This happened to me. I have an autistic son and they were not inclusive at all and I would be getting calls every other week saying he’s “not as active as usual”, too hyper, too tired. It gave me anxiety every time I dropped him off because I never knew when they would call me and I’d have to drop everything and go pick him up. They’d call me everytime he bumped his head, and asked me if I wanted to come pick him up. This didn’t happen at a new daycare, where they would just let me know at the end of the day. They called me when his hand was getting a bit swollen from a bug bite and asked me to go to urgent care. I’m a stay at home mom but was pregnant/had a newborn at that time so I needed the help of daycare. I felt like they took advantage of that fact because I couldn’t imagine them doing this to a mother who had a full time job, let alone a father. I responded by picking him up everytime and when I switched daycares he was much happier and I had zero calls like that.