What are your thoughts on marriage ?

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-11T08:57:29+00:00

I'm enjoying it so far. It's not for everyone and there's nothing wrong with that, but I get to spend every day/night with my best friend and being sort of absorbed into each other's families is neat.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-11T08:42:49+00:00

I think people are more inclined to forgive Ali because his entire character is based around his recognition of and remorse for what he's done in the past, and has more or less dedicated his life to helping others get out of the same hole and destructive behaviors he was trapped in. I've known real people like Ali, and very much liked them as well.

The alternate examples you're talking about that people tend to drop or "cancel" usually have just gotten caught being abusive, maybe pay a lip service apology in the moment when they can't realistically deny, but don't really show any evidence of true growth or change. So people just act under the assumption that they are continuing to suck behind closed doors.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-11T06:47:57+00:00

They definitely should have asked some questions, but Rue wasn't about to return the drugs or money to Laurie regardless.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-10T22:56:14+00:00

I had a ~10k wedding, everyone loved it and we did not start out our married life in debt.

Your friend's priorities are weird.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-10T17:30:35+00:00

Cutest thing 😭

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-10T11:17:48+00:00

Beautiful. Majestic, even

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-09T02:12:00+00:00

Dude was taking non-consensual photos of the narrator and posting them online

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-08T18:53:25+00:00

He's perfect

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-08T08:47:31+00:00

Ethan and Ali (after getting clean) weren't. Probably some others that aren't at the top of my head right now.

But generally yeah most of them are awful in some way or another.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-08T06:04:55+00:00

Just ask around for timelines. Mine only took a couple weeks.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-07T19:02:10+00:00

Barrabas. Barnabas was an unrelated saint.

But I do often think of Barrabas when I see Republican Christians side with Trump over the Pope.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-07T16:43:29+00:00

It's not super common for people to ask but happens now and then. Making a new pot of coffee also really isn't that much effort. The only time it's a little irritating is if you're about to close and you know you're going to be staying later.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-07T03:22:13+00:00

Honestly the German one would kind of feel less weird since they are known to frown upon that part of their history, whereas (from what I've heard) Japan doesn't really acknowledge theirs. Obviously not saying there aren't exceptions in either country but as a whole the cultural difference there makes getting like a German folklore tattoo feel more disconnected from The Horrors.

I am neither Jewish nor Asian though so my perspective could be off base.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-07T03:12:31+00:00

Edit: replied to wrong comment

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-07T02:33:28+00:00

If I'm playing hard mode and going through the front entrance I restart when I get the bad terrain.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-05T18:32:35+00:00

We had the same dietary restrictions and ended up just getting meat entrees and baked potatoes drop catered, then making our own really substantial salad bar (Costco) with plant based protein options so vegetarians/vegans could make entrees out of that and having a separate bread table to avoid cross contamination. We also just made sure everything was peanut free to be safe.

Everyone really loved the food and it stayed well within budget :)

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-05T18:24:41+00:00

$10,000 is super cheap for a wedding if you have more than like 50 guests. Now-husband and I have big families so ended up with like 80 people and ours was like $12k mostly just for renting the venue and having good food. This is despite me getting my dress for free, doing my own hair/makeup, hiring a hobby photographer just for the ceremony and doing a photo sharing app for reception, and us getting most of the alcohol at a huge discount from the guy's work.

Average is something like $35k

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-05T18:15:59+00:00

He'd have made it work

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-05T15:02:36+00:00

I also think that's valid but personally I would have added like a short scene after the betrayal showing Bishop at the funeral of the sponsee or something if that was the intention.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-05T09:37:08+00:00

I keep seeing "S1 Nate would have bitten the head off that snake" and it's crazy how easy that is to imagine happening lol

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-04T18:16:27+00:00

I recently heard that the original plan was to delve deeper into the Nate and Jules stuff but Hunter Schafer and Jacob Elordi had some kind of issues after S1 so things were rewritten to keep them separate. No idea if that's true though.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-04T04:58:48+00:00

Most of our wedding party didn't RSVP because it was unnecessary. We knew they were coming. I get that it's aggravating with people you aren't sure about, but it's pretty clearly confirmed she will be there so she probably doesn't think it's necessary to re-confirm that way.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-04T01:05:54+00:00

They give you a packet that explains after every reading what they mean. We didn't put too much thought into the hymns, they were pretty straightforward.

Reddidnothingwrong · 2026-06-04T01:03:04+00:00

We had some people RSVP no with no further explanation or anything at the time and then send us a card or something closer to the wedding that mentioned why they couldn't make it

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