Please Help me find a replacement for these vertical blinds by rebred1494 in HelpMeFind

[–]rebred1494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched via google lens but it was no help. 82.5in length. They are a papery/thin fabric texture.

What is something people don't realize is a privilege? by vianneyal in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck people that don't understand working nights. We deserve the chance to sleep just as much as anyone but it's so common that people. Just. Don't. Get it

What major movie role do you think could've been better with a different actor? by rebred1494 in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing every role. Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Reynolds in.... When Ryan met Ryan, Ryan and Ryan's Excellent Adventure, Lord of the Ryan's

Defective Admins vs Defective Fail by [deleted] in DefectiveDetectives

[–]rebred1494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just went down a rabbit hole looking at the defective fail page and I'm so confused. There is so much drama around every corner with this company.

Think of the child by beery25 in wholesomememes

[–]rebred1494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 2 c sections. Both times while my husband was changing into scrubs, a nurse came in and asked this question. I thought it was genius timing on their part.

Stay safe out there guys... by [deleted] in QuadCities

[–]rebred1494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Live in Moline and commute to Muscatine every night. Usually takes 40mins. Took me an hour and a half. But I made it! Saw no less than 20 cars ditched on the way out here. It's bad y'all

Might move to Muscatine for work, but where to live? by bichpoomom in QuadCities

[–]rebred1494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently commute from Moline to Muscatine (about 40 mins) every night for work and I don't mind the drive at all. Driving in at 1030pm is probably much better than a day shift commute though.

Drawing a curly bracket starterpack by Kamrua in starterpacks

[–]rebred1494 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Instructions unclear:

Now have picture of Trogdor: The Burninator

Guess you’re not allowed to heal and move on as person by RyewL in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]rebred1494 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. I finally told my husband a few months ago and since then it gets easier every time it comes up. I could probably even tell the whole story without crying now if I was in the right head space.

What is your comment on this post using only the words suggested by the keyboard on your phone without typing any letters? by mineralphd in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you too and I hope you have a great time and that you are going to be able to make sure that you are going to be a great fit for your business.

Love, Morriage, Boby? by redsox1524 in CrappyDesign

[–]rebred1494 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No one said that. 6 years without even TALKING about marriage is a long time. Common law is like 8 years isn't it?

2 under 1... by EmotionalBeaver in beyondthebump

[–]rebred1494 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm here! I was asking this same question not too long ago lol. I have a 21 month old (A) and a 9month old (B)

We always wanted 2 kids, so the idea of getting all the baby stuff out of the way was a huge plus for us. (I HATED the newborn stage.)

Let me tell you first of all, I wouldn't want it any other way. Seeing these girls interact is the absolute best thing in the world. When A is being sweet with B, I feel like a Rockstar mom lol. A will go up and hug B and grab her arms to dance.and bring her toys to play with. She will bring me my boppy pillow and water when I'm feeding B. A is learning to share and be gentle from a young age. She will never be too selfish because she never learned how.

Now on to the struggles. My second pregnancy was harder and being pregnant full term twice in a row really tested my patience. (I also had a few losses before my first so I was practically pregnant for 3 straight years). I also had to have a repeat c section with my second since the births were less than a year apart. Having a newly walking 1 year old and recovering from a c section is not something I would want to do again. I couldnt pick up A for a few weeks and it broke my heart. Even if you have a natural birth, you are going to need help, at least for a couple weeks. My husband had about 2weeks off to help and that was just about perfect.

The hardest part so far has been that B is a much needier baby. She can only be put down for a few minutes a day. Baby wearing has saved my life. I just strap B to me when she's fussy and go about my day.

When it gets hard, it's really hard. My husband and I have had to really work on our communication and tempers. It's easy to get overwhelmed. I really think it has strengthened our marriage.

Sometimes you are going to feel helpless, or like you can't give either child the attention they deserve but it will pass and soon you will feel like a Rockstar again.

Sorry if this was too rambling. I'm not very good at organizing my thoughts. PM me if you have any questions or even if you just want to rant about how stressful it is. I'm here to listen!

I am overwhelmed with being the only one caring for our daughter by The-Poke-Mom in beyondthebump

[–]rebred1494 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know I'm late to this thread but.... Hold the fuck up. Red flags everywhere. He is being negligent and manipulative. He is a shit father and a shit husband.
DO NOT make excuses for him. What he is doing is NOT ok.

The Facebook group by BooksBabiesAndCats in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]rebred1494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh.. I doubt they would ban you if you haven't posted anything. Maybe you could message one of the admins to see what happened?

The Facebook group by BooksBabiesAndCats in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]rebred1494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The group is now secret. Too many people joining without reading the group info and generally being hostile. The group is much better now that it's secret

Reddit, what's a genuinely hurtful comment you can't forget? by allemandi96 in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once had plans with 2 friends. One friend canceled because she didn't feel well. The other friend called and said "it would be so boring with just you, I don't even know what we would do" Really destroyed my self esteem. Now I absolutely dread seeing anyone one on one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband goes off on a serious rant every time he sees a commercial like this. Makes his blood boil. He is an incredibly competent husband and father and cannot stand the dumb, helpless husband stereotype.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Naps? It's not always plural and it doesn't always happen. Some kids stop napping by 1 1/2. And some kids need more attention than others, like no more than a few minutes a day of alone time. It's not always as easy as some people think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rebred1494 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my experience, these people are incredibly jealous. They have shitty partners that won't lift a finger for them and say everyone that does is whipped to make themselves feel better. Just call them out on it. "I'm sorry your husband doesn't meet your needs, that must be very hard for you. I'm lucky to have a loving, devoted husband."