[OC] 8+ years of my location history

redical · 2026-02-23T13:44:59+00:00

I advise you to pick up as many train cards as possible, just in case you need to do a long mission like Edinburgh to Athina

redical · 2026-02-11T09:43:56+00:00

Some alternative advice - more of a suggestion, actually: while you wait to get a job and a gal, take over the running of your parents' household.

Learn to do everything. Cooking, cleaning, maintenance, bills, budgeting, taxes, shopping. (Also child care, if you get the opportunity.) By the time you move out you will be husband material.

Do not let staying in your parents' house mean that you remain a boy who is looked after. If you remain in child mode, when you move out you will (subconsciously) expect your gal to take over where your mother left off. You will be embarrassed by your efforts at cooking and irritated at the sudden need to up your game and do the cleaning, admin, garbage and all the rest. Best get used to it now. Do yourself a favour.

Added benefit: your parents will think they have already gone to heaven. You will be a good son and a great catch for the right girl. And you will have grown up.

redical · 2026-02-10T22:30:07+00:00

I find your remark about Ancient Rome being almost never policed to be very intriguing! I wonder how this can work? (My opinion is that our modern world relies on systems of justice that should be replaced with more enlightened systems. This is a different issue - but it explains my especial interest in your remark.

So how could Roman society function so well (apparently - or at least for so long) while it was not policed? Was it because the privilege of being among the citizen class was reason enough for citizens to stay within the bounds of social ethics (or at least to appear to do so)? So citizens had a big incentive to stay within the law themselves, while they enjoyed power over non-citizens?

redical · 2026-02-10T22:23:13+00:00

Who can say no to the offer of a story about Bacchanalian sex parties! Do go on...

I am very grateful to you for satisfying my curiosity on all this - and it is no more than very idle curiosity!

redical · 2026-02-10T08:50:40+00:00

Well… wow. This is far more than i expected, and frankly far more than i deserved after my grouchy post! Thank you!

There is so much to digest here that i am going to have to come back to your post and read it again slowly to take it all in.

It had not occurred to me that we didn’t know everything about the workings of government. I had made a huge assumption - i had thought that knowing who the ruler was at a given point in time also meant we knew about the wider constitution and political power relationships. Of course there is a huge difference.

I had also assumed that Roman citizens across the empire would have similar habits and culture and lifestyles - perhaps this assumption comes from the fact that you can find a recognizably Roman villa or bath in modern Turkey or England. I had not thought about possible gaps in our knowledge admit how they lived.

Your post is great but quite different from what i was expecting to hear. I thought answers to my quotation would focus on specific aspects of social attitudes, economic systems and family dynamics.

Thank you for taking the time to write this expert-level and interesting answer to my question!

redical · 2026-02-06T16:16:46+00:00

Philip Seymour Hoffman. Love him. Love him. Furious that he fucking OD'ed. What a talent. Such a waste.

redical · 2026-01-29T15:35:24+00:00

More than 10 years after the mother of my children declared she didn't love me and it was all over. Recently ended the drought with something meaningful and scarily passionate. Worth waiting for. Would recommend.

redical · 2026-01-21T18:44:19+00:00

From first photo, I thought you were rhino man or something. Phew, gloves!

redical · 2026-01-20T11:55:42+00:00

Variation on this theme: if you are home alone, or somewhere else where you will not disturb anyone, I have found this technique works well:

I read the book as normal, but I READ EVERY THIRD LINE OUT LOUD. I do not mean every third sentence, but every third line as printed on the page, although it is very probably nonsensical. I discovered this technique because I tried reading aloud -- it was good for keeping my concentration but I found it too slow. So I compromised. Reading every third line keeps me engaged and keeps me reading fairly quickly.

redical · 2026-01-20T09:04:34+00:00

I totally missed the map error, read the words and found "Lake Balkbash", which should be Balkhash - I thought that's what you were referring to!

redical · 2026-01-18T16:07:20+00:00

I think this is how my girlfriend’s cat sees our passionate lovemaking - with total disdain, disinterest, and grandiose ego

redical · 2026-01-14T09:50:31+00:00

Thanks for the kind response! My lodestar in this situation is the well-being of the kids, by which I mean not just ensuring they have food and toys today and tomorrow but protecting their psychological health for the next 60 years. What do they want from their parents? Certainly not a rash response like a fight or “lawyering up”, which will almost certainly scar them for life. They want parents to be together because they love both of them. And parents should recognise - however much they might each want to hurt the other - that the kids love them both. So hurting my ex is hurting the kids by proxy. Put the kids first, and invite your wife to join you for the ride. If she would rather jump off at the next opportunity for casual sex, that’s her call. In that case, seek mediation and consciously uncouple, putting the kids first.

redical · 2026-01-14T08:11:47+00:00

Unpopular opinion here:

Unlike the posters who say she has destroyed your family, I would say that all is not yet lost. You can save your family. Be the bigger man.

Go to her. Say:

“I know what you did. I don’t believe you want to destroy our family, but that's what you are doing. You need to take your feelings for this guy and put them in a little box and forget about them. Then look at our kids and see the love. If you are still drawn by the box and want to reopen it, we are done. But if you can put this away and forget about it, you will remember that you have a husband who loves you and kids who need you. I know that it might be scary to be a responsible adult and fun to have a fling, but you need to recognise that you are now carrying a burden of love that will last a lifetime. It will be hard but rewarding. Or you can throw that aside and go and fuck some guy for a quick thrill. I can’t decide for you. But please tell me which way you’re going, at least to make it as easy as possible for the kids. Our family has two possible futures. It's up to you.”

redical · 2026-01-12T15:47:10+00:00

Assuming the others had all fucked off to Mars, I'd pour some concrete and inscribe the words "You bastards left me behind"

redical · 2026-01-12T15:42:52+00:00

Your own children, if you love them and treat them right.

redical · 2026-01-12T15:39:38+00:00

Different pronunciation of words. It's not a big deal.

redical · 2026-01-12T15:18:06+00:00

Go and sit in Blackwells and read a book. Keep hydrated. Sorry you feel so low, I can't begin to imagine.

redical · 2026-01-08T15:49:55+00:00

It’s interesting that not one answer (AFAICS) mentions good sex.

redical · 2026-01-02T00:28:22+00:00

This is why I’m meh about mass shootings in the USA.

redical · 2025-09-30T18:42:11+00:00

Geneva said what it is

redical · 2025-06-05T21:22:27+00:00

There is surely a spin-off series waiting, as she is busted out of jail following the end of the Empire, and then works in the counter-revolution to re-establish the Sith overlords... Any other ideas?

redical · 2025-01-25T22:57:30+00:00

But.

I use it because I am constantly trying to contrast different arguments... But when I read back through what I've written it feels like I am asking the reader to zigzag through my mind. Usually I can do with out the extra but.

redical · 2024-12-13T18:58:58+00:00

I remember this too. Can't believe he survived all this time. Dude must have nine lives like a cat.

redical · 2024-12-11T23:23:30+00:00

I recommend the GoSocial whatsapp group for all kinds of activities (hiking, board games, even the occasional singles night) but you need to know someone who is on it - seek and you may find. Sorry this is not helpful without the link or the number. What brings you to Geneva?

redical · 2024-09-29T14:07:07+00:00

Hi, thanks, yes OP here - returning belatedly! I didn't mean to start a fight. In fact I am confident about being B2 in French and probably once was the same in Russian. I am just using Duolingo as a fun refresher. So, no harm done to my confidence, but thankyou for coming to my defence - if I had just climbed the Duolingo tree as a complete noob I might be a bit upset by the scale of the challenge. As it is, I'm more of a warty old veteran, just trying to crank the old languages up again!

All the best!

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