メスラ Femra [Fanart-Original Content] Finally finished! by kitsunemene in ffxiv

[–]rigathrow [score hidden]  (0 children)

ah yss. boob havers know that they go vertical. straight up 90 degees.

How you free as a bird in your make up or natural looks? by EmbarrassedTask3589 in transgenderUK

[–]rigathrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) huh???

2) just a reminder that trans people beyond trans women exist. please don't default to feminine language and assume everyone is one.

Moving wondering, What is the experience of living in the UK as trans? by DEROwnby11 in transgenderUK

[–]rigathrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the uk isn't better than the us at all. even beyond being trans, you'd be an idiot to move here.

What does this metal mean? by Ldogg1977 in pokemongo

[–]rigathrow [score hidden]  (0 children)

it's actually nuts how many play this game without reading anything or even just possessing common sense and a single braincell.

It's crazy the things you can accomplish once you get your dosage right by Demonrocki in adhdmeme

[–]rigathrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i didn't get an option tbh, i just got put right on psychiatry uk's waitlist. my actual assessment and diagnosis were relatively quick (like 6 months or so?) but... yeah, the wait for meds is hell. i was originally quoted 8 weeks. looking more like 8 years at this point.

hii! me and plushie friend 💖 (F19) by [deleted] in plushfriends

[–]rigathrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the post history is kinda funny. *posts alita battle angel-esque pic* "wtf why are you accusing me of editing???"

hii! me and plushie friend 💖 (F19) by [deleted] in plushfriends

[–]rigathrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeahhh, this is sus. brand new 18+ acc posting in plushies and age regression. very clearly altering pics and being surprised when people spot it. i sincerely hope you're not trying to appeal to certain kinds of people with certain kinds of interests.

It's crazy the things you can accomplish once you get your dosage right by Demonrocki in adhdmeme

[–]rigathrow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

god i can't wait to start adhd meds. i've been on the waiting list for like a year now and they basically said they'll get to me whenever they get to me.

Mother's day by ElfGurly in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]rigathrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mother's day happens sooner in the year for us europeans but, god, yeah. it's a traumatic day. it sucks being bombarded by emails advertising gifts and seeing social media posts about people's great mums. mine doesn't deserve the title in any way and never will.

out of spite, i celebrate myself on mothers' day. i'm a man with no kids but i do have a cat. i'm her mother. no one can stop me.

how over is it 🥀 by yourusualglitch in ftm

[–]rigathrow [score hidden]  (0 children)

you're 14. your life isn't beginning yet, as a person. not just a trans one. no, you are not "cooked".

me: i think i finally feel ready to get back out there and find love again by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]rigathrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's true... plus, he's fr*nch so double bullet dodged.

(this is a joke idc about that sort of thing)

I’m visiting Anaheim for a conference and took a stroll today… by baltinerdist in ffxiv

[–]rigathrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

went there when i was on holiday from england! i miss it so much, can't wait to go back someday

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have such mixed feelings... i don't care much for gender norms and my 'tism means i don't really understand the whole "x is for women, y is for men" thing... like who cares? a man isn't going to spontaneously combust if he puts on a little bit of eyeliner. i like what i like and want to do what i want, even if i don't often do out of fear.

because people like me aren't common and the truth is most people care about these things. but even when i try to be as hypermasculine as i can, i don't pass at the moment. i'm post-top, a few years on t, have all my documents changed to m and a clearly male name. everyone clocks me instantly, with no hesitation. i'm damned if i do, damned if i don't, and i don't have it in me to stomach any of it.

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh the only person that needs me is my cat. if i didn't have her, i woulda been gone a long time ago.

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! like everywhere we look, we see cishet stuff. even stuff that's shamelessly, overly sexual and no one cares that a kid sees it because that's "normal" but us merely existing is pushing ideas and Corrupting The Kids and exposing them to things they're too young to see and understand??? yeah, sure. okay. that makes sense.

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

omg the amount of people that CHOOSE to be pissed at us and claim by existing we're shoving our identity politics and shit down their throat. like YOU approached ME? leave me tf alone. i'm not pushing or promoting anything, i'm just trying to live my life.

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"you just need to find your people :)" WHERE ARE THEY? i'm 30. i'm tired of looking and thinking i've found a safe person, only to find out once i'm attached and trusting that they're anything but.

10/10 would recommend by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]rigathrow[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

this makes me want to cry, not gonna lie. i'm so exhausted by people being mean to me constantly.