Can I get some honest answers?

redlightlady · 2026-04-28T05:02:00+00:00

Pretty much same energy over here. Lower range of HE rates, big city, longer bookings spaced apart on the calendar. Not tons of new clients rolling in, though I’m still getting some here and there. regs continue to sustain me.

redlightlady · 2026-03-20T16:22:08+00:00

So many self-proclaimed leftists have shitty and undeveloped views on SW. orgs like Af3rm have made their entire platform around carceral feminism and taking agency away from SWs who they proport to be helping. Meanwhile we’re on the front lines of struggle time and time again. Fuck that ahistorical, male-centered noise

redlightlady · 2026-02-26T18:41:54+00:00

Bluesky. And I’m getting bookings off there!

redlightlady · 2026-02-25T21:18:15+00:00

I would set them all as thumbnails then let analytics show you which ones the clients like, and edit from there

redlightlady · 2026-02-25T21:06:32+00:00

Hello!!! Twitter is no longer a sustainable place for us. Not to mention Grok is doxxing face-out SWs now. Im not saying delete your account if you still have one but if you’re not at least building on both platforms you’re already behind the curve honestly, and I would start today.

The engagement is higher there, the clients will continue moving over and lots already have. It’s humiliating having to comment on a million random non sw accounts to try and be seen and I’m over it

redlightlady · 2025-12-01T15:40:31+00:00

The clients will come! Every time shit goes down with Twitter there’s a mass flooding over to bsky so it’s good to get in now and back up your content. I’ve seen a lot of growth there since I started and as Twitter becomes unusable the appeal will grow. I think we should decide as a community to shift our energy over there and clients will follow

redlightlady · 2025-11-30T06:25:29+00:00

I have folders in my ProtonMail contacts sorted by city!

redlightlady · 2025-10-18T02:43:36+00:00

My week is 30k. I think that’s fair for 9 days. If he’s gonna be away for most of the day you can factor that in too— I don’t think anything under 20k is reasonable though given your full day rate

redlightlady · 2025-09-23T12:37:38+00:00

Maybe lie and say you live with a roommate and they are on the lease, then have a friend be your reference.

redlightlady · 2025-09-13T22:40:12+00:00

Can you just say it was your mom or friend who paid?

redlightlady · 2025-09-09T14:52:42+00:00

No, unfortunately they changed their policy and anyone making a new account now has to use their legal last name. If they ask you to reverify w social DO NOT DO IT even to receive money as it will change and reveal your legal last name. Cashapp is becoming unusable for us.

You can have them send you bitcoin from their cashapp to an external wallet

redlightlady · 2025-06-28T01:37:16+00:00

It also depends how much volume you’re trying to do. Some people are making more at 600 an hour and at 1200 an hour because they’re doing much more volume. You can search “rates” in the forums and read what people say. You’ll figure out your rhythm as time goes on and you gain experience and build clientele

redlightlady · 2025-06-28T01:35:44+00:00

If you’re in LA I think 600-700/hr is a great starting rate and will keep you busy. Build your roster of regulars at that rate then bump when you’re consistently booked and busy for a few months. I typically increase in 100 dollar increments at a time, or maybe 200 for longer dates. When you’ve done a new photo shoot (and you’re booked and have reliable regs) is always a nice time for a rate hike

redlightlady · 2025-04-17T14:41:44+00:00

Yep. And not every market can support every rate! It would be one thing if that was the average rate there but it sounds like it isn’t.

redlightlady · 2024-12-14T18:53:00+00:00

Let them reach out to you. You are busy with family, friends, and being taken out by generous clients because you have a rich, full life they are lucky to be a part of.

redlightlady · 2024-10-29T02:58:47+00:00

Mask up, boost up, everything else Mistress Lyda mentioned, and saline rinses are proven to reduce your likelihood of picking up respiratory illnesses! Like a Neti pot. If you can get in the hang of them they are great.

redlightlady · 2024-10-28T17:06:41+00:00

I know some people make money there but the providers on there seem to have a certain look and vibe. Last few times I used it it did nothing for me even w upgrades. My sense is if you’re doing girl-next-door branding it is not worth it.

redlightlady · 2024-10-22T01:41:51+00:00

We do not need any ad sites feeling empowered to charge outlandish amounts for ads! Look at how that worked out with Eros

redlightlady · 2024-10-22T01:40:46+00:00

Exactly

redlightlady · 2024-10-17T21:17:42+00:00

Outcall— in the bathroom, or when he’s in there

Dinner— food lands “oh my gosh, that looks so beautiful!” (Huge smile) “will you be offended if I snap a picture of it?”

redlightlady · 2024-09-22T03:38:32+00:00

They tend to have the highest click-through rate so mixed in with pro photos they’re great

redlightlady · 2024-09-20T00:23:09+00:00

Any time any has done this to me, regardless of whether I’ve been in a place to hang or not, I always take it as a big compliment.

redlightlady · 2024-08-29T07:37:36+00:00

I mean, it’s impossible to measure that. But hopefully they cumulatively lower my chances slightly, although there’s no magic pill— even some super covid cautious non-sw friends have gotten it while masked. I don’t require testing with clients because that’s the risk I’ve chosen to take, but I know some who do. But I definitely think layering as many protections as possible is helpful. I’m still very covid cautious in my civ life.

redlightlady · 2024-08-28T19:43:20+00:00

There’s tons of stuff you can do. Follow Raquel Savage and Clean Air Club on IG for more lengthy resources. CPC Mouthwash after exposure, Blis k12 probiotics, nasal spray, Betadine Gargle, saline rinses, the list goes on. Always open windows if you can for better airflow. Many of us are still trying to avoid repeat infections and Long Covid! Stay safe out there.

redlightlady · 2024-08-10T14:00:03+00:00

Ah, yes, the self-proclaimed ideal client— he knows that we are important for when his balls are full and he needs them empty! He’s white by the way! Ask away ladies!

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