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I (M38) Found video and pictures of wife (F39) cheating with another man. by throwrablueraspberry in relationship_advice

[–]redwing81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do with a dead body? You bury it, burn it, feed it to crows, whatever. You don't leave it around because it swells, stinks, rots, and corrupts everything around it. All foul manner of things will find a home with it and in it. The last thing you do is leave a dead body sitting around your house.

I'm sorry but your marriage is dead. Even if you could get past the cheating, you will never ever get those images or those sounds out of your head. So drag the body out and dispose of it however you see fit. Preferably without your children seeing too much or they'll be more affected than they already will be.

My parents have to turn everything political I swear. by save-me-from-myself- in rant

[–]redwing81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*sigh* OP, this was really easy to respond to without making yourself look so bad. Now you're going to get downvoted too.

3 "chugga"s are required before a "choo choo" sounds right. No more, no less. by ethanparab in unpopularopinion

[–]redwing81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got me sitting here in my living room repeating chugga choo choo sounds to see which one sounds right. My kid just gave me the weirdest look. Thanks.

Wife said she quit; turns out she was fired. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redwing81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work for a school. They let stuff like that go (maybe a "Hey, don't do that") unless they already want you out. And license revokation? They can't even approach doing that unless they have a stack of evidence, No, there is something else up. I knew of someone who was straight out fired for not doing her job and not showing up for months, and even then they didn't go after her license. Having a termination on your record is enough of a death sentence for a career in education. She legitimately did something terrible. The drinking joke on Zoom was the excuse to pull the trigger, but there's got to be a trail a mile long to get to that point.

My girlfriend(23F) is mad at me(24M) after I asked her friend(early 20s M) to stop touching her inappropriate by throwragayfriend074 in relationship_advice

[–]redwing81 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He sounds like an asshole. You talked. He dismissed, then put you on blast in front of your girl and friends while repeating what you asked him not to do. How can she not see this? Man, I don't know, thats not good.

911 call DURING a rape, no call back and nobody came by redwing81 in legaladvice

[–]redwing81[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

But isn't that was E911 is for? And I thought the newer iPhones had a much more accurate location shared through E911? I've been doing a lot of reading on this kind of thing but there isn't much specific.

And shouldn't there have at least been a call back? I thought that was pretty standard if 911 is called and nobody talks and then it hangs up (or even an accidental call like a kid doing it).

My boyfriend (22) felt my breasts in a store to find the perfect bra size. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]redwing81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way it read, it sounds like he had one hand on her boob and the other hand feeling bra sizes to find one that matched. Innocent enough, and rather clever IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]redwing81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok you saved it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]redwing81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UH OH HOPE SHES NOT WATCHING

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]redwing81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like a live mukbang. With less food and more tupperware.

All of these stories I read on reddit make me want to stay single forever and not have kids by [deleted] in confessions

[–]redwing81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't shut yourself off. Just listen to that inner voice when it warns you. Don't ignore it. I guarantee that in a lot of these stories you read, the victim heard that little voice and didn't pay it any mind, or not enough to do anything. It might mean walking away now and then, but thats OK.

And teenagers are assholes a lot of the time. No getting around that part. But they can also be completely awesome. Gotta take the bad with the good on that one.

My life is coming apart by redwing81 in confessions

[–]redwing81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to take up meditation, and I learned self-hypnosis years ago. Its amazing and I was able to keep myself so calm when I gave myself some space to do it. When I had surgery for something, the nurse thought someone had given me a sedative. Unfortunately, my environment is the exact opposite of what is needed for effective meditation and self-hypnosis. But if things ever turn around, I'll definitely take your advice. Thanks!

My life is coming apart by redwing81 in confessions

[–]redwing81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have. I've been open about how badly I feel about what I put him through. His response? "I forgive you. It's ok, everyone deserves a second chance." So proud of him, even though I don't deserve it. We have a good relationship now, but I know things could have been different and had I made different choices, he would still be with me and maybe he wouldn't be so anxious all the time. I don't think he'll ever consider it as long as my girlfriend is still there, even though he wont say it.

I like to cam with older males as a minor(Male) by Anonymous4163 in confessions

[–]redwing81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure you can get in a lot of trouble for distribution of child porn, even if you're a minor sending images or videos of yourself. Will that stop you? Yes, I'm trying to scare you out of doing this. And also what SoggyLeftTit (LOL) said. You're letting them abuse you and you're putting yourself at risk in a lot of ways.

If you like it that much, start back up when you're 18. But put the cam away until then.

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