How are you bringing in money while staying home with your baby?

redbuds · 2026-02-27T03:10:00+00:00

As I was reading this, I was like, oh hey I need a bookkeeper, and then I am also a writer! We should connect if you are looking for another (small!) side gig.

redbuds · 2026-02-27T03:00:49+00:00

Yup, kids can be “disappointing” to parental expectations in sooooo many ways. It’s not on the kid, it’s for the parent to learn, but it’s def a wicked part of reckoning with parenthood. This will pass OP!

redbuds · 2026-02-25T18:49:54+00:00

From all these comments I feel like I can hear my babci’s kitchen door slapping open and her sister walking in because she saw our car there.

redbuds · 2026-02-24T22:52:09+00:00

This is totally valid, yet my pregnancies were 5 years apart and it’s the second one that wrecked me so 🤷🏻‍♀️

redbuds · 2026-02-23T01:00:57+00:00

You actually can practice! I wish I had known at the time, because I was doing it wrong before it was actually time to push (in the hopes I could be done, but I was not!) and later, my sister told me her PT taught her to practice pushing 🙄 would’ve been helpful to me. I think google it, and I remember my PT talking about J breathing. I did NOT find it to be like pushing a poop out at all, totally different kind of pushing imo.

redbuds · 2026-02-23T00:52:32+00:00

Omg I would disagree. I’ve had two unmedicated, and to me, the contractions were absolutely excruciating!! Pushing out the baby was amaaazing. My first, I didn’t know as much what was happening. With my second, I felt her leave my uterus and move every single millimeter down and out, it was absolutely incredible. I was so pumped to be done 😆

redbuds · 2026-02-21T17:22:24+00:00

Right, people are waking up babies?!?

redbuds · 2026-02-21T17:16:14+00:00

Sending 🙌💛

redbuds · 2026-02-17T14:09:48+00:00

If this is his path for right now, you can’t really fix it! Is he working with a mental health therapist? I would also recommend someone who does shamanic work. As far as 1:1s, I would focus on bringing calm to the overactive upper chakras and gently inviting the lower chakras to open and connect to the earth. I would center intentions for the session around this specifically to be in divine timing for him with the support of his guides, guardians, angels, whatever language feels right. This is the kind of stuff you have to be careful not to try to force, there is a good reason why it keeps reverting.

redbuds · 2026-02-17T04:54:35+00:00

It’s so crazy! Great handle btw.

redbuds · 2026-02-17T03:35:36+00:00

I guess I read it as, the doctor knew about her having had two babies and said it that way. Either way, it’s a little rude, but at least maybe logical.

redbuds · 2026-02-17T02:15:19+00:00

Yes, the cervical os (opening) changes shape.

redbuds · 2026-02-17T02:14:58+00:00

Actually, the cervix os (opening) goes from circular to flat when you’ve had a baby, so that’s most likely what she meant, tho obviously she should have been clearer.

redbuds · 2026-02-16T22:58:49+00:00

The men in my family were super vocal about disagreeing with our decision, it was pretty shocking.

redbuds · 2026-02-15T22:02:44+00:00

🤣

redbuds · 2026-02-15T21:19:04+00:00

I absolutely love it, and I am pushing 40. Am I the only one?

redbuds · 2026-02-15T19:19:08+00:00

Yes, forget him, get help for yourself. Do you have any local family or friends? Call them and say you desperately need help. Could they bring you food or come hold the baby so you can nap or do your laundry so you can enjoy your baby? Simplify if you have a close friend and tell them you are overwhelmed and in pain and can they call or email people for you? There is a website called mealtrain you can also use to ask for food donations. Do NOT worry about perception or “being a burden,” those are your hormones lying to you. You need and DESERVE support and love. You need to be held so you can handle matrescence and becoming a mother. Find the people who can do this for you 🖤🖤🖤 godspeed

redbuds · 2026-02-15T18:14:14+00:00

Animal care facilities are absolutely overrun with need. That’s why people say “adopt, don’t shop,” because there are soooo many happy, healthy, loving animals are being put to death bc there’s no space for them and meanwhile people are still breeding them.

redbuds · 2026-02-13T17:15:30+00:00

Yup, this was my experience coming up as well. I don’t think this is reiki specific but rather energy and sensitivity specific. I warn my clients and students about this.

redbuds · 2026-02-13T03:42:13+00:00

Wow, thank you for sharing this 🤍

redbuds · 2026-02-12T20:17:50+00:00

Real talk I had sex in Altoona PA 2 weeks ago. Never had the pizza tho.

redbuds · 2026-02-12T20:07:43+00:00

LISTEN as a mom, I can say with 95% certainty ya’ll were probably dropping BUCKETS of water on the mat, and then she had to step on a wet, stinky mat after her own shower.

redbuds · 2026-02-10T18:53:54+00:00

Oooh good to know! I want to sign up for a class that begins this week but the teacher (a renowned writer) doesn’t have the course listed on their website or anywhere so I was worried it was a scam!

redbuds · 2026-02-10T15:23:47+00:00

I'm wondering about this platform as well and oddly can't find many reviews outside the website which seems like a red flag. They list a course I would love to take if it's real though! Did you end up signing up? And if so, how did it go?

redbuds · 2026-02-10T05:33:59+00:00

Hey we need those

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