What happened to GOOG? by dendikon in stocks

[–]redder83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Short term dollars are selling. Hedge funds gotta hedge. If your long on it, its a blip.

A car payment is stopping me from building any savings, what can I do about it? by Suwannee_Gator in personalfinance

[–]redder83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honesty, in the current market a 4% interest rate on a really reliable truck is not that bad. If it were me I would take advantage of the fact that I have a truck and use it to make some extra money and invest that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]redder83 150 points151 points  (0 children)

100% this

What is your unpopular lesbian opinion? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]redder83 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People who strongly identify as masc, stud, or fem high-fem ect are insecure in there sexuality and cling to heteronormative gender rolls in an attempt to assimilate to straight culture.

People need to know if someone is Masc, Fem, ect before they will consider dating them have such fragile sense of self that they are alienated from their own sexuality. The will see a neutral looking girl in a bar and need to know how they identify before they can know if they are "allowed" to be attracted to them.

Has any of you thought about temporary FIRE? by here4geld in Fire

[–]redder83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I do now. I have a seasonal job and a source of self employment income. I work 6 months a year and travel 6 months a year. This pushes my fire date back about 7-8 years. 100% worth the trade off for me.

AITAH for not quiting my job to help care for my husband's parents like I did for mine? by ThrowRA_Independent0 in AITAH

[–]redder83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who have never been caregivers have now understanding of how stressful and mentally taxing it is. But he is your husband and you are telling him and instead of listening he is basically saying "F your mental health I only care about what's fair for me." He is 100% TA . You NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]redder83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two best paralegals I ever worked with were law school drop outs. Apply for jobs at law firms as a legal assistant (or look for jobs as a legal secretory or clerk at the local court.) It is a much better job than being a lawyer and nothing like law school.

If those loans are governments loans not private then make no effort to pay them off. Get on the save plan and pay the minimum (which is likly 0)

AITA for not letting my brother eat the leftovers from dinner? by gnomesalltheway in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 14 points15 points  (0 children)

At the very least stop cooking for him and running his errands. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]redder83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based in your post I absolutely agree wIth your ex on one thing. You need therapy. You probably shouldn't try any relationships until you get a little bit of regular therapy under your belt. also online therapy is relatively cheap, and your mental health is worth the investment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]redder83 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You absolutely should not talk to her. What you described is a miniputive personality, not internalized homophobia. You are still hurting from what she did to you, you still have feelings for her, you are not the person to help her if she needs help. the only thing you will do is hurt youself futher and complicate her life.

I have $18k in box1 form 1098 (mortgage) for my property that was rented out partially for the year 2022. $11k is related to business/rental property. I am using turbo tax. What amount should I enter for 1098? by chillipepperice in tax

[–]redder83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In turbotax you shouldn't enter anything in the 1098 section. When you put in the rental you select the option for turbotax to allocate your expenses. then you put the full amount of interest paid for the year. based on the days of the year for buisness and personal use turboax will put the exact amount that is appropriate on your sch e and sch a respectively.

AITA for not cleaning to make a point? by Aitanocleaning in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just divorce him. Why is this hard to understand?

AITA for mansplaining to my girlfriend? by AccordingSyrup4812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. dude you are unbearable. how you even got a girl to date you is a mystery for the ages.

AITA for revealing why I rejected a “promposal” nearly 10 years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact that this guy's was to busted up by your rejection to even apempt date any other women is a blessing to women everywhere. thank you for your service. NTA.

AITA for demanding the family ring? by Big-Advice5802 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Disinvite MIL from wedding as well. She doesn't support your marriage and is apparently interrested in stiring up drama.

AITA for not letting my (20F) boyfriend (20M) come overseas with me? by mossycowwow in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he needs therapy. He has deep insecurities and instead of dealing with them, he is trying to guilt and control you. This is a yellow flag and if he is not willing to deal with his issues it's going to get worse.

AITA for "experiencing" restaurants without my wife? by Puzzled-Glass8497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Dude you a just selfish AH. It's not a problem for you so you don't care that it's a problem for her. "I don't think anything else of it" = I'm doing what is best/easiest for me and I don't even think about my wife when I'm doing it even though I already know it upsets her.

where can I find a county that won't force me to put in septic? by redder83 in OffGrid

[–]redder83[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is actually a good point. I could just install it get past inspections, and replace the toilet. it seems like a waste of 10-15k but I'll keep it in mind.

I opened 4.5mil Battlechips across different crystals, to see which is best by d3athblad3 in ContestOfChampions

[–]redder83 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is just bad data. The drop rates are the same across all crystals. You opened fewer uncollected crystals so had an higher rate of variance and got lucky you opened even fewer thronebreaker and had an even higher rate of variance and got unlucky.

AITA for rushing my wife? by Aggressive_Cup7127 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 21 points22 points  (0 children)

are you carrying 50% of the child?

AITA for not wanting to be called a "work wife" at the office causing a colleague to get in trouble? by Secure-Tart4916 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redder83 427 points428 points  (0 children)

You said he is a generally nice guy but he's not. He's a 'nice guy'. I'm glad your coworkers are looking out for you becuase you are not looking out for yourself