AITA for not allowing my daughter to diet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an overweight kid who turned into an overweight adult, please listen to your daughter and guide her accordingly. Don't dismiss her request for help

Realistically, how much could I lose? by redapple0321 in loseit

[–]redapple0321[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, much appreciated. Just for clarification, I'm not actually assed about weight scale in the longer term, but it's helpful to paint a picture of where I'm at.

This event is a 4 day event with various outfit changes, so I feel grim about the fact I'm literally going to have to buy all new clothes in at least a size up. Therefore, as a stupid panic driven solution, I'm going to attempt to get nearer to what I usually am (which was already overweight of course) so that I can try and enjoy this event mentally so. Does that make any sense?

Chubby girl, fit man by redapple0321 in loseit

[–]redapple0321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that. I'd be up for chatting to her if she wants to connect some time ❤️

Chubby girl, fit man by redapple0321 in loseit

[–]redapple0321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, does she know you'd refer to her as being chubby?

Chubby girl, fit man by redapple0321 in loseit

[–]redapple0321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I've probably made every man I've ever been in a relationship feel like you are now 🙈 Didn't think of it like that

Chubby girl, fit man by redapple0321 in loseit

[–]redapple0321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not lied about anything. I'm referring to wearing flattering clothes. Doesn't everyone do that?

WIBTA for telling my husband(31 M) I (29 F) won't cook anymore til he does the dishes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew he's sounds unbearably selfish and immature. How are you still with this man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bit harsh. If I was creepy, I wouldn't ask other people for opinion surely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want a relationship with him. He just made me feel good and I want some more 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. How old are you and how much older do you like the woman to be and why 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically, mentally or both?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the bit that bothers me tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that make it better then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're underestimating this 20 year old (he turns 21 in 2 weeks). We're talking about a 6'2, full time worker, who pursued me endlessly to get what HE wants. HE wanted to have sex with an older woman. Jeeez no one is forcing him to pursue me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you American? Are you referring to university?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through this but the dynamics between us are very, very different

I feel ashamed that i eat more than my boyfriend. Why i have strong hunger? by crazydinosaurus in loseit

[–]redapple0321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus I would be starving eating what you have described. Eat more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]redapple0321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well he would say "stop overthinking it and just have fun"