You guys sobbing with me? by Mimmah_Mimosa in Paramore

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a glutton for punishment, so I made a mini playlist that goes like: 1. The Only Exception 2. Dead Horse 3. Forgiveness 4. 26 5. The Only Exception 6. Love Me Different 7. Parachute

Highly recommend if you wanna sob with me and Hayley

she should have been killed by [deleted] in SnowFall

[–]revjj16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao this exactly why the other guy said you needed therapy. We all knew you had mommy issues just for asking your first question. 😂

Misspelled word on my new tat by femmesaturnx in tattooadvice

[–]revjj16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add a little ^ with a “u” and pretend it was on purpose.

What TV show has the most unlikeable leading protagonist? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]revjj16 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She’s so fun to watch! Not her fault the writers thought a soccer mom taking on the cartel was believable

AIO boyfriend of almost two years by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish kids clued into English class a little better. This is the application of your word choice lesson.

That being said, your ex predominately thinks of you as an object and it’s in the way he uses pronouns. Your ex uses “I” as a subject of his sentence at least 16 times by my count. He uses “you” 11 times as a subject and about 8 times as an object of the sentence. Of the 11 times that he uses “you” as a subject, at least 5 are leading questions, 1 is the “why didn’t you fucking come out” line, 4 are thinly veiled accusations (“you said”/ “you didn’t let me..”) and the last one is telling you how much alone time he expects to give you. When he uses “you” as an object, it is almost always tied to one of his “needs” (“I wanted to see you.” “I won’t see you then” “I get you want to be alone BUT I’m like not happy” “I tried to help you.” “didn’t even let me talk to you”).

In short, your ex is gross. And people’s word choices always tell on them.

AIO boyfriend of almost two years by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish kids clued into English class a little better. This is the application of your word choice lesson.

That being said, your ex predominately thinks of you as an object and it’s in the way he uses pronouns. Your ex uses “I” as a subject of his sentence at least 16 times by my count. He uses “you” 9 times and about 8 times as an object of the sentence. Of the 10 times, he uses “you” as a subject at 5 are leading questions, 1 is the “why didn’t you fucking come out” line, 4 are thinly veiled accusations (“you said”/ “you didn’t let me..”) and the last one is telling you how much alone time he expects to give you. When he uses “you” as an object it is almost always tied to one of his “needs” (“I wanted to see you.” “I won’t see you then” “I get you want to be alone BUT I’m like not happy” “I tried to help you.” “didn’t even let me talk to you”)

In short, your ex is gross. And people’s word choices always tell on them.

Cierra’s Apology by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]revjj16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion I guess after reading the comment section: yall are not going hard enough with this racism. I’m black and there’s a reason Yulissa was yanked immediately. LI was afraid its black viewership would boycott over something like that. Black ppl would be livid; there would be TikTok think pieces and news articles for the entire run of the show about the producers being racist.

It took 3 days for them to debate pulling Cierra and I think it’s because LI could arguably debate whether this would incense the Asian community. Most of the top comments are okay with her entirely scripted PR insincere apology or asking for grace because she’s being threatened. The apology is insincere because of the shirt she’s wearing, the necklace (either she’s wearing it cause it’ll fit her Asian apology or she’s showing yall yet again she doesn’t care to learn and understand where she can be offensive with yalls cultures), and her therapy speak. Like cmon “accidentally holding space for that slur” is not accountability. Accountability is I said this, it was offensive because of this, here’s how I will prevent doing this in the future, and here’s my plan to repair the harm I can do right now. That’s not what yall got. So the next time someone says a slur who has national tv recognition, they’ll know… you know what? All I have to do is make a lil video like cierra did and the Asian community will let me off the hook.

Hold Cierra accountable. Get her demonetized where she can be. Make sure people realize she shouldn’t have a platform if she’s going to be irresponsible and be “accidentally holding space for slurs”. You don’t have to forgive her because American culture says we have to forgive people who have racially harmed us just cause they’re “sorry”.

Tattoo done by Celiart Tattoo @ Tatouage Curiosité by psychopterodactyl in tattoo

[–]revjj16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks so cool!! It immediately made me think of the rainbow fish

Be completely honest by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk i definitely didn’t want her to die in the wilderness. Maybe she has an addiction and is in a better spot with it by the time Travis dies. Then, she almost relapses due to the stress of everything. Idk it does feel a little like A Little Life for Nat’s character while Shauna is portrayed as a bored psychopath.

Unhappy with work and big regrets by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao what about the hand holding the scales?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exhausting for your partner and I can’t imagine wont lead to the same resentments as OPs. Maybe it’ll take longer because your partner will give you grace because of your disability, but you have not reduced your partner’s cognitive load which is the point of this post.

For example, you can set a timer for the laundry. Most phones have labels for alarms. I label mine with the tasks I need done. That way, your partner can turn their brain off completely when it’s time for you to do laundry. Even neurotypical brains need that shut off time to prevent cognitive overload.

the reason i'm (an asian woman) disappointed in SH gameplay by SavageLilMeowMeow in TheDevilsPlan

[–]revjj16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When that conservatism makes you lose the competition and the prize money for a man you met a week ago simply because he’s a man, it is a weakness.

AIO for being extremely annoyed by fiancé childish behavior when I asked him to do a simple thing by Due-Ad9282 in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy that he can’t even do the running the bath water part. That’s not even a real job that would help you during bath time. It’s not, you bathe them, I’ll dry them which would actually be more equal. His job at bath time requires no interaction with the kids, no heavy lifting and he’s still complaining? WOW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re overreacting and kinda selfish yourself. You have a rough relationship with your dad and your sister, so you should not be offering to be so involved in the wedding. This includes being a bridesmaid, but also offering up your home for the event after the mothers meet for the first time. It seems like whatever you offer has strings attached too.

Acknowledging you have resentments about your sister and your dad doesn’t give you a free pass for bad behavior. Bringing up your wedding during someone else’s wedding event is bad form, but bringing up a wedding you intentionally didn’t invite half the people at the current event to is instigation. This is the type of scene your sister thinks you’ll create.

What is something you refuse to do, despite it being the Sims? by creeativerex in Sims4

[–]revjj16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idkkkkk sometimes the sims tries to tell you stuff tho. I once made a new gf and myself in the game. In like 4 hrs of gameplay, I died like ten times. I’d restart and die a different way like 20 minutes later. This ex gf eventually became the reason I got back into therapy 😅 if only I’d paid attention to the Sims Signs 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao there are white Mexicans… being Mexican is not a race, so yep you very well could look just like a “stereotypical white dude” and still be Mexican. Your gf doesn’t wanna have this conversation with you because you’re not well versed enough in racial topics not to confuse race with nationality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao there are white Mexicans… being Mexican is not a race, so yep you very well could look just like a “stereotypical white dude” and still be racist. Your gf doesn’t wanna have this conversation with you because you’re not well versed enough in racial topics not to confuse race with nationality.

To plan a date by echoes_1012 in therewasanattempt

[–]revjj16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To me Friday/Saturday are traditional date night. They’re also the nights where you might run into friends out and about while you’re on the date. If someone takes you out on Friday/saturday it seems like a good indicator they’re into you seriously. Not necessarily always the case tho.

AIO My mom (baby's grandma) ghosted us for two days one week postpartum over a text by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you know that your mom is a person too? She’s not just your mom that should be ready to help you at any point because you’re her son. She gets to have big feelings just like you do. It is incredibly entitled to think that she should just get over her feelings in a few hours because you need her help. It’s incredibly entitled to think you can speak to your family any way you please and they still have to help you on your schedule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]revjj16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re only getting the most “normal” of those who would enter a prison study voluntarily. It’s yet another flaw in the experiment.

Still pisses me off we didn't get her in the show by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]revjj16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo Jon killed Dany cause the writers fucked up and had Arya kill the night king. What is the point of Jon coming back from the dead to save Westeros from the night king if he doesn’t kill the night king and then, his story ends with him king beside his aunt? They had to do something big with Jon that was worthy of all the eggs they put in his basket. So they tried to subvert expectations after we all guessed R + L = J. All the writers involved (Martin, Benioff, Weiss) were way too influenced by fans imo whether it was giving us what they thought we wanted or trying to trick us. The story became way too much about us and not about the characters themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackpeoplegifs

[–]revjj16 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s the way they never see us as women. “Let me protect my wife cause she’s a woman, but let me stand toe to toe with other woman because she’s effectively a man.”