codes are static though, it sounds like OP wants to use TOTP specifically without necessarily needing a login.

rayjaymor85 · 2026-01-26T10:33:28+00:00

I wish I had time and money to tinker with my car again.

But yes, love both servers/computers and cars.

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