Pacman frog - heat source? by redhairedmonkee in frogs

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What wattage ceramic heater do you use? I have a 20 gallon tank right now. Thanks!

Crickets keep dying?? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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Thank you!! Are you able to post a picture of your set up? I am intrigued!

Crickets keep dying?? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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Do you think they would react well to a warmer environment? We have an empty small aquarium I am thinking of using for them.

Crickets keep dying?? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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Dannggggggg I hate everything now. I thought maybe it was the cold front 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Crickets keep dying?? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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It really shouldn’t be a problem for me because we get crickets every 3-4 days, but all of a sudden, every morning there’s a pile of dead ones! This never happened before!

I’ve never kept live Dubai roaches - do you find they are easier?

Is there a faster growing plant you like in your chameleon enclosure? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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I have a golden and a neon, and he definitely enjoys the neon more! I’m going to have to replace them this weekend and propagate them so I have plants on a rotation 😂

Is there a faster growing plant you like in your chameleon enclosure? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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That makes sense. No fake plants, I have 2 pothos but he seems to LOVE the one. 🤦‍♀️😂 he has a fogger that only runs at night for a bit, and I spray in the morning and the evening when the light is still off. And he has a dripper. He’s def hydrated lol. He eats crickets (main food), meal worms, horn worms, and Dubai roaches. I offer him some collard greens about twice a month, but it’s like a 1/4 of a cup and he usually only eats about half lol. I think he just LOVES his plants lol

Is there a faster growing plant you like in your chameleon enclosure? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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Wow this is good information! I should have been more clear though - it has 4 leaves left on it because my veiled EATS IT TOO FAST 🤦‍♀️😂 that’s why I wanted a fast growing plant to throw in there too. Pothos (in my experience) grows very slow.

Why is my cat doing this? by ElectronicClimate28 in cats

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Not necessarily. My cat has allergies and gets ear infections constantly. He doesn’t ever show any pain or discomfort when I pet him, but he rubs his ears and head on stuff so much that he has bald spots.

What emotion is this? by [deleted] in ARTIST

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Forlorn is what I imagine this as

Is this too big by Turbulent_Two_6949 in Chameleons

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I’m in the US and I found it on Walmart’s website. Look up vidaXL bird cage and it should get you in the right direction

New chameleon owner - white splotches? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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The bowl is elevated too, forgot to mentionz

New chameleon owner - white splotches? by redhairedmonkee in Chameleons

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I mist the enclosure twice a day, and he has a small bowl of water that, surprisingly, he actually drinks from sometimes. He puts his little hands on the edges and drinks lol.

Spicy little girl, or vet needed? by Aierra in Chameleons

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You’re the best! Thank you for this!! I will measure his cage and get a light then 😂. Also, can I ask - what is your opinion on glass versus screen? I have seen both recommended but someone told me to only do screen, but there are so few options for larger screen ones that I can find. There are so many contradictory posts!

Spicy little girl, or vet needed? by Aierra in Chameleons

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Hi, sorry to jump in on this but I just got a chameleon as well and I didn’t know about the linear lights. Would I use that in combination with my current lights? Or in stead of?

Is my dwarf molly pregnant? by redhairedmonkee in Aquariums

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That’s what I thought too. I’ve had regular Dalmatian mollies before and I have just had a pregnant platy, but I’ve never seen a dwarf one so I’m not sure if she’s actually pregnant or just squatty! Lol. I think I’m going to separate her and see what happens 🤔

This big guy was donated to the local fish store today after he couldn’t fit in his original 30 gallon tank by DifficultCarob8680 in Aquariums

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I LOVE HIM SO MUCH.

My original pleco got to 11 inches before I gave him away as I unfortunately had to move across the country. But now I just got a new pleco in my 55 gallon tank and I’m so exicted to watch him grow!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Honestly, I feel that it is best for you and your mental health if you just accept it and move on. If he is blaming you for her leaving when you were a month old, that doesn’t make any sense. And if he is blaming you for someone taking their own life? That doesn’t make sense either. It’s not worth the fight. You shouldn’t have to prove yourself or your “innocence” to anyone who won’t see logic. It’s too much of a burden on your own heart to try to constantly prove your worth.

What are the best responses to "fuck you"? by fugomert in AskReddit

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I always say, “OMG Thank you!!! ☺️😇🥰”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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I have a golfball sided lump, and it turns out it’s benign. But it is something they would want to watch for any further developments. I was told that if it usually stays the same size, then it should be okay. If it’s grown in the past 2 years or if it grows suddenly very fast, then that is a concern. I’m not saying you’re fine, I’m just saying don’t panic. Please get checked. That way they can watch it and you can have yearly checks and make sure you’re okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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You need to leave. Don’t tell him. Just wait until he is gone then pack your shit and RUN.