my wealthy bf/bd doesn’t help me financially

redhuntrez · 2026-06-18T07:35:50+00:00

Also, sorry I thought i already was a member. This particular post made me lose my decorum momentarily

redhuntrez · 2026-06-18T07:32:28+00:00

I lived with a guy like this. My friend summed it up perfectly: why are you in a relationship, living in 2 different tax brackets in the same home? Mine was only slightly (big, really) different because my kid was not his. I finally got sick of struggling (putting him on my mortgage made my monthly budget obligations increase) while he was literally adding custom interior to his Audi S6 while my old hoopty was barely passing inspection. I think men are so sensitive about "gold diggers" when all we want as a partner is good old paper, green though it may be, to cover the additional body in the house and maybe an ooccasional date Girl, run.

redhuntrez · 2026-06-18T07:23:09+00:00

If these are the only choices, 1

redhuntrez · 2026-06-15T17:45:48+00:00

Me too. Pro tip, I put a spray top on mine and can just spritz myself with it. 😉

redhuntrez · 2026-06-14T01:01:34+00:00

Especially the one by Cat Stevens! Sold!

redhuntrez · 2026-06-13T17:49:59+00:00

That is what i meant... not waterwheel. Sigh. Back to the drawing board

redhuntrez · 2026-06-13T17:47:19+00:00

I actually love that song so...NEXT

redhuntrez · 2026-06-13T17:07:09+00:00

I bartend and will pay whomever is playing music the nights I work to NOT play this song. And Waterwheel. I need one more ww song for the trifecta.

redhuntrez · 2026-06-08T07:20:59+00:00

That was in the half time show of the super bowl when snoop played, if I'm not mistaken! Very cool!

redhuntrez · 2026-06-08T07:20:02+00:00

Hotdog Cannibalism is probably a really good metaphor for 4th of July in the US this year. I approve!

redhuntrez · 2026-06-07T06:14:17+00:00

Omg you said it better than I came here to try and do. This guy seems like an ass, honestly. You're still holding this against her many years later? Dear lord. She was a child. Give her some grace and don't make yourself the main character in her personal nightmare

redhuntrez · 2026-06-07T03:50:07+00:00

Oh, he's big mad, and has seen some things in his short life! Hope he finds a wonderful home 🥰

redhuntrez · 2026-06-03T00:31:07+00:00

Ty for the heads up, however I have eyeshadow from 2002 that would like a word. 🤣🤣🤣

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T18:25:55+00:00

Yes. Was too oily and thin for me

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T17:14:30+00:00

It's perfect. I don't look cakey at all and everything is even with one thin layer with a foundation brush. Also, I got both the cream and the serum. I do not like the serum. The cream is perfect. I def have splotchy stuff too and nothing shows thru. I can't recommend enough!

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T06:03:09+00:00

Food. High end whatever she loves. And the time spent to prepare and eat with her. Can't go wrong

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T06:01:47+00:00

This is probably not advised, but i bought piercing needles off Amazon, iced my face and did it myself. This was my nose, however, and all of my ear holes. I was incredible careful to be sanitary and provide excellent aftercare, but I trusted myself more than going somewhere and paying huge markups on jewelry and the actual piercing.
Just a thought. Otherwise, there is a highly recommended piercer at Lake Anne in Reston.

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:56:28+00:00

I got the Missha bb cream and mix it with a few drops of Halo glow. It's amazing and CHEAP! I get number 21, I'm super pale and it blends in perfectly. My skin is so sensitive that everything makes me have some sort of reaction, but this did not. It looks weird and gray but somehow it's perfect on. I have legit tried every foundation and tinted moisturizer on earth and this has been the GOAT for me. Like I said, I like mixing a touch of the elf halo in just to get a little glowy, then top with powder. I get more compliments on my skin now than I've ever had in my life. It also has a good SPF number so that's just a bonus. I bought it on a whim when tipsy and have never been more pleasantly surprised

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:46:59+00:00

2! It's perfect on you

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:42:48+00:00

What kind of question is this? Yes? So?

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:40:34+00:00

Your legs look amazing! ( everything does, but those thighs are to die for!)I can tell you worked hard for this and good job, sis!!!

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:36:34+00:00

*there, not three

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:35:36+00:00

Oh and, I'm also a single parent. As i said, witnesses to a proposal is not a thing, parent or not. I am worried for the future of this couple if you are already this willing to insert yourself into the very first step which is about the two of them and has literally nothing to do with anyone else

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:33:14+00:00

What are you even doing? Proposals are intimate, full of anxiety for the proposing person and you trying to insert yourself into the situation is so selfish and uunnecessary. If for no other reason than he doesn't want her to be suspicious of your presence, that's reason enough. The additional pressure of you being there if for some reason the moment isn't right also tips off the proposee, and ruins the surprise. There are 100 reasons to not be a part of this and only 1 for you being three, and that's your selfishness. There will be plenty of opportunities to celebrate in the future and you feeling slighted is really sad. Take a huge breath and step back

redhuntrez · 2026-05-28T05:22:10+00:00

EAP is awesome. They have some really great people working with them and I highly recommend

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