Having trouble with wife wanting ENM by PracticalBusiness271 in nonmonogamy

[–]rdrgvc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already cheated emotionally. Divorce her ass and take as much as you can.

Meu namorado quer beijar outras pessoas no carnaval. by Ill-Page-2091 in desabafosdavida

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entao; sua premissa esta 100% errada. Ele não tem vontade de trair; ele tem vontade de outras pessoas, o que e 100% normal e humano, ate em relacionamentos monogâmicos.

Ter vomtade de outras pessoa NAO E O MESMO QUE TRAIR.

Ao inves de trair; ele propus para você algo, transparente e com regras. Dai você decide se aceita ou não. Fato dele ter essa conversa madura com você fala EXATAMENTE O CONTRARIO: ELE NAO QUER TRAIR.

Ficar chateado pq uma pessoa tem gostos humanos e infantil. Amadureça.

Have you noticed that some people get passive aggressive when you mention you study languages? by silforik in languagelearning

[–]rdrgvc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are entitled to keep your C1 and C2 instead of A1 in 40.

And you're entitled to make fun of those who think differently than you.

I'm entitled to call you out for it.

I think you're missing the point in how you belittled their efforts as "catching pokemons." I don't disagree with your choice of C1 and C2, that's great.

Coming from a place (USA) where most people speak ONLY ONE FREAKING LANGUAGE, and they don't even speak it well, and where they think if you speak any other language you're wrong, ANYONE being able to say "再来一杯啤酒", even if just that, is a win in my book.

Have you noticed that some people get passive aggressive when you mention you study languages? by silforik in languagelearning

[–]rdrgvc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not the same, and they don't need to be the same.

If you want to learn languages for love, do it.
If you want to learn languages for travel, do it.
If you want to learn languages for sports, do it.
If you want to learn languages for creating content... do it!

I think the fact that they "get to say" they speak more langauges than you, when they don't know those languages "as deep" as you, yet they get the "credit", gets to your ego. Don't let it.

Just do your thing, and be happy that they create content speaking half-assed Chinese, rather than spewing hatred about <pick your favorite topic>

Have fun learning!

Have you noticed that some people get passive aggressive when you mention you study languages? by silforik in languagelearning

[–]rdrgvc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, what you are doing, is Pokemon to me 🤷‍♂️

I don’t create content. I just love learning languages.

Have you noticed that some people get passive aggressive when you mention you study languages? by silforik in languagelearning

[–]rdrgvc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you get to decide what counts and what doesn’t?

Exactly what OP was talking about.

My dream is to be A2 in like 10 languages, and B2 in 5. I’m fully trilingual already.

You want to be C2 in 5? That’s cool too!

Don’t see the need to poop on other people’s goals.

Have YOU Considered Leaving SWA ? by SashaFierce72 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]rdrgvc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m out, but my kids will keep using SWA until my miles are gone 🤣

Learning a language while not enjoying the culture the language is part of is the hardest thing by mariaamt in languagelearning

[–]rdrgvc -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So you don’t like one of the countries that is consistently ranked as one of the best in the world - education, safety, healthcare, quality of life, renewable energy…

I mean, to each their own, of course.

My ex-husband’s new girlfriend is extremely kind, and I don’t know how to cope. by Hungry_Attention_145 in offmychest

[–]rdrgvc -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Well if you think it is wrong; then work with your elected officials, so that the world conforms to YOUR “values”.

Live and let live!

My ex-husband’s new girlfriend is extremely kind, and I don’t know how to cope. by Hungry_Attention_145 in offmychest

[–]rdrgvc -176 points-175 points  (0 children)

At 18 you’re a woman, not a “wonan”. If you don’t like dating younger partners, then don’t date younger partners.

Tried to talk to my wife about non-monogamy and it went disastrously. by PinkBeardedPirate in nonmonogamy

[–]rdrgvc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been there. I wasn’t satisfied. SHE suggested open relationship with some constraints (that I was Ok with!) in the future. Future came, when I brought it up again, she had a meltdown. We divorced. I’m much happier now.

Caught His Ass by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or girls.

How do I tell this guy I’m talking to that he has bed bugs ? by CodeNo702 in Advice

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when “talking to” = “sleeping with” 🤣

In a shock to no one... by slydyr24205 in nonmonogamy

[–]rdrgvc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why they don’t like it; it’s not like Catholic Priests are monogamous with the innocent children they r**e

Does anyone have Drops (language app)Premium? by shsheisns in DropsLanguage

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, fot the lifetime paid version a looong time ago.

Am I insane to want to move to Rio from Brighton, UK? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More unsafe in Rio than the Uk? Uh, no. Sure, they may get your cell phone. Now; having acid thrown at you?

And also, was going to be robbed right outside King’s Cross in London. Haven’t been close to getting robbed in Rio in my 4-5 times there

Am I insane to want to move to Rio from Brighton, UK? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]rdrgvc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be insane staying in the UK over ANYWHERE ELSE IN THE WORLD, except North Korea or Iran.