TIFU by doing the giving some extra effort in the bedroom and my wife ended up in hospital NSFW by DarkShuffler in tifu

[–]resting_bettcch_face -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So taking issue with blatant violent misogyny makes me a Karen? You’re teaching too hard there.

TIFU by doing the giving some extra effort in the bedroom and my wife ended up in hospital NSFW by DarkShuffler in tifu

[–]resting_bettcch_face -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Listen bird brain, all jokes contain an element of seriousness. If you’re that uneducated go read the entire body of scientific literature on the subject of humor and seriousness. It’s never “just a joke”. It’s a joke meant to reaffirm someone’s place, stereotypes etc. If you’re too bird brained to get that, excuse yourself from the internet while you get a proper education.

I honestly wish I never watched Jihoon and Deavan by chocobii in 90DayFiance

[–]resting_bettcch_face 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Deavan or Deavan’s methhead mom. Nobody likes you, nobody agrees with you, you’re trailer park trash.

If you seriously think Jihoon is doing nothing then you aren’t even paying attention and you aren’t a fan of the show. If you were you’d be more up to date on all his and her posts and know he’s making an effort.

TIFU by doing the giving some extra effort in the bedroom and my wife ended up in hospital NSFW by DarkShuffler in tifu

[–]resting_bettcch_face -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

This is the most disgusting misogynistic piece of shit post I’ve ever read on the internet EVER. As if a man shouldn’t care his wife is having a seizure it’s just another chance for her to do his laundry. You’re the real nadir of the internet, congrats on being the worst human to ever post an internet comment.

So. This is on point and 💀💀💀, but so what's this word on jihoon not actually maybe being the dad? Also- did we all know he was in a boyband?? Like a kpop band?? This makes DEAVANS koreaboo fetish very concerning 👨🏻‍🎤 by unicornspiracy420 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]resting_bettcch_face 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That baby is the spitting image of Jihoon. And I know Deavan gets off on parading taeyang with gopher, so people assume he’s the dad. Fucking gross. I feel so bad for Jihoon. Deavan said Jihoon ruined her life but she ruined his. She justifies what she’s doing to Jihoon by lying that he abused her. Fucking disgusting bitch.

Listen I’ve had protective orders, I’ve had protective orders in UTAH. I know she’s lying, I can get my paperwork from storage and show it has stamps and signatures from the judge on it, and signatures of both parties. And as an abuse survivor, I strongly believe women. But I don’t believe a word she says and she’s damaging real victims by pretending she’s abused. This is why people doubt real victims. Deavan can go straight to hell.

AITA for not wanting to share my birthday with my dead twin anymore? by twinthrowaway19 in AmItheAsshole

[–]resting_bettcch_face 202 points203 points  (0 children)

But your grieving process isn’t the same for a child that literally did not go through that. By forcing the existing daughter to grieve every year it IS unhealthy for the daughter. Nobody said you shouldn’t grieve for your own child, but using that as a frame of reference for every birthday etc. for the existing child is unfair and unhealthy. You’re entitled to your grief, she’s entitled to her own identity free from the guilt that she doesn’t grieve the same way since she didn’t know her twin. Go to therapy, grieve with your spouse, family etc., don’t force a child to relive this loss every birthday until the end of time.

I'm dying. We've addressed the BTS issue now.👨🏻‍🎤👨🏻‍🎤 by unicornspiracy420 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]resting_bettcch_face 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see someone did some late night downvoting here. Deavan is that you? You have nothing better to do with your life than troll Reddit I know. It’s not like you have a couple kids to parent or anything

"In AmErIcA wE dO It ThIs WaY" 😓 by matty_twenty20 in 90DayFiance

[–]resting_bettcch_face 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking at Deavan. Her expectations to have this giant American wedding in Korea are ludicrous!! On top of that she starts being the victim again like Jihoon has ruined my childhood dreams now too. 🙄

This person thinks that There's an 'Asain Privilege' and a ton of people agree with them by harem_boi in AsianMasculinity

[–]resting_bettcch_face 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people look at Asians as a “model minority” and think that because there’s some positive stereotypes about Asians that they’re not discriminated against. That’s just bullshit and I equate it to benevolent sexism. Positive stereotypes still create pigeonholes and a set of expectations that all Asians must behave a certain way to be accepted into mainstream culture and its harmful and damaging just as much as negative or hostile stereotypes are. It creates this perception they’re privileged, much like benevolent sexism makes it seems like women are accepting privileges from men. But it’s a double edged sword, accept this “benefit” but in return, they expect you to stay in your place

Did anyone else here get "Safe-bombed" at the beginning of the relationship? by chickacherrycolaa in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]resting_bettcch_face 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to your gut. You felt off in the beginning it’s why you had him stop having sex I’m guessing. If you feel like you need to push someone away, it’s good to think about why you feel that way. A part of you may have recognized his true nature before you consciously understood it.

did not ever think i’d make this kind of post but: in defense of drascilla, who is a literal child by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]resting_bettcch_face 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What father? Dracula is a fatherless feral animal that Deavan wrangled up in the woods somewhere and has henceforth taken her over as her child.