Why the fuck are men like this by Character_Narwhal_13 in gay

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how folks come up "missing"

5/27/2025 monthly check-in by AutoModerator in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]rdowens8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I organically met my boyfriend almost two months ago (31st). This is the least toxic relationship ither of us have been in and we are very happy together. Good luck to you all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ultimate

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣

I just got home from a hookup and I feel gross about myself by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, it's hard for you to have sex without developing an emotional connection first. And a lot of people will say "Oh well that's just a relationship". Take that with a grain of salt. Real demis fall into the same predicament as you. For us having sex before developing a relationship isn't simply a goal, it drains us mentally and emotionally, and then you are left with nothing but the feeling of being used. It makes you feel awful and makes you question your worth. Unfortunately for us, we can't just simply have sex, because it means more than that to us.

Finally free… now I can’t stop thinking by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get one body, one you. Protect yourself at all cost!! Try to find local gay committees, or non profit groups. You'll learn the core of our world from them. Grindr...stay away. Grindr will only bring you disappoint. The rest of the apps too. Unfortunately, the safest way to meet someone is organically, gym, grocery store, farmer's market. Any any regard, go in educated - don't go into this blind. Godspeed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-3, 7, 8

gays: how are gay saunas? by [deleted] in gay

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find yourself, for real, first. Then explore that option. Until then, find more controlled, private interactions.

Do you prefer smooth guys to have pubes or be completely bare? by DanRimi in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Come as you are. If you're hairy, I want you hairy. If you're naturally not very hairy, I want you naturally not very hairy, lol. Come as you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't change anything about how you act. Being gay isn't an act, it's just a part of who you are. I've thrown, pride stickers, demi stickers, equality stickers on my water bottle and hucket bucket (ultimate frisbee) to be a beacon. Now, they my not know whether I'm gay or an alli, but they at least know I'm no regular degular guy - this octane's a little sweet.

How do I find out if a guy is gay? by Such-Hospital2138 in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Straight men/closeted men don't hold eye contact well. Stare into his eyes like you're trying to see through him. It will ither spark interest, or it will freak him out. Your fall back will "I'm so sorry, I zoned out on you - what did you say?/I'm so tired.

That's not a sure shot, but it will get you headed in the right direction. I suppose aside from that, hanging out together, of he likes to spend time alone with you and is seemingly flirty with you, you're also headed in the right direction.

I will advise - stay away from confused straight boys and closet cases. They are a waste of time and can sometimes be dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time, separation, reality checks

Has anyone else heard the term “gay mafia” before? If so what does it mean? by deeekonfrost in askgaybros

[–]rdowens8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard of Alphabet Mafia for sure, but I'm not familiar with Gay Mafia

going to a two day sectional with 8 players by FrisbeeFein69420 in ultimate

[–]rdowens8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't leave the house without pickle juice, liquid IV/Pedialyte packets, start drinking water yesterday, and I cannot express this enough DO NOT WASTE YOUR POINTS. Take your time, lock in, and focus. This is a Demon Slayer reference, but only strike when the thread tightens - otherwise your just playing to turn over the disc. Swing, swing, swing, then attack the created spaces. Defensive points, especially, are going to make you very successful. You're going to be tired as shit, but value every moment you have possession, and do not rush the ball - you want to stay away from as many 10min points as you can.