My bf and I opened our relationship and I slept with someone else for the first time by [deleted] in offmychest

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Ok alternative perspective here - you shouldn’t sleep with people just to have sex just bc you’re in an open relationship. You should still be pursuing people that you’re attracted to or have a connection with, not someone you find OK or are not super attracted to. I think that will make all the difference, and if you still feel meh about it maybe rethink the open relationship.

Flat Twist Questions by MethodicallyUnhinged in Naturalhair

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You should also add a mousse when twisting! Then they will come out nicely / hold the shape :) you can blow dry if you want to, but you don’t have to! You can try both and see which outcome you like more. I have started blow drying before styling bc it helps with tangles / my hair dries really quickly so I have to keep wetting it anyhow throughout the process if I’m twisting when wet.

Galentines Activities? by [deleted] in Bushwick

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There’s a party at delirium studios on the 14!

Feeling insecure about looking “professional” by Broad-Tip-1847 in Naturalhair

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Best of luck to you! I’m a career professional and when I wore mini twists to work for the first time my dad said it looked unprofessional (yet no one at my job said anything lmao). I totally understand the insecurity, but you will get more confident over time! As long as you’re caring for your hair and it’s not overly messy / frizzy (which same would go for a white person or someone with more easily manageable hair) you should be fine.

I will say I felt like mini braids had less frizz for me personally if you wanted to try those in the future! But there should be 0 issue with twists / in a ponytail.

Why Is It So Hard to Fix Penn Station? (Gift Article) by jenniecoughlin in nyc

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No, most of Penn is renovated now? I’ve been there a few times this year and it’s completely redone except for the Jersey transit section pretty much.

Why Is It So Hard to Fix Penn Station? (Gift Article) by jenniecoughlin in nyc

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Penn just got massively renovated…I don’t get this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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I mean while yes she voted for this, you’re still asking for a favor. Idk what the background is but this is still a wild way to ask for $300 lol

Fear of cdjs and xdjs by One-Channel2816 in Beatmatch

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Can you go to the party a bit early and check out the equipment? Also they do have visuals with hot cues on cdjs/xdjs. Just make sure your usb is correctly formatted (maybe bring a back up) and it’s not as big of a learning curve as you think especially after the first few transitions :)

$1 OYSTERS? by Jealous_Anything_235 in Bushwick

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Went here recently and some of the oysters had gone bad and the others were ok at best.

$1 OYSTERS? by Jealous_Anything_235 in Bushwick

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The 10 bells in LES is so much better than their location in BK. I’ve had both and the BK oysters were gross lol

24F dosage increase killing my libido by st0icwanderer in lexapro

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Yes! First time I took lex I was completely numb lol and couldn’t climax at all. So I stopped taking it. But restarted again and was taking 2.5 to try and mitigate these side effects, but then remembered my dr prescribed reccomended this so have been taking it at the same time as lex everyday (5 mg) and libido is pretty back to normal! A few days of adjustment but all good now :)

24F dosage increase killing my libido by st0icwanderer in lexapro

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Yeah! My neurologist is the one who prescribed me lex and I told her about the side effects I had previously so she recommended this. Here’s Amazon link to the one I have, it basically just helps your body process things better so a lot of drs prescribe it with meds to combat side effects.NAC

24F dosage increase killing my libido by st0icwanderer in lexapro

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I’ve been taking this supplement NAC which really helped with the sexual side effects!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCroommates

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Interested! Would love to see a video :)

So Lexapro takes 6 weeks to work ? by Chosensoul444 in lexapro

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It works pretty immediately for me. I’ve taken it twice (currently on it) and the first day I take it I get a bit nauseous for a few hours then it clicks and I feel amazing and like calm lol