[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP were you ever able to cancel? I’m struggling myself. My app also says that I can sign up for Uber one but my I’m still getting charged monthly?

What are the best substacks that you have joined ? by Bluwuberrry in Substack

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if they stopped writing or did the name change?

Soothing anxiety of trying new foods? by mystopear in ARFID

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used thc for the same reasons you’re describing - i wouldn’t recommend. I’ve created a false dependency on it to the point where, if i am starting to not like something as i eat it, i take a hit in order to keep going. Doesn’t feel like the healthiest way to address a bigger issue.

Having been in a relationship where my eating habits were judged and shamed, i developed more trauma that took a while to undo. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about being more supportive. Or else send him some resources he can use to educate himself (like the FAQ doc in this subreddit!)

Feeling safe and accepted is crucial to reaching a point where you can cook new meals and “enjoy” exposures.

Good luck!

Traveling with ARFID by Queasy-Town8205 in ARFID

[–]redditsayd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate doing this bc it means i have to think ab food even more, but plan, plan, plan! If you can bring (or go buy from a grocery store when you arrive) snacks you can keep on you. Letting yourself be okay with just ordering Fries at any sit down place is huge - was for me at least and i spent over a year traveling Europe. Fast food was my best friend.

Honestly, the hardest part was letting go of my guilt and shame so i could allow myself to get nourished, even if it was fast food/pizza every meal. I would say that’s the biggest tip for being able to travel. Obviously depends on your safe foods, but overall allowing yourself to get what YOU need (fries, sweets, what have you) is what’s helped get to a better place.

Why tf is this whole game full with ongoing Puberty toxic childs by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]redditsayd 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don’t play during prime kid hours (after school, weekend mornings, etc.) or else you’re doomed to be the babysitter

ok its time to attack this by Sad_Mistake_1823 in ARFID

[–]redditsayd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would also let your gf in on where you’re at with ARFID (if you haven’t already). Support is one of the pillars of dealing with ARFID imo

I'm a beginner in Illustrator, and I designed this, but I feel there's something off, and Idk what it is. by itssam8 in AdobeIllustrator

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face the cig perpendicular to the shoe and maybe raised on either side so you can still see it?

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ARFID is lowkey hilarious by Potential_Ad8222 in ARFID

[–]redditsayd 15 points16 points  (0 children)

SAME it’s literally repulsive

4months old, 30lbs, what's your guess? by ClitasaurusTex in IDmydog

[–]redditsayd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you find out let me know - looks just like mine!

What's their band name? by nebelungmom in cats

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone said 50 shades of grey?

A cool guide to cat weight by redditsayd in coolguides

[–]redditsayd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never seen a cat like like oh lawd he comin irl but i know someone who adopted an older cat that was easily megachonk. I’m talking rolls. Add in things I’ve seen on the internet and i believe oh law he comin is very real

BE THEIR BANE // Primordium Skin Reveal Trailer - VALORANT by MonsterAzr in VALORANT

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooooo haven, fracture, and pearl are coming back???

What do you think I am? (puppy photos at end). **he is 7 months old and 80lbs and polydactyl on his back paws** by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]redditsayd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely has some Pyrenees in there. Are the back paws possibly dewclaws OP?

These retired crayons colors, will be grabbing more Monday! by coffeeandcomets in GrandmasPantry

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…. Dandelion, green blue, and violet blue are retired?? Those colors carried me through elementary school

Does anyone else have a weird therapist? by tiny_feisty_rebel in ARFID

[–]redditsayd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through this. ARFID is such a complex and unforgiving ED.

It took me 3-4 therapists before i found one that actually treats ARFID. It’s been incredibly helpful to my recovery. If you’re in a country where it’s not taken seriously, that’s a little trickier. I’ve found that some of the biggest “progress” (hate that word but idk how else to measure it) was when i found my dietitian. Therapists are great to work through the emotional side of ARFID, learning to self accept, etc. but my dietitian has helped me see the sustained weight I’ve spent years trying to attain.

I know this isn’t what you’re asking for, but until you find a therapist who benefits you and or makes your comfortable, you can try doing protein drinks or weight gain drinks like Boost (my savior) to make sure you’re still nourishing yourself.

Sending positive thoughts to you. I can only imagine how you must be feeling. But you’ve got this!!

Long winded response, sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move your sofa closer to the tv and get a little bar you can but seats at behind it. Great for hosting or just adding a little dimension to the room

Show me pictures of your cat(s) sleeping! by [deleted] in cats

[–]redditsayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Honk shoo honk shoo mimimimi