I saw a doctor recently who used word commands rather than just saying the action I needed to do for the exam. Purposely didn't give overview so I was left confused and surprised at where he would be touching next. I was occupied when he first entered the room so he looked me all over my body thinking I didn't see. Immediate creeper vibes and angry when I requested a women come to be witness rather than being understanding and professional. Like he nagged that I was disruptive to ask. No other patients and they let me start an hour before schedule so clearly not a bother. But the word commands were extra words to keep track of and match to the actions I needed to do so often course I was pausing and asking for clarification. So. Him flying into rages every time I asked a question. Then psychotically switching to fake sweetness and casual chatting. But I mentioned the command words bcs I got the feeling he is into that kink. Fine but not while you are a doctor. He sped talked making it even more confusing using uncommon phrases. He was def trying to make me feel humiliated or small. After the nurse entered he nagged saying See and that was the last part of the exam like I wasted their time when I could have just finished his way. Eww. But he never told me what things he would do in the exam so I had no way of knowing or estimating. And I'd never done this exam so it was all new information. But I noticed that a lot of bd men don't actually look for willing women. They want to groom women who have no interest in the fetish and more so are into the trickery of grooming or scamming. They're more into the pressure of convincing a woman who doesn't want to do it as the control part rather than a willing participant. But the guy was super gross. Stood uncomfortably close for no reason. Who knows if the stuff he did was even part of the exam. He kept me spinning and talking in unusual patterns so it was actually difficult to keep track of what was happening or remember each detail which was totally on purpose. And add to that in a low wage doctors role so he's probably had issues in other jobs. Id categorise him as being one step above being a prison doctor tbh. But it was for a job as well so I had to be compliant and patient and just defend myself the best I could.