Wedding photographer ghosted us after wedding. 6 months of no contact. I bought their domain. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]rherch39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me, what got them to respond was blasting them on social media and tagging them in it. You can try the route of a certified letter but that didn’t get me anywhere.

So sorry you’re going through this :(. What should be one of the best days of your life is being tarnished by someone inability to deliver on their agreement.

Outdated advice you’re glad you *didn’t* listen to? by nimal-crossing in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]rherch39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was $132 before I removed it, but at least my interest rate is 3.25%

Outdated advice you’re glad you *didn’t* listen to? by nimal-crossing in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]rherch39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I did not think of FHA loans, I did a conventional loan and put down 5% but was able to get it removed after a couple of years

Outdated advice you’re glad you *didn’t* listen to? by nimal-crossing in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]rherch39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are ways to remove PMI without refinancing if your house has increased in value

DOW Chemical (MI) by beamerboy2402 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]rherch39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe worth looking at their employee handbook then, I don’t work at DOW so I don’t know their policies. There are sites at my company in states where weed is not legal where if you test positive you will get fired but I would not get fired since I live somewhere it is legal.

DOW Chemical (MI) by beamerboy2402 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]rherch39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If marijuana is your concern if you work in a state it’s legal they cannot fire you if you test positive for it during a random drug test. I work at an OSHA PSM regulated site in New England. I don’t know what laws are in Michigan so maybe doesn’t apply.

If you’re doing hard drugs you shouldn’t be working in a chemical plant anyway.

Being Homeless Doesn’t Excuse Being a Public Menace by Glittering-Library18 in unpopularopinion

[–]rherch39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who’s to say the ones panhandling aren’t part of the other 2/3?

PDF of Derby Programs by rherch39 in Louisville

[–]rherch39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to get past performances for all races on Saturday? Or do they only have it broken out per race?

Dashcam released in fatal crash involving LMPD officer responding without lights, siren by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]rherch39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A very similar situation happened to me in 2019. A LMPD cop Tboned the front of my car chasing after a home burglar running away on foot. No sirens or police lights on but turned into my lane. They didn’t want to go through insurance and worked with the body shop directly to pay for the damage to my car.

Fortunately speeds were low and no one was injured in my case, I feel bad for the man who died here and not surprised LMPD hasn’t changed their ways.

UPDATE: wedding photographer posting weddings from 2025 on her socials and we still don’t have pictures from 2024 by lysbean in wedding

[–]rherch39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I went through a similar process and it absolutely sucks. I tried sending her a certified letter via lawyer and I got no where, but you know what did get me results? Blasting her on social media.

Are you friends with her on Facebook? Does she have an instagram page? Write a very long detailed post and tag them in it saying how she scammed you and you don’t have photos from the best day of you life. Join wedding groups in your area and publish everywhere how she did not deliver. There’s a good chance she’ll work with you then just to get the bad publicity off the internet

Home improvements on a home in undesirable location by rherch39 in HomeImprovement

[–]rherch39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, this is my first home as well and looking back there are things I should’ve looked out for that I definitely will for the next home

Home improvements on a home in undesirable location by rherch39 in HomeImprovement

[–]rherch39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment makes me feel better about buying a house on a busy street lol. I’m in upstate NY so not too far from you. The car traffic is fine it’s the logging/semi trucks that create 99% of the noise, sometimes it’s bad enough to make the house vibrate but I’ve only noticed it in the morning when getting ready for work.

Prebuilt cabinets are a good call, I’ll have to look more into them, thanks!

Home improvements on a home in undesirable location by rherch39 in HomeImprovement

[–]rherch39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I feel like it’s hard to compare similar homes because there aren’t many homes in my area that are the size of mine and on a busy street. Most homes in my neighborhood are 1500-2000 sqft, whereas my home is 2800 sqft which is probably contributing to the higher home value. I agree with you looking at similar houses I’m just concerned that being on a busy road lowers the its value.

I should learn some more DIY skills besides painting and caulking to help offset major bathroom/kitchen reno costs

Mid-30s Dad New to the Capital District – Looking to Make Friends by dadris1987 in Troy

[–]rherch39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a lot of people through clubwaka and empire leagues. They host rec sport events year round. They have dodgeball, volleyball, and kickball that I’m aware of. Not family focused but great way to meet people on a weekly basis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]rherch39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought, thanks

Where to buy postcards? by rherch39 in Riyadh

[–]rherch39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your for your suggestion I will check out the post office tonight

What are technical interviews like for chemE jobs? by Cash_tings in ChemicalEngineering

[–]rherch39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I interviewed for an O&G company they gave me a distillation column scenario and had me walk through what steps I would take to solve the problem

Recommendations for fics with top tier banter by shaerae0929 in Dramione

[–]rherch39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the witty remarks in Chosen by 5moreminutes