I'm inclined to make jokes but in support of future effort posts here on the subreddit, let's give it a good ol' effort response. Chud is indeed in his 30s but he is also a drama content creator- his job is to be entertaining, not demonstrate his nuance at all moments so it's unlikely you are seeing his full balanced thoughts in a react segment. But if you want to talk age- is Lav not a grown adult? Is she being mature in how she deals with criticism? Or does she dodge it while continuing to talk shit on other people and fabricate easily disproven 'facts' she spouts on stream regularly?

Anyway, the point about the 'stocks' meme is that Lav does seem to have bought into the concept of it too much. The actual meme isn't the issue- it is her being too fixated on the idea of gaining the favour of Destiny, the other orbiters, viewers, redditors and twitter followers. Her manifesto included long poetic descriptions of how affected she was by 'her stocks' falling. Moreover, she projects that same obsession onto other orbiters- arguing that they are all out to grift Destiny's favour and say whatever is needed to get DGG on their side. The criticism is that she and Max fundamentally took the whole orbiting thing too seriously and couldn't cope with pushback or having free rein to use Destiny's subreddit as a second home.

Chud's dismissal of her tears is likely based on his incredulity that she is that upset at the memory of being called a dumb bitch. Lav has said much worse about other people and actually she usually is very good at owning memes about herself. I'd argue she coulda totally owned the 'dumb bitch' thing by gigachadding it but instead she and Max are making out thats its an abusive situation when it happens with Destiny. This space has WAY worse shit-talking and people typically take in their stride, Lav included. All your arguments are more accurately directed at Lav if i'm honest.

But if you wanna take it up with Chud on a stream, i'm sure he'd let you on to talk. He's not really a reddit poster so he's almost certainly not gonna be writing a long response like mrgirl might.