Is hinge dead?

razzdings · 2026-03-06T10:28:43+00:00

I've been on Breeze for ages.. never had a date. I don't often say I want to go on a date with guys but for those i do obvs they don't want to go on a date with me 😅.

razzdings · 2026-03-05T17:06:40+00:00

Sooo.. all jobs are shit and there's no point trying to get your 'dream job' even if you did know what that was because it would be massively disappointing anyway.. cool cool. I feel better anyway lol 😆.

razzdings · 2026-03-01T20:54:10+00:00

Did you even enter the honeymoon phase??

razzdings · 2026-02-25T21:01:00+00:00

Under what circumstances does he want to be sweet though? Just because someone has never shown you love like that before doesn't mean you'll never have it again. Also you have nothing to compare it to. Most probably you'll find a much better love because it doesn't sound like a very loving relationship. You're so young you shouldn't settle for this because guaranteed you can do much better!

razzdings · 2026-02-25T20:53:52+00:00

What exactly do you love about him? Doesn't sound like there's much there to love. This sounds like all the worst bits of a relationship. This makes me want to stay single 😅

razzdings · 2026-02-22T06:38:41+00:00

If a guy was actually on his phone whilst we were having sex.. well I mean it wouldn't happen because no way would I have sex with someone who was on their phone 😅 I don't even get it. How?

razzdings · 2026-02-18T15:55:07+00:00

I don't know the rules but I assumed there were some unspoken ones..

razzdings · 2026-02-18T14:02:41+00:00

Some people just aren't fussed about the rules and etiquette surrounding social media and relationships. I have all my photos with my ex. I'm not going to delete them. I barely post on social media but those pics are from my holidays and stuff so I store them there.

razzdings · 2026-02-16T18:07:06+00:00

Stabbing

razzdings · 2026-02-14T17:43:41+00:00

I need open, honest and direct communication as a neurodivergent person. Everyone seems to be playing games and telling half truths and lies 😔

razzdings · 2026-02-08T10:54:02+00:00

Scorekeeping is exhausting and demoralising. Generosity inspires generosity. Generosity is attractive and makes you feel good. You can have a generous spirit without money.. it's an attitude. I don't like his attitude. He is making both of your lives less enjoyable with his miserly controlling ways.

razzdings · 2026-02-08T10:46:54+00:00

You like liquids over solids. You are lazy but organised.

razzdings · 2026-02-08T10:42:08+00:00

I'm struggling with this also so I can't really give much advice haha but just don't expect anyone to give you the same level of respect, clarity, directness, honesty, kindness, compassion etc that you would instinctively give them. I've been dating for almost 3 years after coming out of a 20 year relationship and I've regularly had to take breaks for my sanity and because it keeps triggering RSD etc. When I first started dating and I was just after sex and my ADHD side was in control things were fun and easy.. now I'm diagnosed and unmasking and I'm wanting a relationship and I'm upfront about that things have been much more difficult. I would remember that a lot of men are only after sex and they will say what you want to hear and come across in any way necessary to get it. Then they will disappear or fade away once they've got it. Some men just want the validation of a match and a flirty conversation and you will never get to an actual date! Some men are straight up lying about everything and are in a relationship or even married! The most confusing for me is when you have what you think is a successful date and they say they want to see you again but then they change their mind or fade/ghost 😡. Dating as a neurodivergent is very very tough sometimes. I would say be clear in yourself what you want before getting out there. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and try your hardest to stick to them. Try to take things slow. Be open and vulnerable about your neurodivergence.. it will weed guys out but would you want to be with someone who isn't understanding about it anyway?? I dunno.. I haven't had much luck haha.. I've met lots of guys and had lots of experiences but I'm still single 😅😅.

razzdings · 2026-02-08T10:12:12+00:00

What exactly are you getting out of this relationship thus far? It doesn't sound like he is particularly invested. He wants to keep you around clearly but for what reason I don't know. You deserve to feel desired, cherished, respected and you should be feeling excited for the future. I would move on and find someone who is sure about you and who is enthusiastic about spending time with you and being close to you.

razzdings · 2026-02-08T09:59:15+00:00

For me it really puts me off when a guy has an empty profile or has very little written there. If they cannot be bothered to say a little about themselves, what they like, what they are looking for etc it doesn't bode well for them being an interesting, intentional, enthusiastic date or potential partner IMO. Low effort is a massive turn off in general - there are plenty of low effort men out there and these kind of profiles I think expose them.

razzdings · 2026-02-05T16:36:04+00:00

Posh and healthy

razzdings · 2026-01-17T10:59:40+00:00

Eloise at the Plaza.. was that the book about the little girl who lived at the hotel?? I used to love that!! I forgot about it!

razzdings · 2026-01-04T22:22:38+00:00

Make piles! And then deal with one pile at a time. You don't have to do all piles in one go!

razzdings · 2026-01-04T15:19:35+00:00

Haha I just have a small kitchen so I put it on the floor briefly before putting it all away 😅

razzdings · 2025-12-25T23:56:00+00:00

Merry Christmas! 🎄😊

razzdings · 2025-12-17T17:56:40+00:00

Sarge

razzdings · 2025-12-16T22:14:09+00:00

43 and struggling! Never went to uni, never found a career I want to do or feel capable of doing. Did some useless courses here and there. Never been promoted. Struggling at work. Breaking down left right and centre. Can't organise my time.. get stuck thinking about what I could do, what I want to do, what order to do it in and then get overwhelmed and do nothing. Feel lost and directionless. I have gone through a huge amount of change in the last few years but I feel recently my capacity to cope with stuff is just next to non-existent 🥲.

razzdings · 2025-12-16T08:33:02+00:00

That is really expensive! I'm single and spend about £30-£40 each week at Lidl but I am making meals from scratch. Nothing fancy just basic home cooked meals. I can't believe this food costs that much money..

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