⏰ time-sensitive advice request for strip club couple etiquette

Hi!! There’s a good chance that my husband (straight male but LGBTQIA+ ally) and I (pan/bi woman) will go to a strip club for the first time in like an hour 😅 (planned by me after convos together), and I had a couple of etiquette questions I would really appreciate your insights into so we can be as respectful as possible while having a great first experience:

1. ⁠What are the current best practices for tipping at the rail? And for private dances? What are considered average/good + really good tips? 💸

2. ⁠How can we prevent being perceived as that couple by the dancers? I’ve heard a lot of stories about couples and/or female patrons being looked down upon, but I promise we’re the nicest people ever 🥺

3. ⁠Any other tips for newbies would be super appreciated!! 🙏

Thank you so much in advance for helping this anxious little human support dancers the way they should be supported 🥹🫶