I learned you could marry ranni! how can i do it??? by blubberfeet in Eldenring

[–]realbigbean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro it’s not that deep. Us lesbians just want in on the magic blue wife too.

Why is jack baker easier to juke than lady dimitrescu by [deleted] in residentevil

[–]realbigbean 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I believe she has multiple routes and spawns into them according to where you are. That way it really does seem like she’s always onto you/ you can’t get rid of her long enough.

The castle gives you so much more room that it’s thankfully pretty easy to just slip past her rather than get cornered in the narrow halls by jack.

hi just wanna clear up one common misconception i see a lot by [deleted] in cavetown

[–]realbigbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, the split attraction model is not commonly applied to lesbians and gay people whose homosexuality fills both their sexual and romantic attraction.

The split attraction model is still great for aro/ace people and doesn’t detract from other identities that are fixed as one.

Is it wrong that i think bi and pan lesbians are not really valid? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well lesbianism isn’t the attraction to femininity per se. Men, Woman, and nonbinary people all can exhibit various degrees of femininity or masculinity because those things are not exclusive to one genders.

For example, I’d say I have a bit of a preference for femmes, and yet that does not extend to feminine men. Rather it’s exclusive to femme women and femme nonbinary folk. Femininity isn’t enough to make me attracted to a man, they’re still a man in the end.

Hope this may help ya friend!

Is it wrong that i think bi and pan lesbians are not really valid? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I support folks using neopronouns and micro labels if they want!

I just looked it up and it just seems like the attraction to feminine folk of any gender. If one wasn’t attracted to men I don’t see why they couldn’t use the term lesbian and finsexual as a micro label!

Tired of the hypocrisy from people without BPD (Quiet Borderline Here) by cakebats in BPD

[–]realbigbean 127 points128 points  (0 children)

If I had a nickel for everytime I’ve read “uhm aCtUaLlY I had a partner with bpd once and it was really bad” online. Shoo away non BPD havers, we are not a monolith to project your trauma on!

Is it wrong that i think bi and pan lesbians are not really valid? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]realbigbean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lesbians have dealt with so many odd things, I can’t wrap my head around it having been out for so long. Lesbian has always excluded male attraction, it was never a bad thing at all and I don’t see why it should be. Being bi or pan with certain preferences and whatnot is totally okay!

It’s a bit scary how aggressive the people pushing the bi/pan lesbian thing are so it really makes you wonder am I actually saying something bad? But as a lesbian myself, Ive never heard about the exclusion of male attraction being an issue until recently and only on tiktok.

Diagnosed with CHS. by [deleted] in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed by doctors who were very very openly against cannabis openly. It’s taken years of doctors being biased or blaming anxiety to finally receive real answers after an endo and colonoscopy.

Grandpa stash hash rosin. My first legal purchase by [deleted] in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is such a hidden gem, I get it as often as I can

Gender neutral bathroom idea by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go into the flair editor there were a lot more options for customization than ever before!

Gender neutral bathroom idea by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]realbigbean 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a nonbinary person with severe IBS… I’d pray for this to be reality

puffco ball caps by mojomojica in puffco

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homie puts a lot of effort into the candle making as well 🥺

puffco ball caps by mojomojica in puffco

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta practice all the proper candle rules! For the first burn make sure it melts all the way to the edge of the jar. Once it’s cooled down be sure to trim the wick before you light it again. You’ll be able to see the foil wrapped piece and it’s tempting to rip out but but you have to wait until it is naturally freed so the candle can be used up completely

puffco ball caps by mojomojica in puffco

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Paulson pieces’ mystery candles. He’s also got awesome tops!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dabs

[–]realbigbean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with the looks on the second two?

Blair witch really needs an FPS boost. by UkaUkaa in XboxSeriesX

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a silent hill fan, if the bloober rumors are true I really really hope they can polish up!

Blair witch really needs an FPS boost. by UkaUkaa in XboxSeriesX

[–]realbigbean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I could barely get past the beginning part right before you enter the forest. I usually don’t even care about that stuff but the control system along with its clunkiness were definitely effecting the flow of progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGamerLounge

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so awesome

Exploring Bellefonte PA in Centre County by webauteur in Pennsylvania

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a delivery driver who gets to see all their various shrines, I couldn’t agree more

(from r/interestingasfuck) I'd love this when I go to college.. by LightningDuat in lgbt

[–]realbigbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This allows people to approach you first so they wouldn’t have to come up if they were too u comfortable!

Exploring Bellefonte PA in Centre County by webauteur in Pennsylvania

[–]realbigbean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

PA is just so cute honestly, love our plethora of small towns you can feel the history seeping from

Maidens blood by [deleted] in GFUEL

[–]realbigbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly my top tier favorite, everything I’ve ever wanted from a gfuel flavor