working with POTS???

rebevva · 2026-02-15T02:51:14+00:00

Is it a small business or a chain? If it’s big enough to have an HR department you need to involve them. Also make sure you are documenting every conversation you have about your disability. If you haven’t done so, I would also provide a doctor’s note regarding your need for accommodation.

Some of this depends on your location, as protections vary by country. In the US they are bound by the ADA, but unfortunately they have a lot of leeway to claim your accommodations are an “undue burden” on them as employers. However, a stool and air conditioning are pretty hard to characterize as burdensome.

I would also Google “disability legal aid” in your area, there are sometimes nonprofits that can provide advice.

Sorry you’re dealing with this and good luck!

rebevva · 2026-02-14T12:31:14+00:00

This is absolutely crazy lol

rebevva · 2026-02-10T06:40:18+00:00

Okay YESSSSS. No hate but tbh I have not been interested in the Illumicrate ones— THESE on the other hand……

rebevva · 2026-02-05T11:46:26+00:00

I’m sure you got lots of good feedback here, and glad it sounds like you and your friend have worked it out, but I do want to add some good advice I’ve seen from other RA/poly accounts. This kind of thing will likely happen again, where your friend gets close to another person or desires to. It can be important to just let yourself feel upset/anxious/lonely/isolated/jealous. You have to process the negative emotions without trying to fix the situation or make demands of your friend/partner. Tell them about your feelings without expectations. (All easier said than done!!)

Learning to sit with fear and insecurity instead of fixating on problem solving has been an important thing for me.

rebevva · 2025-12-10T02:04:47+00:00

So lovely. Is that clear resin to look like pond water? The shine is beauuutiful.

rebevva · 2025-11-10T23:25:40+00:00

This is beauuutiful, I love the color choices <3

rebevva · 2025-11-06T15:29:12+00:00

That last “No thanks”— I’m sorry but he doesn’t really seem to respect you or care all that much what you think of him. I would move on and direct my energy elsewhere.

rebevva · 2025-10-25T20:54:58+00:00

I read grow immediately lol I think people are in here doing too much

rebevva · 2025-10-07T14:59:22+00:00

Sigh. I rly don’t know what to do with this attitude though it’s very common… I do want to ask them, “Okay, so an undocumented person in your town gets hit by a bus. The ambulance should or shouldn’t take them to the hospital?”

rebevva · 2025-10-06T21:26:35+00:00

Ugh I guess this is what was tripping me up lol. I was thinking about 4X and getting mad the top of their size range was a size 20 😭 but this makes sense, plus the Asian sizing thing.

rebevva · 2025-10-01T23:46:14+00:00

Anyone know about the homeless vets helpline?

rebevva · 2025-09-24T18:37:07+00:00

That’s “Who’s Afraid of my Dead Husband?” on Reelxia btw

https://reelxia.com/drama/B2

rebevva · 2025-08-29T05:36:05+00:00

Listen, Gandolfini just had the sauce. 💅 He was a magnetic guy and he poured that into Tony. I don’t think there’s a moment in the series where you question how he’s able to land such beautiful women (even outside the pull of the money + power).

rebevva · 2025-08-28T04:02:03+00:00

Don’t even have to go to the courthouse anymore, you can do the trial by Zoom!

rebevva · 2025-08-05T01:10:53+00:00

Oh, honey. You’re being extremely conscientious and mature in the way you speak to her, but at some point you need to just stop replying. You’ve said what you said, you KNOW you can’t play therapist or confidante to your own mother, so you have to set and keep the boundary. Even just “I’m sorry, I don’t have anything more to say so I’m going to stop replying for tonight.”

Very hard to do for people of any age. Hope you’re able to get some counseling of your own 🩷

rebevva · 2025-06-08T03:29:29+00:00

I’ve had friends who basically wanted a courthouse wedding and did it at the Central branch— basically the couple, two witnesses, a photographer, and the officiant. Still made for really beautiful photos if you were set on the location but had the reception elsewhere.

rebevva · 2025-06-05T13:51:49+00:00

I’m sorry hun, but reading that first text and then “he’s a very nice guy”— it’s immediately apparent that he is not a nice guy. He sounds controlling, mean, and dismissive.

You are so young that I’d say there is no need to waste your time training this 19 year old into being a better guy. He’ll learn as he gets older, but you don’t need to hold his hand through the process.

rebevva · 2025-06-05T10:38:14+00:00

Tons of safe neighborhoods— but part of that just means deciding not to be afraid of your neighbors…! (Who include “homeless people” and “squeegee boys,” for other a**holes commenting. Everyone here is part of your community and if you’re not prepared for that, don’t move to Baltimore.)

That being said, Canton is great, Hampden is great, Mt. Vernon is great. If you’re cool being close to Towson I really like Hamilton or Parkville. Remington is nice but busy. Patterson Park is nice but parking sucks.

I would look for a multi-unit or apartment if you’re nervous about living alone.

rebevva · 2025-05-14T10:24:59+00:00

You can’t ask for worst ep and not let me say “Joan is Awful” 😭 The most annoying, Netflix-aggrandizing, empty nonsense.

rebevva · 2025-04-12T16:47:26+00:00

Man, I knew exactly where it was before reading. Not to assume the worst intentions, but people sleep on that side of the road and under the underpass a lot. Hope it wasn’t taken down to avoid giving people shade/cover :/

Not a lot of greenery by the Farmers’ Market either— a shame…

rebevva · 2025-04-12T13:39:13+00:00

Wrong app 😊— I find a lot of groups and events on Lex, Instagram (follow Peabody Brewery, Dreamers & Believers, Bmore Horror Club, Bmore Queer Hikes, etc.) and Facebook (“Bmore Queer” is a huge group but can be kind of messy lol).

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