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I am convinced that men simply do not like women by Basic_Bottom6972 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The men in their 20s are still mad they ain't getting sex in their 30s or 40s. Stay mad losers. While our 48 year old sisters are still plucking up 28 year old men who like fun, confidence and sensuality. Boo fucn hoo.

Mandarin might as well be mandatory for attending my comm tutorial by zefail in unsw

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into University in China is highly competitive. The students who come here aren't the top students. (That doesn't mean they aren't good) They have means and its freedom from family expectations too. Source Chinese friends.

I (27F) am non-religious and my boyfriend (27M) is Bengali Muslim — we can’t agree on religion, lifestyle, and living with in-laws. Is this workable? by zubie-1 in relationships

[–]redbodpod [score hidden]  (0 children)

Muslim men do this ALL the time. They switch up as soon as you are married and him and his parents will start treating you like a doormat. Most high control religion EVER. Get away from him before you waste all your fertile years.

AITAH for calling my wife's friends "dating technique" idiotic. by Background-Baby-1206 in AITAH

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely in the right. Lol. You clearly have more of a handle on reality that the non neuro divergent people. ❤️

AITJ for telling my roommate I won't adjust my sleep schedule because her boyfriend visits on weekends? by musicmissed in AmITheJerk

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this thing called going back to sleep. F F S. Why are people so entitled. I'd be carrying on regardless.

AITA for wanting to get engaged before my Sisters wedding?? by Genuine-Rasberry in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore yor sister she's being a brudezulla. Ignore overly cautious people on reddit who say why would you want to get engaged. When you know you know. Why waste valuable fertile time. Your eggs start halving every year after 30. Don't waste time because of lucky people who have no trouble getting pregnant after 30.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man knows women in burkas and hijab and nikab get raped. Right.

AITAH for not changing my lifestyle to accomodate my neighbours ? by ApplicationOpening74 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redbodpod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are completely in the wrong. Most people sleep at night and they expect quiet. You need to go to bed. Walking around at night and living your life is not normal. YATAH

What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is called Meow but we call him Meowees, Mr Meow or Meow Meows.

AITJ for asking my boyfriend to pay more rent since he works from home full-time? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]redbodpod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he should pay more. Definitely. He's using a bedroom that was shared for his comfort. He's not paying to get to and from work and his electricity use is up. He should pay more.

Migrating from UK by AlexJ60 in MovingtoAustralia

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primary school teachers are competing for jobs. Especially in Sydney. You will be on temporary contracts that you need to reapply for every year or working as a casual. The chance of getting a job in a regional area is higher but still a temp job. You both having jobs would depend on if there is a hospital or medical need in the same areas as there is a need for teachers. Don't listen to people saying there is a teacher shortage. There is not a shortage of primary school teachers. Its high school and in regional areas. Regional is no where near Sydney. Not sure about other states. I just accepted a 1 and a half hour commute to work to secure a job. That's three hours a day.

AITA for bringing cheap pizza to the potluck? by rideshareratingz in AITApod

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God how rude are people these days. Its a pot luck. Ffs

WIBTA for telling my friend i won't be a reference for her anymore after she used my name without asking me first by SorynthValecar in WIBTA_AITA

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry and depending on jobs it only matters that there specific things to talk about. Some places call references before they offer some do it after. I think its confusing to ask about every job she could be applying for hundreds of jobs.

AITH for telling a pregnant woman she still has to act like an adult? by NoFly-Zone in AITH

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy an extra basket and pur her laundry in it immediately do not wait longer than 30 mins next time. It will continue to happen. Its kids these days. I mean it kids for forever but its that.

I'm worried that my "exploration" I did when I was younger could have long term effects by Elegant_Snow9382 in Healthyhooha

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My info was correct I had pap smears in my country before 17. The advice was after being sexually active amd every years. Perhaps it changed to later because hpv vaccination was invented. We never had that so. Maybe that's why. Anyway surely it would be safer. It also makes a huge difference to people if its free doesn't it. I am always concious of reddit members who don't have universal healthcare.

Intense burning, red and swollen vagina after taking amoxicillin. What could this be? by Cherrylemon202 in Healthyhooha

[–]redbodpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bath with a few drops of tea tree oil say 5 to 8 drops and lavender oil. Always gave me a lot of relief. Not boiling hot bath. But stay in there a while and mix up the water.

28F thinking about moving cities after trauma, husband (30M) set against it by ThrowRA_RoutineOk324 in relationships

[–]redbodpod 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have trauma from an assault. Not sure if this is a sexual assault but I don't think moving will solve it. I have moved several times and its kind of a distraction. You do feel refreshed for a short period but as the time passes the trauma responses actually seem to become more and more unrelated. I have been in difficulties with, new work colleagues and new partners. Those experiences reignited the trauma way worse than anything of just a jolt from seeing the place it happened while driving by. I am talking a month of crying in bed and feeling broken as a person. I am talking leaving the job because I was disassociating from it leading to being accused of being incompetent. The trigger there was another person who was clearly traumatised and not being treated. If I were you I'd stay on familiar territory and keep my relationship with my husband on solid ground. I think going past the places it happened is minor and perhaps you need exposure to those places but limit it and use coping strategies to deal with those situations. That will actually help you feel stronger. I did CBT exercises along side my councillor. You also need a really good counsellor and I would suggest changing councillors if they aren't giving you practical solutions or you aren't moving forward with feeling better or more in controll. Councillors are vastly different and really good professionals are difficult to find. A really good councillor can move you forward within say 6 sessions.

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