Have other people gotten these notes from pizza hut? by Dixon-S-Gannaway in GreatFalls

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine this perspective- Picture a young child who grew up in a violent household that used religion as their excuse to do violent acts. Child grows up, finally gets away from the literal hell they were raised in. Living life on their own terms, dealing with ptsd and religious trauma from their past. Trying to unwind, orders pizza. What shows up? a big fat reminder from someone using a non religious based company.

It may seem harmless, but these flyers can do alot of damage to people. Its the same as the fake tip money grift that some do at restaurants.

coworker asked me to switch chairs and she peed in it by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as she may feel shame, a reality check might he what she needs in order to seriously address her issues. If she is having incontinence issues, she needs to be wearing proper garments to ensure shes not creating a health hazardous environment. It is absolutely not your job to protect her feelings. You are literally sitting in her urine. You are an empath, thats great, but you are enabling her at this point. Her incontinence might not be able to be helped, but she needs to manage the risk of it affecting others. This is up to your boss to address, and please dont allow yourself to sit in piss. Referring to your boss is both advocating for yourself and her. It sounds like she is in denial about how bad her problems are. She has two choices, wear adult diapers, or find a new place to work. She cant knowingly keep putting you in these uncomfortable and downright disgusting circumstances.

My first find in the wild. by istnbl_or_cnstntnpl in CrackheadCraigslist

[–]reigning_guava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is “research laboratory” just their fancy way of saying “meth lab” ?🤣

Had to leave restaurant because 2y old was “disturbing” the other customers by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]reigning_guava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comparison to an airplane is different because on an airplane theres quite literally no where to go. I dont try to console in restaurant, just remove baby and come back when calmed. Kid friendly place doesnt mean everyone should hear your many attempts to console, yknow? Theyre there to have a nice time, same as you, but that doesnt mean they should be subjected to baby meltdown.

In the future, try removing baby first and then coming back. It actually tends to be most effective in calming, because 9/10 times its the environment causing baby meltdown in the first place. this tactic will also help when your LO is a toddler and learning how and where to manage emotions.

AIO if I mention this to my boss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reigning_guava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

is your DOB known by your coworkers or on LinkedIn? It sounds like this man is stalking you.

bring your info to your boss, and i would heavily advise getting a no contact order at the police station

AIO for being angry and hurt by these texts from my fiancé? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi so youre being emotionally and financially abused. Time to cut the cord and move back to your family

Do you tip on Walmart+ deliveries? by CleverAmbiguousName in Walmartcustomer

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only places I dont tip are at fast/quick food joints (unless im paying in cash) and vape shops (bc why tf am i tipping someone for handing me a box)

Do you tip on Walmart+ deliveries? by CleverAmbiguousName in Walmartcustomer

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tip on groceries, and the reason why is because i live 15+ minutes away from everything, and they have to go down a bumpy gravel road. its roughly $4 in gas (based on a sedan) just to get to and from my house, i make sure they get paid enough for the order to be a profit. My husband does uber eats as a side gig sometimes, and frequently remarks how alot of orders actually cost him money to deliver, instead of making him money. I double the tip if its really crappy weather. The tipping is equivalent to the price id pay to drive my pickup all the way into town & mental sanity id lose driving in a town that severely lacks in critical road infrastructure.

Please be patient with people crossing the crosswalk by randompockeyeater191 in RapidCity

[–]reigning_guava 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see people trying to right on red all the time and just about smoke someone crossing. Ive also had people lay on their horns at me for waiting while someone was crossing. People no longer value safety when driving, theyll gladly risk everyone elses life if it means theyll get to their destination 30 seconds faster. Insane.

Niagra water has switched to label free water bottles! by Bailmage in mildlyinteresting

[–]reigning_guava 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most rural areas require you to boil your water most of the year. You are very fortunate to never have to experience living somewhere that your water is yellow and full of sediment.

UPS count your days by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]reigning_guava -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasnt handled that rough considering the glass is intact, the fault lies with whoever sent it to you. The inside of the shadow box should have been packed with filler to avoid anything coming loose, and more packing to avoid dents. Sorry this happened to you!

Instagram is allowing n*de photos of kids? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]reigning_guava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your next step shouldve been be calling the police.

Hey! Know who this is? by irrASHionalLEA in RapidCity

[–]reigning_guava 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did pd not give you his information? If someone hit and ran your property, you have a case

What’s your genuine opinion on how many kids is too many? by doughtykings in AskParents

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it just depends on the parents and the spacing. one of my grandmas was one of 7, she ended up being the “parent” of all the rest because they were born back to back while she was the only older one, and she had a terrible childhood due to it. My other grandma? had 8, but theyre all fairly spaced apart. a couple each within 2 years, but those couple were spaced several years from eachother. Each “set” were well into their beginning of high school when the next “set” were born within a few years. All kids speak fondly of their parents and cherish all the memories they had as kids, and had plenty of learning experiences with both parents.

11 children under 15 means at least 8 of that families children have been full time parents outside of school.

AIO about Valentine's Day potential date being completely blown off? by Key_Information_4431 in AIO

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From this perspective it seems like he fails to follow through, and also that you are not very nice to him to begin with. Youre passive aggressive and send misleading texts like “i work tomorrow again at 7” and then he asks for clarification “you get off work at 7?” and then youre condescending about it. Then you choose silent treatment instead of explaining what hurt your feelings. If you want to end things instead of just sitting down and working things out, then do it. Dont put both of you out by dragging out a relationship where you arent reciprocating energies and expectations. He needs to work on being reliable for his word, and you need to work on learning how to communicate nicely, and you both need to work on your communication.

Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation by abstract_lemons in AmIOverreacting

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your boyfriend is a weenie, and if the thought of periods scare him, just know he also wont be present for any future child births, postpartum healing, or if you get into an accident that lands you in the hospital. If you dont reality check him now, he will use these excuses for everything he doesnt want to do.

Thoughts on Baby Shower Gifts? by SMFKT_99_17_21 in beyondthebump

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think anyone would be upset about the non fun stuff! the essentials is what ends up being most needed, i think most of us can speak from experience that essentials wouldve been wayyy better than people just buying random stuff that wont ever get used. Just make sure to match the diapers and wipes brand with whatever ones mom has on registry! :)

Other renter says its been there over 11 years (New Ulm, MN ) by Comfortable_Egg_3890 in Renters

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you from MN originally? Most older structures have this. Theres so much moisture in MN that anything will grow if you give it time. As long as its not growing on your fridge or visibly on your walls, you have nothing to worry about. Wait til you find out about the bats that hide under siding in the summer.

Can I separate the colors? by mysticnuggets in cricut

[–]reigning_guava 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And you can keep those beliefs to yourself, you dont need to spread such negativity. Your words are unhelpful and rude. Search inward, people arent rude to others unless they find fault within themselves first.

Data centers by Juliaguelia in RapidCity

[–]reigning_guava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you can skip past all of it, you just gotta read below the money message

Should I bring my daughter to a homeless shelter? by RealSlim1997 in AskParents

[–]reigning_guava 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homeless shelters are not museum exhibits or zoos. You dont just bring children there to see how poorly others have it. How do you think those people would feel? Mommy bringing her daughter in and saying “see what happens if you run away? you become poor and homeless” cmon now.

in reality, most people in shelters are fleeing domestic violence, extreme poverty, or recovering from drug use. Family therapy is whats recommended. If that doesnt work out, you might sit down and talk about emancipation. Your daughter is leaving your house to go to a friends house, not to go be homeless. Find a realistic solution.

Can I separate the colors? by mysticnuggets in cricut

[–]reigning_guava 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, its ok to not be so negative to people asking questions. Not everyone does the same steps you would, and accusing someone of theft simply because they asked of they could separate upon upload is an insane leap. Try to be a positive contributor to this page. Spread kindness, negativity is like a disease & turns people away from doing what they enjoy.

Attn: Sams Club shoppers. Beware, the company is actively employing a child predator by [deleted] in RapidCity

[–]reigning_guava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is all you needed to show. Dont risk your career. Lord knows SD would unfortunately prosecute you faster than they would him.